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I managed to get the children all out the door to a parade this morning. Thankful no one got run over by a float while diving for candy. No seriously–my kids were not diving for candy. BUT there were some who were. I officially think kids should be encouraged how to behave even at parades. The ones around us were like wild little animals–I kid you not…I’d never seen such. You can still act like a lady–even at a parade:) Sorry–no pictures of that fun–mommy was keeping the babies warm (it was SO cool this morning!).

Then it was soccer games all day. Thankful for dads who were willing to fill in for Brad and Richard. They BOTH coach 2 teams–(Laney and Parker’s–and our kids are on the same team too…and so fun they are in Africa together too!) With the coaches being gone–Christy and I had our sideline volume turned up a bit more, and we left happy that both teams won! that they had so much fun playing! Alright, I confess–Christy and I also like to win:)

Here’s some action captured from the sideline…

Our girls getting it done!

Setting up in midfield…

This 4 year old rocked it out today…(Brad–you would’ve been proud!)

And then after the game–the parents formed a victory tunnel for them to run through…STILL UNDEFEATED!

AFTER THAT GAME…it was time for the NEXT game!!! This was one I could NOT be quite in!!! P’s team is also undefeated–they haven’t lost a game since Richard and Brad started coaching together a couple of years ago–and today was a CLOSE ONE! Oh the boys would have been so bummed if we had lost while they were in Africa!!! BUT thankfully they’ll be able to give each other high fives on Zambia soil on today’s game–and hopefully again next Saturday too! Christy and I were again a little O.O.C. on the sidelines during this game too…alright–much more at this game too:)

THEN tonight–Holly and I (my most favorite 23 year old in the WHOLE wide world) took the kids to see a 3D movie! “Dolphin Tale” which is based on a TRUE story (love those!) about a dolphin who loses his tail but not his fighting spirit.


I told Holly it’s essentially about a special needs dolphin! Alright–that might sound crazy…but the kids liked it! Frankie baby refused to wear the 3D glasses though so he just looked at the blurry screen as if he needed glasses and didn’t want anything on his head! I’ll say this movie is really cheesy–but has some great discussion opportunities…a little too heavy on the loss/grieving/death topics for kids my kiddos ages–but all ones we have discussed with our children so they were really more into Winter the dolphin. I think it’s super cook they can see the REAL Winter right now on a live web-cam! You can check it out HERE.

While I was getting ready for bed tonight–I couldn’t help but reflect on the truths that HALF of my day was typical of other families across the world and the other half…was full of privilege. Today–other mommies around the world cheered their little ones on in sporting games…played with their families and did some of the dailies that I, too, did…laundry, cleaning after littles, taking care of their babes an spending time with friends. BUT with my husband in Africa and how DIFFERENT our dailies are RIGHT now…I couldn’t help but think of the other half that is SO different.

I took my kids to a parade. I would’ve even been bummed if we had missed it…because we almost did. I took my kids tonight to see a movie–and spent more for all of us to get in and have dinner than most families in the world make in a month. (I did make my kids drink water…isn’t asking them to drink water not living in excess??? This WAS a special outing and not a regular even for our crew–but still…isn’t it SO easy to realize what privilege we live in?!!!!!! I turned on water to brush my teeth…in my HOUSE…in my OWN bathroom. I put CLEAN sheets on MY OWN bed in my OWN bedroom…warm sheets…right out of MY DRYER which is in a LAUNDRY ROOM with another machine for washing clothes. THIS IS SUCH ABUNDANCE!!! I’m typing this from my LAPTOP…without cords because I have wireless for my convenience…and the list goes on. While my first inclination is to say, “Thank you Lord for all you have provided” and turn off the light without thinking about it again and sleeping peacefully…I really don’t want to sleep that easily–and instead remember as I lay down to pray for the millions who do not have conditions that even come remotely close to ours. And to ask Him–how can you use me to use what I have to make a difference in the life of another???

Please pray for Richard, Brad and their other traveling buddy David. Pray for safety and protection–and that they would get much done in the ministry this week as they serve. I sure miss my man–but I rest knowing exactly where he is and I’m so, so thankful that he is there loving on the same children and widows that we were with just months ago. There is nothing like doing ministry with your husband AND other families that you love!!! Can’t wait to hear from them and update y’all!!!

