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The perfect Sunday…AND Frank…

I know I’m not the only one that feels this way–I JUST LOVE MY MOMMY JOB! We have just had THE best Sunday together…saw Nana and Papa back off to Alabama (WAA!) before church…headed to church and Isaac went to Sunday School with Frank and made it the ENTIRE TIME without them needing to page me! (Folks–thats 8 months of going to church every Sunday and sitting in the foyer with Isaac! You have NO IDEA how sweet undistracted worship was today for this mom! Granted I kept making sure the beeper was working as I thought FOR SURE it would go off–but he did it!!! This was just the 2nd attempt…last time he lasted 5 minutes but this time the whole time!!!)

Because worship rocked my face on this morning–I have to share the most amazing song we sang. It’s a song by Christy Nockels–and I would listen to this during our adoption journey…all the unknowns…all the hoping and waiting for our sweet boy…I would turn this up in the minivan and sing at the TOP of my lungs (cool in the mini-van right?!) I LOVE the words…

I have a prayer request for a little guy in Uganda. He is a 1 year old sweetie who is HIV+. He is blind and deaf. He needs medical care…and a family…a very special family. I can’t help but think about how God must love this boy. Please pray for him…and that God would be His fortress. I think about this song–a Mighty Fortress is our God–we will keep our eyes on YOU Lord. Stories like this one make me long for Jesus to just come on back! BUT I also have to believe that He is going to come to this boy through a family some where. God is just that BIG. Please pray.

During worship I constantly think of children all over the world–and sing my trust in the Lord for His care of them. My how getting involved with orphan care through things like Wiphan and then traveling to bring home our son have changed me. I feel officially weird but also like I am in the right place…and while my heart breaks for those who have yet to experience LOVE in their hearts–I also see so much HOPE as God continues to call many to work through them with His power. I thought about how incredible it was to look in my backyard last night to see so many running around whose stories I know–and how miraculous they are…and I know the same God who orchestrated families for these will be enough for those who wait or will never know a family on this side of heaven. God IS enough–and He has favor for those who cry out to Him.

I came home from church and just enjoyed my babies. I took my regular Sunday nap with my Laney-girl…something the girls do together…just us…every Sunday. And then Parker, Laney and I went on an outing while daddy stayed back with the babies. We ate chocolate cake before dinner tonight (thanks to Emily Vogeltanz leaving her cake platter from the fellowship last night) and then we spent the night cutting out and sorting felt Bible stories. Such a perfect Sunday.

THEN as if it couldn’t get any better, I checked my email when all was quiet and found THESE from yesterday’s game waiting in my inbox from a dear friends sweet mom. THANK YOU NINA for the most precious pictures of our batboy Frankie-baby. Have you ever seen a 2 year old batboy that just melts your heart like THIS…(oh look at that little round fist sticking out of the glove on the wrong hand…MELT!)

For ONE hour EVERY Saturday morning Frank does NOT leave his daddy’s side. He stands there–watching and doesn’t leave his side. It is THE most precious thing–and will be one of my most treasured memories…EVER. There’s no running on the field for this kid or acting a nut–he just stands there and walks 2 steps behind his daddy. And melts his momma’s heart when he looks her way and waves.

Hope you all had a GREAT weekend!!! Thank you Lord for the JOY you bring us as moms as we follow and trust You for our lives!!! I ran across some pictures that HAVE to be scanned–and a few stories that HAVE to be told…gotta get on that because it’s just amazing to see how God works and weaves His perfect hand through our lives!!!

XOXO,

Andrea

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Kim - March 21, 2011 - 5:58 am

What a beautiful song.
Love your heart for Mommy-hood.
And that FRANK … he melts our hearts too!
Love & Blessings from Hong Kong,
Kim

Christy - March 21, 2011 - 7:00 am

Love that song. Also loving Natalie Grant’s “Your Great Name.” We sang it in church yesterday and among other lyrics, “the fatherless, they found their rest at the sound of Your great name” got me. HE will care for them. What an amazing God we have.

African Family Fellowship night!!!

SOO…tonight was African Family Fellowship night at our house! We TRY our best to get together once a month when we can. AND although it is crazy for everyone to come probably–I will speak for the crew and say we really think it’s worth it! While we were in the adoption process–we looked at other areas of the country and felt like there were amazing pockets of families who do life together…who all were called to grow their families through the miracle of adoption. We’d look around here–and while we were sure there were other families being called like ours–we just didn’t know them yet!

