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It’s been 9 years…

…since I stepped foot into a gym.

I thought that was pretty impressive. I broke the record last night–and I signed up for a gym with my 4 kids…one that we can actually do things together at. One that has a really fun play area–so when Rico Suave is out of town for a week…I can take the kids to…then I can go to the Yoga room with sound proof walls when there’s not a class and just stare at the walls…in peace:) I’m not a Yoga girl–don’t think I can “feel the energy”…but I have a feeling when Rico is out of town I can sneak in there and absorb some peace.

P-man heard me call Rico to tell him I joined and was a member now. So Parker turns to Laney and says, “Laney, we are members!!! NOW, we can play any games we want, we can go to the Zoo whenever and the aquarium…and…and…”

Don’t you just love the mind of a 6 year old? He thought being a member meant you could go ANY WHERE he has heard people talk about being a “member”. So funny:)

THEN…on the ride home…Loo-bear was playing in the backseat with her Barbies. Here was the conversation:

B1: “There is something I have to tell you about Ken.”

B2: “WHAT?”

B1: “He is allergic to nuts.”

B2: “Really?? Are you sure?”

B1: “YES. And wheat too.”

B2: “That’s okay.” (deep breath from B2) “REALLY. It’s going to be okay.”

Don’t you just love GIRLS:)! Oh…I need another one don’t I?!

In other exciting Young family news…Frank is officially potty-training and refuses to use any bathroom outside of our home. BOTH of Isaac’s tubes fell out, and he has a double ear infection. Frank and Isaac will BOTH start preschool next week…just 2 mornings a week. Parker turns 7 on Tuesday. And tonight at the gym pool–I caught Laney baptizing Parker. Asked her what she was doing over there and she said, “Momma. I just baptized Parker-he believes in Jesus!” I think the lifeguards there might think we’re crazy and we’ve only been there for 1 day:).

And momma IS crazy because she is in the midst of planning a rock-your-face-off adoption momma retreat that I am SUPER excited about! It does require at least an hour a day from this point forward until January…some days more–but I’m telling’ you it is AMAZING and worth every bit of effort we put in!!!

Alright–promise an update with pictures next time.

I’ll leave ya’ll with one of THE most encouraging blog posts I’ve read in awhile from a mom/author who was certain the Lord called her to bring home 2 children. SO encouraging and amazing…and thankful I ran across it on someone’s blog tonight: The Hatmaker Family’s Blog. Good stuff.

Hope y’all have a great weekend!!!

XOXO,

Andrea

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Alison - August 20, 2011 - 1:54 pm

I loved reading her blog post! Thanks for sharing! And I got your sweet comment on our new number! And guess what? You were right…we’re already “unofficially” number 28!!! I love that that was your first number for Isaac!

Krystal - August 20, 2011 - 7:42 pm

I really enjoyed reading her blog entry…thank you so much for sharing that and for sharing your story with us also…it’s very encouraging for my family and me as we go through this adoption process…thank you!

An update on our journey to bring our little girl from China home…

I am learning to surrender to Jesus…and to follow my husband.

These are two things–I confess…that I struggle with.

I like to be in control. I like to get things done–and I am secretly driven by the motto “if you want it done right–do it yourself.” SO…I stink when it comes to delegating. I rarely say no to a task…well, because if I want it done right–you know the rest. And I have seen this pattern play out in little things like planning perfect birthday parties to big things like making family decisions (which by the way…really aren’t my job).

I am married to an AMAZING man who trusts my walk with the Lord–and often when I say I feel led to do something, he holds my hand and walks with me toward it. When we decided to adopt our 4th child, it was after seeing an adoption slideshow on YouTube that left me weeping in my seat. Granted, I believe I was moved by the Holy Spirit and a seed was planted–but ultimately…looking back now…I feel as if I was in the driver’s seat. Of course I slowed down and some times put ‘er in neutral to wait for him to get on board. And eventually we were right there together–going full force in a paper chase to bring one of the most amazing kids on the other side of the planet HOME.

When we talk about the journey to our son…it is truthfully remembered by momma making lists. Momma telling him what to do…fingerprints on Friday at 3:30 at UPS–DO NOT FORGET…doctor’s physical next Tuesday for bloodwork at 5pm…made it for 5pm dear so you wouldn’t have to take off too much time for work…and meet me at 2pm at Starbucks–need you to initial everything and then we’ll pop in the UPS next store for everything to be notarized…GOT IT?