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kim - October 2, 2011 - 7:07 pm

Praying here in Virginia!!

missing daddy…

we sent daddy off today to zambia.

and we picked up a dear friend as we waved goodbye.

please keep rico suave and the other traveling boys in your prayers.

the kids were bummed to see him drive away. we waved. blew kisses. and frankie baby cried, “i wanna go ah-rica with daddy!”

“me too, baby. me too!”

we set off for dinner with our sweet friend–and a team of fire fighters tried to cheer my crew up. no one can make them smile like daddy–but they did think these guys were pretty cool…

then we tried our best to eat–as we sulked. see mr.sad face…

ITY is spending the night with aunt april and uncle harris tonight so i only have 3 to get ready for tomorrow’s soccer games. it’s gotta be one-on-one with the 2 year olds at the soccer games…and ITY doesn’t like staying off the field. thankful for a sister who helps out even when she has a house full herself!

in other exciting news–i bought a $6 hair lighting kit at Target. i convinced myself to NOT use it. then i got bored…and did some damage…

hope y’all have a great weekend!

andrea:)

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Dawn - October 1, 2011 - 8:28 pm

Definitely praying for your hubby! God has used you all in such mighty ways!!! Of course it is always hard when the better half is gone. Praying your time goes well too!

she’s a very lucky girl…

…to have these two boys pick her flowers…

It was really funny UNTIL Isaac said, “MARK. SET. GO!” (Isaac is a smart little guy;) But momma was scared one was going to trip running down the hill to be the first to give our little sweet neighbor a “flowa”. Thankfully, no one tripped. BUT there was some competition to see who’d impress her first!

Now I was like–FRANKIE BABY–are you going to let your little brother beat you there. And he had to think about it for a second. And then he remembered that he has had a preschool class relationship with her going on two years now. SO–he took off. Girls should be fought for;) I’m teaching them early;-)

That boy put on his magic shoes and he was RUNNIN’! (Now if you haven’t heard Frankie baby talk in person…he some times gets a Forest Gump Southern twang to his talkin’. And boy was he runnin’. He passed right by that brother, and his girl met him half way in her front yard. And thankfully…his precious hearted brother was doing what he does best–and still laughing at the race and didn’t notice that Frankie baby won this time:).

LOVE my sweet boys.

This morning Frankie baby woke up and looked at me and said, “Momma. I need to give K anuder fla-ER!” SO SWEET:)

Ya’ll have a great day. Please keep Rico Suave in your prayers. He is taking off for ZAMBIA tomorrow and my heart hurts to see him go. He’s the peanut butter to my jelly…the sugar to my coffee…the lemons to my lemonade! HA! Alright–now that was just a test to see if Rico Suave is still reading my blog!

XOXO!!!

Andrea

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Rachelle - September 30, 2011 - 12:27 am

Thanks for the story, smile, and laugh! CUTE!

Meg - September 30, 2011 - 12:45 am

That picture at the top has my heart a melting! The two of them could not be any sweeter unless they were carrying a bag of sugar.

Dawn - September 30, 2011 - 4:04 pm

Praying for Rico ๐Ÿ™‚ Love your cutie pie boys!!!

here lately…

After 3 years, our apple trees finally reap their first harvest. Parker-man had the honor of picking the first of the fruit…

AND I finally got my camera back from the repair shop…so I finally get to document our crazy lives again through still film…another one of my joys.

Frankie baby wanted a picture with the apple too:)

I usually use Photoshop for pictures-but I’m trying out the inexpensive Aperature on my Mac–I have to say I like Photoshop better…but for quick snap shots…it’ll do:)

The kids wanted to clear out their “savings” this morning to help buy Bibles for kids in South America. The flesh in me wanted to say, “No…not ALL of it!!! But I zipped my lips and decided to watch. And learn from my children. Oh my heart. Love the hearts of children.” I took a picture to remind ME how to live from my little loves…

Tonight was our normal Tuesday night “Dinner with the Dentons”. I just have to say photographing these 3 together in impossible. I need to overexpose to see Isaac better–and underexpose to see Georgia and her blond white hair…they are trying to make it a real challenge for momma! NOW this picture though is EACH of their personalities through and through!!!