While there are millions of orphans throughout the world–God does care for them in very amazing and unique ways…in our group alone there are about 4 orphan ministries represented where we are caring for orphans across the globe through 60Feet, 410Bridge, Wiphan, and Passion…just to name a few represented by our group! It’s amazing to meet with these others and hear what God is doing through their ministries–but it is ALSO incredible to DO LIFE TOGETHER and to get to raise our FAMILIES TOGETHER!!! Crazy to think not every family could come tonight when you see how God has multiplied our group and brought us all together…

What I love so much about this group of people–is how each of these families has an AMAZING story how God called them to adoption. Each story is so unique–and their journeys are full of MIRACLES…as are each of their children. Some in this group have been home for years–while others are asking questions and praying…and just beginning their journeys…feeling like God is asking them to grow their families and be mommies and daddies to little ones they have yet to meet and instead of carrying under their heart for 9 months…they will be asked to carry a little one IN their heart and jump through hoops and wait and persue a precious one…to raise them in His ways and to have another little one running through and adding JOY to their lives!!!

I LOVE the perspective of these families…the perspective they have about what REALLY matters in life. I love that we have all been changed for the good–we’ve been refined and we are STILL being refined as we die to ourselves to love our children in ways that bring them a deeper sense of their identity in Christ and belonging in this world–that they were created for a PURPOSE and to know how LOVED they are! These families SHARPEN me…and I am just SO thankful that I get to do life with so many of them!!!

Jesus loves the little children…all the children of the world!!!! (And here is Mr.Silas feelin’ some of that love…he LOVES to ham it up at picture time!)

SOOO thankful tonight for these children who are home and for the littles ones who will soon be home!!! AND so thankful for these families and for God’s sweet provision for us through one another’s love and support!

Hope you all have a GREAT Sunday!

XOXO!

Andrea

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Cheri Rogers - March 20, 2011 - 12:55 am

Oh my stinkin’ goodness – Mr. Silas is SUPER cute!

Kim - March 20, 2011 - 2:18 am

WOW! That is one BIG group! What a HUGE blessing to have so many like-minded families right in your area!

Kim - March 20, 2011 - 5:10 am

What a blessing to see how God grew this community after His own heart!

Sandi - March 20, 2011 - 3:11 pm

This just fills my sometimes depleted heart up! It is times like today when God brings yet another family into our lives who is in such desperate need that I just want to cry. The need sometimes seems so great & I wonder why, God, why? Then I read your blog (& His Word). Then the Ah-ha moment! Then I remember that with GOD all things truly ARE possible & no need is too great for HIM! These stories & seeing God work in so many lives to glorify him make it all worth it. He uses weakness for his glory. Love, love, love to see the amazing ways God brings people together to show that he really can move mountains! I soo needed this today!!!

audrey - March 20, 2011 - 7:39 pm

That is wonderful. We prayed for all of the families last night. I can’t wait to join in at the next one. And, Silas is such a hoot. So adorable. ๐Ÿ™‚

Tiffany - March 22, 2011 - 4:46 pm

Oh I LOVE these pictures and am so sorry we missed it! Life has been SO full…just can’t seem to do it all. This is so special though…hoping the crazy calendar will allow us to come to the next one! ๐Ÿ™‚

angie - March 22, 2011 - 5:08 pm

so fun! i LOVE african fellowship night!!
did not realize there were so many families there! LOVE IT!

Time to Get Your CUPCAKE on! (Sixty-Feet)…and Little Bo Peep

Spring is in the air–and there is nothing more fun than getting the kids out and doing something as a family…AND with friends!!! Do you ever think, “Gosh–I want to do SOMETHING for the sake of orphans…but I’m not sure what WE could do?!”

Well, here is an AMAAAZZIIIIINNNG (AMAZING!) opportunity!!!

Children (young and old;) throughout the country will be joining efforts through CUPCAKES on April 16, 2011. Yes, you heard that RIGHT…through CUPCAKES. Last year, 60Feet (an AMAZING new ministry in Uganda–if you don’t know about 60Feet then you MUST…and after you visit their website HERE–come back here and see how you can join the cupcake force with us on April 16th!)

Soooo…these kiddos decided to sell cupcakes last year to go toward SixtyFeet kids–and they raised more money than they ever DREAMED. THIS year–they are giving other kiddos THROUGHOUT the country the invitation and challenge to join them!

You can read about how to join this effort and host a sale of your own on April 16 by going HERE. SERIOUSLY–I can’t think of a better way to involve kids in making an impact–something FUN and practical that THEY can do…and an incredible way to raise awareness at the same time!!!

NOW…whether you host a sale or NOT–you can help by purchasing one of the CUPCAKE tees (there’s one for all!) And there’s also SixtyFeet tees–that you can purchase to help raise awareness too–with of course all proceeds going toward the ministry! AND if you are hosting a tee–HOW FUN would it be to have your little busy bees all in THIS gear!!!

They have ADORABLE kids shirts with Africa and a cupcake over Uganda! LOOOVE this. They have these in both blue and pink!

