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my life really could be a movie… {another day that will always make me smile}

Okay–I really do have to play-by-play this one with the clock again because…it was FULL…and it’ll make you laugh–cause it really is making me smile sitting here realizing it ALL happened today. Wow. 7:30 a.m. – “Mom, can I wake Isaac up? Can I make some pancakes?” That’s what I woke up too–and with Rico […]

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towles - July 10, 2012 - 10:50 pm

Andrea, you are amazing! Truly. How you do this with a sense of humor and such incredible faith is beyond me. Keep it up! I will pray for you.

Natalie - July 11, 2012 - 8:24 am

Wow! Y’all certainly had a crazy, busy day! Praying for your strength and patience and sense of humor to continue!

You’d really have to be a fly on our wall…

…to believe what happens in a day. This one I have to document for my own memory. Because it was absolutely crazy. A roller coaster of crazy, sweet, awful and wonderful–all wrapped up in one. My Created for Care retreat planning momma friends got to see some of our crazy tonight. At some moments they […]

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Natalie T - July 10, 2012 - 3:17 am

Andrea,
I understand. I am so grateful that you saw that last part of your day come together for Gods good. Its so hard to see the forest for the trees with our trauma kids. Its also so hard to focus on the trauma when our little’s are being hurt. Bringing home our now 10 year old then 8 was the hardest thing we have ever done. All the things you mention we had to partake in this daily.
It really changed my outlook on adoption because Ruby was adopted at 3 months. It was lovely it was beautiful and it was easy. 8 year old was super hard. We have come BIG strides two years later. BIG. However there still are reminders daily of her trauma. Gods redeeming love is in my face every day too.
Praying for you and Rico while you love this girl and show her the love of Christ and while you learn another piece of the beautiful wonder our Father is.

April - July 10, 2012 - 9:13 am

Wow!! Bless your heart(for real!!) praying!

Jessica - July 10, 2012 - 3:24 pm

It is going to be worth it! Thanks again for so honestly sharing the ups and downs of older child adoption. So many are afraid to take the plunge–and it is definitely scary–but oh so worth it.

Jessica

Laura - July 10, 2012 - 5:42 pm

Amazing story. My prayers are with you all. Thanks for sharing.
Laura

Jenny - July 10, 2012 - 10:53 pm

Oh Andrea, this all sounds so hard yet, like you keep saying, worth it.

I cannot imagine how you get through all of these moments each and every day with such grace and love. I know you are being held close by our Heavenly Father as you walk this difficult path He has asked you to take. He will be saying to you one day, “well done, my good and faithful servant and precious daughter.”

I am praying for you girl and for T and your littles. Praying for the Holy Spirit to fill all of your hearts over and over again this summer.

Thank you for sharing!!

saturday…

ok. going to be short and sweet…with a little hosting fun slipped in…because momma had a FULL day. here’s the run down. 8:30 a.m. Our day started. T is a night owl–so I was up much too late last night waiting for her to go to bed. Momma made a firm bed time rule after […]

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Amber - July 8, 2012 - 10:13 pm

Whew! so many things you don’t think of with hosting a teenager!! You are doing awesome! Glad you found some alone time!! Love following your journey.

Dara Buczynsky - July 9, 2012 - 11:24 am

Hi Andrea! So glad you are getting some QT and setting those boundaries!!! Sleep is good medicine and rules speak ‘love’ to children who’ve never had anyone care enough to set them! I was so encouraged to talk to you the other night and ‘escaped’ from my own home that evening to visit with a dear friend…returned home ready for whatever! I think we’re settling in a bit (said with breath held, fingers crossed, eyes on heaven)…Nadia actually gave daughter, Leah, a ‘normal’ hug good night last night. We were all amazed that she didn’t start the tickling and holding on and baby talking…of course, she followed that up with LOUD strumming on the guitar as I escorted her to bed 🙂 but it was a step forward! I listened to some Christy Knockles on Pandora after reading your blog and really enjoyed her, so thanks for introducing me to a new artist…and I’ll see if Nadia will listen to her. It sounds like you are really having some great intimate time with T and it challenges me to do the same and not just ‘get through’ the day. Sometimes having just enough Russian to get by is a detriment to using Google to really ‘talk’ about the Thing that matters the most. Working on plans to come to ATL next week and possibly get together with you all. Hope you have an amazing day!!!

this is how we do it…

Oh my. I feel like every day is a lifetime. I have much to share from our last few days–but this momma is wiped out. My parents have come and gone. Papa was a HIT with T. We kayaked. We swam. We started her scrapbook. We figured out a better way to communicate (thanks to […]

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Sara - July 7, 2012 - 1:56 pm

“But being orphaned isn’t normal, right or fair–it’s the result of pain and hurt–and these are unfortunate things that orphans carry….I, too, can’t wait for you to see Him and hear those words, “WELL DONE!”

Amen. So well written. I’m just a mom of littles, but those who bring home older children from hard places are my heroes, too.

Jennifer - July 7, 2012 - 3:21 pm

As someone who adopted biological brothers-a 17 mo old and an almost 6 yr old (best guess), I truly understand why the vast majority of people gravitate toward those under two. I am not being negative, but I really think any kids who are older require a lot more time/patience/love to fit in a family than little ones do. Our threesome has become a family pretty easily (relatively speaking), but still……

157 pictures later…

So–we started our day on such a GREAT note–and I truly feel it has to be linked on how we ended our day yesterday. Wow. I feel like my summer days are each a lifetime as we cover so much ground. If you have adopted a teenager before from another country, you know how hard […]

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Corinne Cline - July 4, 2012 - 2:37 am

Ive followed your blog ever since we purchased some material from created for care. Your heart is inspiring. I know that what Jesus calls us to do can be so hard at times. The Lord will bless your family through this amazing experience!! And He will especially bless her life!

Amanda - July 4, 2012 - 10:06 pm

Love your honesty and your heart! Praying for these next 4 weeks and that T finds a family to call hers forever-Amanda