…Isaac LAUGHING (this is what he is doing 99% of his awake time. He is living out his name that is for sure!!! Isaac means laughter:) Georgia is doing her thing and Frank is running his mouth and saying his piece! SO funny!!!

In other exciting news–A MIRACLE happened today. I can’t wait to share:) God blew my socks off today…gimme a few weeks and I can share:)

AND…the 2nd Created for Care Retreat is officially open for registration!!! You can register and learn more here: www.createdforcare.org

Y’all have a good week! Momma has some craziness this week with registration opening, Rico Suave jetting off to Africa, our assisted living fun on Friday and a dear friend flying in to visit us on Friday. That’s the way we roll:) Much love from our family to yours!

XOXO!

Andrea

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Brittany - September 28, 2011 - 12:24 am

How glorious that they have a giving heart! We can learn so much from little children. And those last few pictures – just precious!

Dawn - September 28, 2011 - 1:34 pm

Love your pics- glad your camera is back!
Can’t wait to hear your news!!!!
And girl you have a busy week planned!!!

Do you need refreshment?? Are you TIRED?

I am unwinding today from the AMAZING Hope at Home conference. There were about 70 people at the conference…and I have to tell you–I LOVED this part because it was truly a time of RESTORATION and CONNECTION. Believe it or not–I can be a recluse some times…I think it has something to do with having 4 kids constantly on top of me and needing REST.

I wanted to share something from the time at Hope at Home with you all that really ministered to my SOUL…like to the DEPTH of my soul…and if you are reading this far–maybe it is for you too.

Michelle Haswell led a session on REST and the LORD RESTORING. Her husband and pastor of Northlands church felt led to share a bit after her talk–and this couple truly spoke from the Lord. Are YOU there right now?? You know God called you to THIS–but gosh…the “THIS” often leaves you feeling really tired. You feel you once had margin, peace, joy, easier days…but some of those things you have (as Michelle put it) “hung them back in your closet. For a season–during a transition of a new one home, a change in your family or just the changing stages of your children–you have had to hang up something your heart once held as precious. And doing without some of these things for too long–has left you tired.

The Lord loves you TOO much to leave you in that place.

Earlier that day I was praying about what God wanted to give the ladies at the next two Created for Care retreats. I thought about HIS FAITHFULNESS…even His faithfulness THROUGH the tired. A song came on that morning as I sat in the prayer room by myself–I knew the Lord wanted to remind me of this…and He wants to remind moms of this as they come in January and March…and RIGHT NOW.

Turn the music off up top. And listen to this:

MY GOD HAS BEEN FAITHFUL.

Praise Him!!!

He is good!

Always!!!

Do you want to know HOW He has been faithful to me???

Can I tell you???

All the things I prayed for…He has answered these…

My godly, amazing husband Rich. I prayed for a man who would love me as Christ loves the church. Thank you Father for him. I was full of fear I would never be a mom…my heart LONGED for this. Parker. Laney. Frank. Isaac….and our little girl coming. THANK YOU. I longed for a third child…I hated the months of trying and waiting…but Lord–you taught me what GIFTS Parker and Laney were in this…how all my children were miracles!!! You taught me in the hard months how PRECIOUS my children are!!! I THOUGHT I knew…but you really showed me!!! YOU are Faithful!!! Never once did I ever walk alone…I see that now Father!!! Through the journey of following you I have been tired many times. THIS is one of them. But you carry me. I lift my hands. You are FAITHFUL. Every step…you showed us the way. In our adoption wait–I thought my heart might burst. Would you really bring us a son??? We were SO SURE you had called us. Some times the waiting led to doubts…to fears. And then–we saw Isaac’s picture. You are faithful. I worried would he walk–would he do this or that? Yes, I know You tell me not to worry…I see Lord–I get it. YOU. ARE. FAITHFUL. You love me. I can trust You!!! My son walks. He laughs. There were months I wondered if he would love me back…HE DOES. You are faithful. I love the hard things. I love the beautiful things you have given our family through them. Some times I doubt the new adoption journey–CAN I REALLY PARENT ANOTHER CHILD? It’s not too late to run;). BUT I know YOUR voice. You are faithful. And we will not be walking alone. The world might look in and shake their heads…they might not approve…but we seek YOU Jesus. We want Your approval. We want to trust the ONE who is FAITHFUL to us…yesterday, today and always. Thank you LORD for your FAITHFULNESS!