I read the books and gave him 10 minute Cliff Notes talks. Encouraged him to go to Together for Adoption conferences…come on honey it will be fun to connect with others on our journey. AND Travel time came…naturally–I was more “attached” to the journey and I went…while he stayed back with the children. Truthfully, he wanted me to go because I am a stay-at-home mom and it made more sense for ME to go–especially due to the face we had an 18 month old at home going through separation anxiety. We needed to maintain as much peace in the hearts of our children as possible as a new transition was about to happen. BUT also what was happening…is I was the driving force when God created a husband to be…and I need to hold his hand and follow instead.

Thankfully, we serve a God of grace…and He works miracles around me…and nothing can thwart His plans–not even a “get ‘er done…gotta get my baby home…nobody better get in my way” ME. Thank you Jesus.

Earlier this week, we were talking and gaging our hearts on this journey to our precious daughter in China. We were laughing about how my plate was full with Created for Care Retreat planning, homeschooling our children, Wiphan Ministry work…and can I just say homeschooling our children again for full-plate-status-sake again? Our plates are full…but we absolutely feel the Lord asking us to grow our family once more. Yet something within me doesn’t feel *I* should be the one getting all the things done. I have done it before–so it would make sense for me to do it again as I know what all the abbreviations, forms and things mean–but I felt in my heart…I need to hand this completely over. And I did.

I asked him if he would like to take care of everything this time…to be the one talking to the caseworker…to tell me what I need to do on the checklist and when…to LEAD OUR FAMILY IN GROWING…and be able to pray for guidance in timing for each and every step. Part of me thought he would tell me that he really had no desire to…how thankful he was that I did everything and wanted to…and just to let him know when and where to be once again. But my beau smiled–not thinking I’d actually hand over the “sacred white 3 ring binder”…and I clinched it tight for a moment.

“Do you want this???”

Can you part with it and trust me to do it?

GULP. “Yes.”

I know as a wife, my beau would like me to trust him and how the Lord leads him…so whether it’s done in 3 months or 3 years…I am excited–and I want to trust how the Lord leads my husband to lead our family. For the next few months, you may not see many “China adoption” updates–because there probably won’t be pictures to document the steps and some times…my beau may even forget to tell me what he did or didn’t get accomplished. And that’s okay. Momma is going to be the momma…do the job the Lord has called me to do RIGHT now–and trust my husband to lead and drive our family as the Lord leads.

I only had about 30% of the things checked off…IF THAT…and it’s out of my hands–and that oddly feels good. If you run into me and ask where we are in our journey, my answer will probably be, “That is a GREAT question!” BUT having one little girl–I know there is just something so special about a daddy to a little girl. And I love that my little girl’s daddy can tell her…that he jumped through a million hoops to get her home. That he went to a million places to make sure she’d be in his arms soon. That he prayed for God to lead him in His perfect timing…so one day our hearts would be matched together…because it was God’s plan for us to be family…for her to be his little girl.

I walked away feel so refreshed…knowing that all was going to be taken care of…so many things I thought I had to do–no longer did I have to worry about a one. And it reminded me of the cross. What our lives should look like. Taking our loads and giving them to Him…releasing all the things we hold most dear to Him…and trusting Him, our Creator, with the outcome. I love when marriage mirrors Christ’s relationship to us, and His love for us. And I love that THIS is the picture of how our daughter is being brought home. My heart longs for her just the same…but this feels RIGHT…and I’m so excited to see how He leads.

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Elle J - August 18, 2011 - 12:35 am

Amen!! This is fantastic, Andrea. I love how you wrote every sentence; it is so positive and uplifting. Well done – letting go, trusting Him and him, and beginning the journey in a new and equally special way.

Sandi - August 18, 2011 - 2:37 am

Okay…wow. I told my hubby tonight that he had a son from another mother-sponsored child. I told him my stories of my day of the man with the torn sock, in the wheelchair who needed help…of the young man who needed a little something extra…of the woman who lost her job who needed help buying her medicine. When I thought he was going to say, “Ok go back to work if you are going to give away my hard earned money”, his response was simply a smile. He said he had a heart to heart with our 7 yr old about what it means to be christian while mommy was gone. I think God gives us laid back husbands because he knows that they will be the calm and the still when our hearts are leading us to go and do. God is so good.