They have YUMMY applique shirts for the girlie girls…of course these would be cute for birthday parties and such too…and all proceeds toward an amazing ministry!

AND of course if you are already going ALL out your mommy team might as well gear up TOO in these…

Last put not least–the FIRST SixtyFeet tee…and you can have the pleasure of telling others what SixtyFeet is all about when strangers ask! LOVE this…

You can purchase the T-shirts HERE!

We just love this ministry and can’t say enough about the team of folks that God has brought together to run it. I LOVE that they all live in my city–and we get to do life together. SO thankful for them…and so excited to share them with you!!! OKAY–so if you are going to host a sale–I would LOOOVE to know! So who’s in?!

A little bit from home…

A few things you must know…I discovered this morning that the leprechaun traps my kids set up did not work. P and L were both very sad this morning to run outside and see them empty. P, however, was certain that they played on his slide (and I was certain P’s dad wouldn’t be excited when he saw what P tore off the house to use AS a slide for a leprechaun)…

We had lots of green for dinner on St.Patty’s day…including green whoopie pies for dessert…

AND then…this morning (just after mourning empty leprechaun traps) we dressed Loo up like Little Bo Peep for her nursery rhyme debute…

We were so proud of her performance (I’ll have to upload that later!) and my how this girl adores her daddy…and how proud we were of her!

AND special thanks from Frank to the mom who brought donuts to the performance for all to eat. You made a very happy audience member…

That’s all folks! Hope you all have a GREAT weekend!!! We’ve got a big, fun one ahead–so I’m sure there will be lots of pictures to follow on Sunday! NOW…go mark your calendars for April 16th and get geared up for fun cupcake sales ALL over the country!!! Frank is sure to be excited about this one!

XOXO!

Andrea

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Kim - March 19, 2011 - 11:24 am

I love watching you do life so beautifully!
Love & Blessings from Hong Kong,
Kim

Ashley - March 19, 2011 - 2:20 pm

We’re doing cupcake sales in Missouri!

Taryn Harvey - March 21, 2011 - 9:12 am

We are hosting one April 15th at Guardian Angel Preschool in Florida ๐Ÿ™‚ We are getting as many families and children involved as possible, both in making and buying!!!!

Susan - March 28, 2011 - 10:05 pm

We’re having a sale with all of my neighbors in Birmingham on April 16!! Can’t wait!

Baseball, Daddy/Daughter Date…and Organized Simplicity!

BASEBALL

One of my FAVORITE seasons has begun!!! The one that starts with a B!!! BASEBALL SEASON! I just love it!!! And this past Saturday was P’s first game of the season! He is 6 years old, and they skip t-ball in this particular league and only pull the tee out if you miss the ball 5 times. No sense in learning on a tee and then having to UNlearn it…so they just DIVE right in–and they DO AMAZING with it! Parker got 3 hits and most of all–HE HAD FUN!!!

He plays in the pitcher position so he has to be on his toes and ready to catch!!!

His coaches take their roles QUITE seriously…especially the short one–Frank seriously thinks he is one of the coaches!

DADDY DAUGHTER DATE

While Laney plays in sand–and two of Parker’s biggest fans cheer him on!!

This was ITY’s FIRST baseball game EVER!!! Ok…we had to work on a wave for the camera…

THEN–after all the boy stuff–it was TIME for the princess to go on her date. She has been talking about this for weeks and trying to decide what to wear…

Parker totally understood his date with momma is NEXT. BUT–the babies DID NOT. They LOOOOVE having daddy on the weekends–and when they saw ONLY LANEY was going…THIS WAS THE REACTION…

SOOO…momma can’t handle big alligator tears. Yes, of course I could come in and tell them, “Now darlins–it’s the way the world works! She gets her turn–and you boys have to wait yours.” ORRRR. I could throw clothes on everyone and tell them we are going for milkshakes and burgers at Steak-n-Shake with momma! AND…all of the sudden…you get THIS…And that’s how we rolled…and everyone was happy. We went through the drive-thru and came home for picnic!

ORGANIZED SIMPLICITY

THEN I survived all week flying solo (praise the Lord Rico Suave just got home!!! SO thankful to have my helper again!!!) In our crazy this week–I have been reading Organized Simplicity and applying the purging principles. My kids may want to admit me for walking around my house picking up things as I ask, “Is this beautiful to me? Is this beautiful to us?”

Let me tell you this–if you REALLY want to SIMPLIFY–do not ask the Organized Simplicity principle question “Is this beautiful to us?” around your pre-schoolers. “Oh YES! That is beautiful too. You can’t give that away momma!” The purging has been most productive during nap time to say the least. GoodWill is about to rack up on what we don’t think is beautiful to us:)

And while I ABSOLUTELY think the portraits of my little ones are forever beautiful–we were missing portraits with our newest…SO it was time to update. I decided to go with COLOR instead of the black and white…and instead of horizontal I changed the update to vertical.