Sooo…as you listened to that song…what came to your mind? How has HE been faithful to you???

I have to tell you something pretty cool. Sitting in Michelle’s talk about REST and RESTORATION…I remembered that ONLY HE brings rest and restoration. Only HE rebuilds. And WHAT He rebuilds is even more beautiful than what you gave up to follow Him. And in time–He brings BACK many of the things you had to “hang up” for a time. Peace…joy…strength…whatever they are–He is faithful to bring those things back again.

After the talk, Greg and Michelle played that VERY song…for us to listen to. The VERY song I felt the Lord showed me just hours earlier and as I listened I felt the Lord say “THIS is what I want you to know and remember!” HIS FAITHFULNESS.

And the tears began to fall. As I remembered HIS FAITHFULNESS–I wept. And REST filled my soul. As I thought about His faithfulness…my mind and heart felt strengthened and even restored.

I was reminded this weekend–my children will always, always, always have countless needs and requests…but the thing I need (and what they also need) MOST is for me to put BOTH of my arms wrapped around my Father in Heaven and fall in love with Him all over again…and again…and again.

The Lord Is My Shepherd

A Psalm of David.
The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.
He makes me lie down in green pastures.
He leads me beside still waters.
He grestores my soul.
He leads me in paths of righteousness
for His name’s sake.
Even though I kwalk through the valley of the shadow of death,
I will fear no evil,
for you are with me;
your rod and your staff,
they comfort me.
You prepare a table before me
in the presence of my enemies;
you anoint my head with oil;
my cup overflows.
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me
all the days of my life,
and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord
forever.

How wonderful it IS to reflect on the Lord’s faithfulness!!! I feel ready and excited to start my week…and so, so thankful I have a personal relationship with a FAITHFUL God in Heaven!!! How amazing it is to be the daughter of the King!!!

XOXO,

Andrea

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Elizabeth Smith - September 25, 2011 - 11:22 pm

Both of my K kids have just memorized Psalm 23… So all of this is so fresh on my mind! I adore that Psalm so much because each time I hear it I have a visual in my mind! The words are so amazing! Thank you for sharing your heart!

Christy - September 26, 2011 - 6:52 am

This is my FAVORITE song right now. We have this cd and I’ve even got to playing it so much that now my 2 year old says “again!” when it ends on car rides. ๐Ÿ˜‰ Another one by him was “God of Our Yesterdays” that carried us through some very long hard days during a difficult season, and it still brings gratitude to my heart now every time I hear it. Glad you were able to get away for some rest and refreshment this weekend. I was just telling a friend going to C4C how I don’t know how in the world you do so much! ๐Ÿ™‚

april - September 26, 2011 - 7:11 am

Never once is a song i heard a few weeks ago and God used it in a mighty way for my heart and healing of grieving annabelle, it has since become my anthem in a way. i love the song.

Kelly - September 26, 2011 - 7:12 am

Thanks for being real and for including the “it’s not too late to run” comment. Whereas, you followed it with a ;), I recognize the truth in that statement. We’re in the process of adopting siblings from Ethiopia, and this LONG wait is breeding ground for DOUBT! I’ve found myself stating your comment exactly on occasion. I mean, we already have three kids! I believe Satan is at work in trying to prevent two more orphans from being in God’s family (and ours). I’ve been going back to “You, God, will provide what I need to parent five children.”

Elle J - September 26, 2011 - 10:53 am

Just as I needed today, Andrea!! Thanks for the words of encouragement and truth. xo

Courtney - September 26, 2011 - 2:16 pm

i really needed to hear this today. 3 months into bringing 2 boys home from africa and i am TIRED to the CORE.

Audrey @thebrownbrigade - September 26, 2011 - 3:45 pm

I needed this today girl.