Lara - August 18, 2011 - 9:39 am

I am so glad to know I’m not the only one that’s captain of the Adoption Ship. It’s so hard to give over control, even to my spouse.

Kristin - August 18, 2011 - 11:04 am

Oh wow. I am weeping right now because I know that feeling. I am in awe of what you are doing and I applaud you and your husband. Your family is a beautiful picture of what God can do if we let Him lead. I have been following you for some time now and have been so enlightened by your lives. Thank you for sharing what God has laid on your heart!

Alison - August 18, 2011 - 1:20 pm

I LOVE this, Andrea. I have had to step back SO MANY times and realize that I am the one trying to make the decisions and lead our family…instead of letting Jody do it! I love that you are giving this adoption journey to your husband to lead ya’ll! Way to go! I know it must have been really hard to hand over the 3 ring binder!!!

Dawn - August 18, 2011 - 1:27 pm

WOW!!!! I am such a control freak when it comes to adoption. I am the planner, the checklist person, the person who wants it done yesterday- 3 months ago would have been better!! YOU are amazing for doing this…..can totally see God in it ๐Ÿ™‚

Tracy Sheehy - August 18, 2011 - 3:13 pm

I struggle with that same thing. When you said you read the books and gave him the 10 minute cliff notes…I had to laugh because I do that too. Thank you for sharing!

Our first day of school…

Just wanted to report and document our FIRST day of homeschool! I didn’t sleep a WINK Sunday night…tossing and turning…wondering if THIS was the best thing for our kids this year. EVERY year, we always reevaluate–and beyond a shadow of a doubt Rico Suave and I felt the Lord leading us to homeschool our children. As he traveled to meet different clients during our time of praying about this last winter and spring, it was quite amusing how almost every dinner and meeting he had with clients–the subject was brought up by HIS clients and how their families were homeschooling and how AMAZING it was. So, Rico Suave was on board long before Mama Young. But I’m there now–and this week marked the first day of what we have been researching and preparing for months on end!

I have two babies of course that I know will be the most challenging aspect to our learning…BUT they will also be our entertainment and provide us lots of laughter. Because the babies like to sleep in–we decided to rise early…and I woke up the kids around 7:30am when my alarm went off. (LOVE that my kids get to get more sleep…I’m quite the nerd when it comes to education and back in my teaching days I went to a weekend on learning and the brain. Most kids need WAY more sleep than they actually get. SO, I love that they can get more sleep when they need to now! But boy were they ready to get going once they got up!

We’ve been at an AMAZING private Christian school the last two years–but they get to go at their own pace now…and also be challenged at their own pace too. Lou whizzed through K math on day 1–so we’ll probably keep reviewing for a few weeks and move her on up to P’s 1st grade math. As a former teacher, I just love being able to move on to the next thing and really challenge the kids so they don’t get bored. My favorite line of Laney’s on Monday was, “Homeschool is way harder than school mom. My brain hurts.” And then Parker said like any boy would, “But Lane, we get to go get a snack and drink when ever we want!” So funny:)

Here is Loo working hard on math…

I wish I had video of how we start our day! We start with a devotional (Read through the Bible with Betty Lukens felt) and it was SO COOL to start with creation and let them all put the pieces on the board as I tell the story so they are a part of it. Then we will learn a hymn that goes along with our unit. So right now we are learning about creation in science and history–so we are learning St Francis Assisi’s hymn “All Creatures of the God and King”. (I told them a funny story about St Francis Assisi’s love of birds which they thought was pretty funny too!) AND THEN…the babies invaded.

I got the babies engaged in the train table so we could work on history. We introduced history talking about OUR history. We called all the grandparents and great-grandparents the night before to interview them. THEN we made books about our history to document what we learned about their past…essentially OUR HISTORY! (Can I just say I LOOOOVE The Story of our World curriculum already! It ROCKS!) Working on our books…

For those who have already gone to be with Jesus in our history, momma shared about their lives and we talked about what we did know–which led to discuss how we are able to know things about their past (stories passed down from us, letters, pictures, etc) and this is how we know history!!

I *thought* they could complete the entire workbook on everyone in a day–but I forgot it takes little kindergarden hands much longer to write. SO, we’ll complete this throughout the week! MEANWHILE…the babies had crawled upstairs and got VERY quiet. I debated whether to take advantage of the quiet and continue teaching or run upstairs to see WHY the quiet. I ran upstairs…and discovered they had tag-teamed to get the pantry doors opened and gotten out Trader Jo’s JoJo cookies. NICE. (You know they are SO good…they just couldn’t resist…the little stinkers!)