{BEFORE – Black and White portraits}…

{AFTER – Color portraits}

Special thank you to my dear friend Shannon Holden for the 6 center images…thank you for capturing our family’s love for one another! You can check out Shannon’s photography HERE.

Sooo…watch cha think?? Does color give it a totally different look? I think most stick with black and white for wall groupings–but I think color is kinda fun! Don’t you??

THEN…I proceded to do “Is this beautiful to me?” to the nicknacks on the shelves…and I think bookcases can be a headache–but I tweaked a bit and think I’m done:)

One way to take away from bear/negative space is to add a frame in the base/wall of a bookcase. And some times–you have to keep older portraits up and never replace the ones that forever melt your heart (can you believe it’s Parker in these pictures? It goes by so fast!)

I love little reminders of His provision–and for me…it’s always been symbolized through birds (you know some of my crazy ‘bird’ stories!). Love using different things for bookends…

AND I’m a LITTLE SLOW I know–it’s MARCH and I JUST took the manger scene off our mantel. YES…it’s TRUE:). And I added something that says ‘Spring’…’new life’…to me:)

LAST but not least–I have to tell you I used to put up “pretty pictures”…but these days–I am putting up more pictures that just melt my heart OR MAKE MY SMILE! Now…if you are a Frank fan;) you’ll love this. Frank makes this “OH MY GOODNESS!” face when he sees something really amazing. SOO…It is “HIS” face–and I LOVE that I have it in this picture. He spotted Uncle Buck’s HUGE tractor tire–and thought it was AMAZING. He was saying “LOOOOOOOK! TRA-TER!” I even got it enlarged…so I could see it…on the wall–like EVERY day:)

TO COME…

While I was PURGING I ran across some more CRAZY pictures from back in the DAY–and I think I’ve GOT to take the next couple weeks and shamelessly share some of those with you! On a serious note–there are some PRETTY incredible things to share from those days–and they make a really amazing impact on the NOW for us. SO…I’m going to be scanning away and sharing some of those in the days ahead. Hope you all have a great week!!!!

XOXO,

Andrea

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Bonnie Nieuwstraten - March 17, 2011 - 12:56 am

I DO love your new picture wall!! You have inspired me. Too many of my pics have been up for way too long! And, I love the pics like the one of Frank too. He won’t make those faces forever, and you don’t want to forget.

Kristin - March 17, 2011 - 8:57 am

Your home looks so inviting. Very calming! Where did you get Laney’s dress? My girl would love that! Laney wears the cutest clothes!

emily v - March 17, 2011 - 9:16 am

you are so fun! you inspire me! Can’t wait to see ya’ll this weekend!!!!
EV

Kim - March 17, 2011 - 10:21 am

Your sweet girl looks BEAUTIFUL! What a fun date!

I love your picture wall, too.. LOVE it!

Kim - March 17, 2011 - 10:37 am

Baseball and home deco.
All of a sudden I am feeling homesick.
:o)
Love & Blessings from Hong Kong,
Kim

If you are THINKING about coming to the Orphan Summit 2011…

You might want to come just a WEE bit early for an afternoon designed for adoption moms…followed by the Desperation Band for worship—and the kick-off vision with Tom Davis. Soooo…if coming to the Summit was on your RADAR…I’d LOVE to meet you at THIS…

Visit www.christianalliancefororphans.org for more details on the Summit and to register for this! It’s going to be sooooooooo good…WATER at the WELL for your soul!

XOXO!

Andrea

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Shelly Roberts - March 16, 2011 - 8:32 am

Hey!, I was SO excited to see your name on this the other day. ๐Ÿ™‚ We’re “planning” to come early so I can attend this special afternoon event. Would love to connect with you. Blessings!, Shelly

Nicole - March 16, 2011 - 9:25 am

Hey there!! I have followed your blog via Kristi Johnson for a long time…I comment from time to time, but mostly just love reading your posts. I have a heart for the orphan…I am not sure if that will lead my husband and I to adoption or if we will just continue to donate to the cause–but I pray that all works out how HE has planned. But today–your post sparked something in my brain…you are coming to Louisville, KY!! That is where I live and we attend Southeast Christian Church!! How very cool—such a very small world. I am sure you already have a room, etc–but know if you need anything at all there are friendly faces in the area–also Kristi’s little sister, Karson, (my college roommate) also lives here now too!!

Lara - March 16, 2011 - 10:04 am

Ohhhhhh I wish I was going!! I’ll either be in Africa or broke from saving to go to Africa.