Good question. And while it would be convenient and nice to not dig deeper, learn how to parent special needs differently and be willing make changes–the truth of parenting adopted children actually is that most every adopted child will have unique and special needs quite different than children who have NOT been through transition, trauma […]
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Thank you so much for this and in the morning I am going to watch the videos. We brought home our son (kiddo #4) from ET 10 months ago and he was about 2 1/2 then. We are struggling!! Things were rough, then good, and now rough again. My good friend Eryn was there this weekend and I can’t wait to read your blog posts and pick my friend Eryn’s brain about this weekend. I am hoping to come to the retreat next year!! Thanks for the encouragement!!
Andrea, thank you! I hope alot of this will be part of the CFC retreat next year. Love that you 3 got to go! xoxox Esty
Wow, I see a lot of my R in the paragraph in which you talk about tantrums. I’ve wondered for a while if R has some sensory integration issues— I would definitely say she does at this point after reading this post. Thank you.
AMEN! What a great recap post. I too, feel incredibly empowered to help my baby girl, and truthfully, some great tools for our WHOLE family. I am so excited about these tools and want EVERY adoptive/foster parent I know to have the opportunity to learn from it! GREAT post!
It was nice to catch a glimpse of you in person 🙂 Eryn
This post is so good! While I knew that I needed to parent Malachi taking into account his early separation from his birth mother It never crossed my mind that Eli may have similar needs due to his week separation from me in the nicu.
I just have to say – I LOVE your blog!! I am mom to two precious cuties through domestic open adoption (and am a friend of Kimberly Chalk…I think that is how I found your blog!). I would love to hear more about the group you mentioned. I will definitely check out the links. Blessings,
Gretchen
Sounds like she has had contact with the STAR Center Sensory Therapies and Research. They are doing ground breaking Sensory Integration Therapy which reprograms the brain. All adoptive mommas should read the Out of Sync Child because it tells about Sensory Processing & how to change the brain through meeting their sensory needs. They are awesome!!!
thank you for this post. i’m going to link to it!
Finally have some time to sit down and catch up on your blog…my, I’ve missed a lot! I love this post and I wish I had known much of this before going to get Caleb rather than months after. This is so right though…even at just 9 months when we got him, Caleb is definitely a child in need of much sensory stimulation! I wish everyone knew all of this going in!