It was definitely time to engage the babies…so it was time for SCIENCE! We introduced our text from Apologia which will cover Astronomy. We talked about what astronomers do–and how astronauts and scientists discover things…so we “became” astronauts for a bit! We turned off all the lights and I opened up the “window” of our spaceship (aka “Solar Walk” app on laptop). The kids WERE amazed!!! They could not BELIEVE the wonders that God created!!! CAN YOU BELIEVE GOD CREATED THIS!? Oh if I could have had this lesson taped for my heart to hear over and over…the talk of what heaven must look like…how BIG God is…how amazing and creative He is.

Our spaceship began to approach Earth, and we identified all the places we knew…and they thought it was really cool how you could even see how it was day in the Americas but night time in China and Africa:)…

THEN…they went to each and every planet, explored space rocks and Oo-ed and Ah-ed over the craters on the moon, the rings rings and the radiance of the sun.

I loved watching their faces…and even Frankie baby participated:)

Love Laney and Parker’s expressions in these…(excuse our darkness…space can be dark!)

LOVED seeing their excitement and JOY of learning!!! We are traveling every day this week in the space rocket I’m sure–they love it! This is a great app for you to have at home if your kiddo is also learning about astronomy!

We did writing, phonics, reading…and we called it a day. AND THAT’S what our days pretty much look like–with Tuesdays being our day for fine arts where we go to classes outside our home. We are going to visit Gigi for lunch tomorrow…and Thursday we have an appointment at an assisted living to meet some of our soon to be VBFFs for the year. We figured we’d share our art and some of our crazy stories with the elderly…and probably learn quite a bit from them while we are at it too!

Sorry I won’t be able to document our daily lessons folks. This momma is doing way to much in our learning day to document it all!!! BUT I’ll definitely share them here and there because I know this year…like the others…I will want to remember forever.

Y’all have a blessed week!

Andrea

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Amanda - August 17, 2011 - 4:56 am

Hello! I am a lurker and decided to come out to ask you a question… I am homeschooling while on the mission field in South Africa. We started on Monday, also. We are doing the Apologia Astronomy and I was wondering what the actual name of the app you are using it? Did you get it from the Apple Apps? I am looking forward to following your new journey! Thanks!

Erin Crenshaw - August 17, 2011 - 6:39 am

What a GREAT day, Andrea!! I loved getting to “see” it!

Rebecca - August 17, 2011 - 7:14 am

Love it. Having the kids learn at their own pace is such an opportunity. I am homeschool preschooling this year. I need to check out the felt Bible stories that you mentioned.

Lara - August 17, 2011 - 9:18 am

I want to be in YOUR homeschool! Hee hee hee. I’m so glad for you that you’re enjoying it.

And Laney’s comment about her brain hurting is any teacher’s best compliment! When I was a teacher, on days kids said stuff like that I knew I was doing something right.

Alison - August 17, 2011 - 1:54 pm

So fun!!! Looks like it was a great day! And I wish that my alarm didn’t go off until 7:30! That would be great??? Ok, I am finally going to have to ask, what is Trader Joe’s??? We don’t have those down here in MS…

polly - August 17, 2011 - 3:12 pm

So glad y’all had a great first day. I told you last year that I knew you would make a wonderful homeschool momma. You have the gifts it requires or at least those gifts make it a bit easier. Can’t wait to keep up with your sweet family through out the school year. We haven’t even started (except my oldest)…. should have started this Monday but just couldn’t happen. Oh well, we’re shooting for next Monday :)PB

niki - August 17, 2011 - 4:29 pm

are you using “the story of our world”. I have searched for it and cannot find it…only “the story of the world” is it the same thing, and if not…where I can check out what you are using?

Dawn - August 17, 2011 - 6:59 pm

LOVE YOUR FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL!!! Can’t wait to get started here….chomping at the bit….waiting for this move to be done ๐Ÿ™‚ so we can get to it!!!

Great fun!!

marci - August 17, 2011 - 8:56 pm

Such sweetness….you will take them places that will forever change them and far beyond the galaxy of learning.You are courageous and I am so proud of you. Ya’ll google Tom Marshburn…he flew STS 127 for NASA he is Uncle Tom….SIster’s brother in law…one of 7 children…the last of the bunch…Presbyterian Pastor his daddy…SO, Tom is now going to fly in his next Mission with Russia…he is an MD and speaks fluent Russian…Blessings !

Carisa - August 31, 2011 - 9:39 am

I have been meaning to comment forever and finally remembered to jump on the actual blog-I read on my iPad at night in Google Reader ;-). Anyhow, I thought today would be a good day to say hi and “I read your blog!” since I wrote a post about adoption on my homeschooling blog and I mentioned that I “stalk” adoption blogs ;-), thought you’d like to know yours is one of them!! http://1plus1plus1equals1.blogspot.com/2011/08/photography-adoption2-loves.html

I also wanted to welcome you to the homeschooling world, I LOVED your post with the denim jumper…cracks me up!!!

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Teacher workday:)

Oh my…momma’s heart is beating a little faster and I feel a bit excited and nervous just like I used to back in my teacher days. Monday is our first day of homeschool here, and I truly have no idea what to expect. Everyone tells me your first year is the hardest, but after that you start to see so many of the rewards of teaching your children at home and teaching to their learning styles and at their own pace. I worked with my soon-to-be kindergarden princess some this summer…and looks like she’ll start kindergarden in 1st grade;). (Not really–but she’s pretty stinkin’ close in most areas! I see I’m gonna have to watch out with a few of my cookies–I mean, we don’t want them graduating too early…but then again–if they did we could totally go have a “gap year” in Zambia or Ethiopia or wherever together before too cool college began;) We’re going to do a bit of kindergarden as review for both of my kids–but I think they are pretty much on the same page 1st grade, and we’ll be ready to roll come Monday morning! (Go ahead and pray for my two room helps Isaac and Frank…MWF are going to be nuts. They go to preschool on Tu/Th…so that will help our focus some!)

I have my FIRST day planned all out. I’ve gone back and forth how to schedule our day

…do we do all subjects each day like “normal school”

…or do we take the university approach and do 2 days math/science/mandarin and 2 days english/reading/history (with touches of latin through history too)

…all of our arts on Tuesday (they are privately done through art and music teachers on Tuesdays)

…Bible each day (to start our day)

I’m leaning toward that right now because after planning our English, reading and history lessons–I think we pretty much get in a full day. For those of you who homeschool and have found what works well for your younger kids–please spill the beans and I’d love to hear what you have found works beautifully for your team.

Might I add that I’m stoked–super excited–can’t sleep at night can’t wait and I’m coming up with creative deliveries instead of counting sheep–for the curriculum we chose this year!!! I probably have way TOO MUCH curriculum this year, but being a former teacher I just had way too much fun researching and considering my kiddos’ learning styles and which they’d be most intrigued and challenged by.

I sat for HOURS and HOURS today pouring over books deciding what our first day would look like…and I’m really excited for Monday to get here. We do have a “pre-learning” activity set for tomorrow which involves 8 interviews to conduct of family members. Monday will cover “What is History” (totally digging Story of the World curriculum already!) and we’re making our personal history books before diving into cave man status.

I think I’m going to love knowing exactly what the kids are learning and how we can just talk about it here and there throughout the day. I’m excited about seeing more of their hearts and even more of their flesh…and working through things beautiful and ugly in our hearts together. I can’t wait to spend Tuesdays watching them grow in their music and drama classes…walking the nursing home and assisted living halls of our chosen places to invest our Friday afternoon in together…watching them be uncomfortable and hopefully throughout the year it becoming second nature to run up to people we would normally not have the privilege to know and be friends with. We are doing life different here folks–and to some we might look really weird…but this is where and how we feel called to live right now. Not for the culture or to fit in…but to just do what we feel in our hearts is right day by day. It may lead to crazy field trips, over our head service projects or many days just in our pjs re-doing a chapter we just are struggling to grasp. My main goal this year…is the hearts of my children. And I’m so honored to have the privilege to nurture them a little bit more this year through homeschool.

So stay tuned…to our first day on Monday.

And our first day will be followed by a Wiphan board meeting at our house…so stay tuned for more Wiphan updates too. So excited about the year ahead in SO MANY WAYS!!! I feel like we are really living…and while I will be plum tired at the end of each day I’m sure–I have a feeling I’ll be rocking on the front porch (that we don’t have) when I’m old and grey affirming with Rico Suave that it was all worth it.

Signing off…to go count more lesson plan ideas rather than sheep:)

XOXO,

andrea

P.S. I thought you’d like to know…my laptop broke several months ago, and I finally got a replacement today. High five to Apple–they gave me the teacher/student discount for being a homeschool teacher:). PRETTY SWEET DEAL!!! So thankful!!!

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Becca - August 14, 2011 - 8:28 am

Praying for you all!!! Cannot wait to hear how tomorrow goes;) i was homeschooled for 11 years……and i love hearing about other families that are starting!

Kelly - August 14, 2011 - 8:41 am

I loved this post! It reminded me of my homeschooling days and all my special times with my own mom and it also reminded me of my teaching days! ๐Ÿ™‚ I have to say, the nursing home thing is by far one of the best ideas I’ve heard of for homeschooling families, i love, love, love it! Look forward to watching your new adventure unfold!

Erin Crenshaw - August 14, 2011 - 10:00 am

I am so excited for you guys, Andrea!!!!

Christy - August 14, 2011 - 2:41 pm

So excited to hear how everything goes, and also to hear how you entertain Isaac and Frank. That is our hardest thing around here because my littlest creates quite a distraction and makes learning tough sometimes since we dont have a room far enough away for him to make noise at his heart’s content without everyone else hearing. ๐Ÿ˜‰ At least yours have each other. ๐Ÿ˜‰ I will be using Story of the World for 1st grade too and excited to get going too! Hoping to learn lots from you and your creativity this year in homeschooling like I do in everything else! ๐Ÿ™‚

Rory Cookman - August 14, 2011 - 6:05 pm

You’ll love it Andrea! I have no doubt you’ll be great at it too, from what I know of you through the blog world.:) I have four little girls 7, 4, 2, and 8 months (and more on the way from Ethiopia). This will be our third year of homeschooling, and even on the hard days I have never once regretted our decision. And you are so right to include serving others in your curriculum.:) Outside of all the fun and crazy learning we do around here, getting a chance to serve our neighbors and our church is one of my favorite things. Be blessed! Gonna be a great year!

Beth - August 14, 2011 - 10:04 pm

good luck tomorrow! You will have so much fun. I homeschool our crew. They are 6,5,4,3,3 and 1. Right now I’m focusing on the older 3 and adding the 3 year olds in in a few weeks. Our day starts with Bible and poetry. I use eating times as read aloud times because their little hands and mouths are busy:) After breakfast we do as much book time as they can take (handwriting, math, language, science worksheets). We do science experiments all together before lunch once or twice a week. Then during the little ones nap time we curl up and they read to me. You will find your groove…then loose it…then find a better one:) I’m excited to follow you and get some ideas!

Courtney - August 15, 2011 - 10:45 am

So excited to see all the fun stuff you come up with Andrea! It is my dream to teach my children one day and I get giddy just thinking about it. Have fun!

Created for Care Retreat…coming up!

Alright…we are getting geared up and ready to share some news!!! We will post a list of all the breakout sessions THIS weekend for you to checkout! They will be posted here, on the C4C blog, on the C4C website AND on the Created for Care page on Facebook. I’m SO excited about this next year that I could POP. Seriously–I almost need to make a video to tell y’all the scoop because it’s going to be so stinkin’ awesome!!! The only real difference you’ll see below is the cost–we added an additonal meal…along with a few other things–including the retreat T-shirt. You mommas getting the T-shirt at the retreat will save this momma from months of late nights trying to package tees;).

It is super affordable–AND get this…they are giving us the SAME crazy low rate of just $109 per night…and you can come with other moms–and split the room up to 4 ways. You pay for the retreat at registration but you don’t have to pay for your room until you check out! Sweet to split those up:). Thought you’d like that. Soooo…mark your calendars!!! Last year we filled up in 48 hours…so I wanted to let y’all know about this so you can start planning now:). SOOOOO EXCITED!

Here are the details…feel free to share! YES–you are welcome if you haven’t adopted yet and simply have a heart for adoption!!! OR if your daughter is coming and you’d like to simply join her…we’d love to have you! And I’m sure she’d love knowing you “get it” and understand what her family is going through as they hoop jump and wait…and wait…and wait:). Can’t WAIT to see ya’ll in just a little over 5 months!!!

Here’s the low down…

More to come!!! Our rockin’ web momma is going to make buttons and banners to go on your blogs and such, so you mommas who joined us last year or those who already have heard the word can help us spread the news before registration day!!! I want the word to spread near and far–so those adoption moms who really need this time away to retreat and be refreshed hear about it! CAN’T STINKIN WAIT! (AND…can I just say…I secretly hope to have a referral of our little girl by then. IF I do…I’ll totally share her picture with ya’ll on the big screen;).

I’m gonna end this post on the purpose that brings us all together–a sweet adoption slideshow of my friend Lauren’s sweet family. At the last minute she couldn’t come to the retreat because they got the call they would be traveling to Ethiopia! HERE is the video of their journey!!! We love you Mareto…and we are so, so thankful for you. So Lauren and I live in different states–but you Created for Care moms know…that us adoption moms just connect through our journeys!

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Kim - August 13, 2011 - 12:49 am

Cannot wait! I will be there!

Christy - August 13, 2011 - 6:48 am

You are amazing – planning all of this, Andrea! Does the conference center have shuttle service from the airport? Or is there a way to find a ride there?

Andrea Young - August 13, 2011 - 9:21 am

Christy–The hotel doesn’t offered it–so last year we decided to go the extra mile and pull off this service ourselves. What we learned was…it’s not worth it. Moms paid $45 for roundtrip shuttle service. If their flight got delayed–there was nothing we could do and their spot still had to be paid for because we got the rate we did based on the number of ladies committed to using the service. If they missed the last shuttle, they had to rent a car. Using http://www.priceline.com we found those ladies who missed their flights car rentals for just $45. SO…we are suggesting moms to do this instead and then they pay the same and don’t have to wait an hour at the airport for the next shuttle. AND they can leave the retreat when it’s over whenever they want (some had late flights but they had to leave at 10am and miss the share session b/c so many had early flights–and they were bummed about that…but we only got the $45 rate if we did multiple shuttles on Friday and just one on Sunday). Tough stuff. SO…technically if moms have the option for making it even cheaper by sharing their flight times on Facebook and hooking up with another mom to split the car rental with!!! At worst, you don’t split it with anyone and pay the same as you would for a shuttle…but it’s way more convenient!!! There is an $8 gate pass fee once you get there–but you only pay that for the entire weekend and you can come and go as you please with no additional fee at the gate:)

Rory Cookman - August 13, 2011 - 9:41 am

Woohoo! I can’t wait! It looked amazing last year and I am so excited. In fact, since I’m on Pacific Time over here I’m gonna have to camp out by my computer on August 31st (you know, like those nut-bars outside Wal-mart the day after Thanksgiving:)) just so I can make it in time! AAAAHHHHH! Is it September yet!?!?!

Leigh - August 13, 2011 - 10:40 am

Can’t wait!!!! it was amazing last year and just a few days before we got our surprise referral for our son!!! I have to say, I am practicing typing quickly because it’s going to fill up fast!!! haha!

Alison - August 13, 2011 - 1:27 pm

Yay!!! I am so excited to see this! Last year C4C was AMAZING!!! I can’t wait for this year, and I will definitely help spread the word! Hope we can bring an even bigger crew from Mississippi this year!!! ๐Ÿ™‚

Sara - August 13, 2011 - 2:04 pm

So excited for the retreat! And thank you for sharing the video. Just what my heart needed today. ๐Ÿ™‚

Julie Johnston - August 13, 2011 - 7:25 pm

So excited! Been planning and saving for it all year….can’t wait!

Farrah - August 13, 2011 - 10:02 pm

Is the retreat for moms who have only done international adoption?

Andrea - August 13, 2011 - 10:10 pm

Farrah–It’s for domestic…international…foster care!!!

Rebecca - August 14, 2011 - 7:07 am

Wouldn’t miss it! Happy to help if needed. ๐Ÿ™‚

Stacy - August 14, 2011 - 9:38 pm

Thank you so much for sharing the info and the video…every video I see, I hope brings our family one step closer to it being US in the video. ๐Ÿ™‚ I can’t help but cry with every one I see. Beautiful!

Lauren - August 15, 2011 - 9:49 pm

I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO excited!!!! I’ve got September 1st burned in my brain with my fingers ready to type! ๐Ÿ˜‰ Thank you so much for sharing our video!! Love you!!!!

chris anne - August 17, 2011 - 2:03 pm

if i remember correctly we were told at the awesome retreat last year that we would have a guaranteed this spot this year, is that still true? i am so excited!!

Kristy Jeansonne - August 18, 2011 - 9:56 pm

How many spots do you have for the conference?