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Melkam Genna!

Today is the day Christmas is celebrated in Ethiopia! We celebrated it by gearing the whole crew up…

LOVE my sweet crew! Aren’t they the cutest:)!? I could just gobble them up!

We met up with some other Ethiopian families downtown to celebrate. Here’s ITY baby on our way down. He was doing what he does 24-7 on car rides…COUNTING TO 10! And THIS is how he counts to 10 EVERY. SINGLE. TIME: 1, 2, 3, CHICKEN, 8, 9, 13, 10!


No matter HOW many times you tell him that CHICKEN is NOT a number–he STILL says CHICKEN after 3:)

Here’s the crew with daddy before going in to celebrate!

CHECK OUT Parker man’s FIRST crew cut! Oh my heart! I have to keep reminding myself that his hair is NOT MY HAIR!!! I am just not a crew cut girl–but because this boy is sporting it–it’s starting to grow on me! It is HIS hair–and HE loves crew cuts…even in the winter:) Afterwards we went to Gigi’s cupcakes for dessert! For any gluten free mommas out there–did you know you can call ahead and order gluten free (as long as you order 12 they’ll make a batch just for you!) AND they also have gluten free EVERY Wednesday:). You can find a Gigi’s close to you HERE. Rico Suave learned a LONG time ago–the way to THIS mom’s heart is NOT FLOWERS! It’s Gigi’s cupcakes:) This is Isaac’s favorite…

The only other exciting news I have for you–we went to Parker’s basketball game…where Christy and I (one of the Created for Care trio sidekicks) completely got out of control. I mean…I say we aren’t going to scream…we will keep our seats…but without fail–we get loud and can’t HELP but get into the game! Oh man! I grew up with 2 sister and sports were not our thing. I’m going to have SO much fun with 3 boys. My advance apologies to any one who has to sit with me at sporting events of my kids:) I can’t help but get into them!!!

SO…that’s all I’ve got. Exciting, huh;-)?! Blessings to you all this weekend! Melkam Genna from our family to yours!

WIPHAN NEWS!!! Kristin, Wiphan Zambia’s intern has safely arrived back in Ndola, Zambia!!! You can read updates from her HERE and also sign up to follow her blog there too!! We would LOVE to have you all praying for Kristin and the kids…and you can read her updates there! WE LOVE YOU KRISTIN and we are SO THANKFUL for your willingness to go and serve Wiphan and the 450 children we serve!!!

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Kristin Barringer - January 8, 2012 - 2:48 am

Thanks for the prayers Andrea! It is good to be back in Ndola! We need to skype soon!

I’m back…did ya miss me?!

Alright–so it’s been awhile before giving an update…a REAL update! Soo…thought I’d fill ya in!

Things have been PRETTY CHILL at the Young house. The biggest news as of late being our dryer broke–AGAIN.


Sooooo…just TWO Black Fridays ago–Rico Suave and I thought it’d be fun to go wait in the Brandsmart line and get a new dryer–because we needed one. We bought this really nice Kenmore front loader dryer that has now broken THREE times…and almost caught on fire once! The highlights were it was energy efficient and played a cute little tune when it was done drying–but after it broke AGAIN this week…we were done with fancy dryers. Boo to Kenmore.

Thanks to Craigslist and a kid who buys used dryers, repairs them, sells them (and doesn’t call you back after he delivers them because it’s a rigged up dryer)…we are now the proud owners of a Whirlpool that was just $100. Granted it doesn’t cut off on it’s own so you have to keep checking it every 30 minutes–but at least it doesn’t catch fire like fancy pants up there…or at least not yet:-)

Our house sounds EXCITING, huh?

No new knows with our adoption. Still on hold. And I’m feeling the hold is probably much longer than my heart would want–but it is good.

We are still figuring out my health stuff. Still being treated for Lymes. Still trying to figure out whether I also have Lupus or Sjogrens along with Lymes. I am more tired than I have ever been. I go to bed earlier than I ever have…even with my pregnancies–and I thought I was tired then! My joints feel like I’ve aged 50 years–and I have blurred vision in my right eye. BUT oddly enough…things are really, really, really good.

I am married to THE most amazing man. He looks after me–cares for me–and for Christmas and my birthday he bought me a FAR infrared sauna to help momma get better!!! These are special saunas that help joint inflammation too–and it finally shipped YESTERDAY so it should arrive next week!!! I was SOOO shocked that he got this for me! I was going to pay to go to the one at my doctor’s office a couple of times a week so now I’ll be able to do this at home even more–and I’m so, so, so thankful! Next week I’m going to a ophthalmologist that specializes in infectious disease–so hopefully he’ll be able to help me get normal vision back in my right eye again. Richard and I have laughed A LOT (we are choosing JOY!) about my ailments–and I am trusting in the Lord’s healing.

I’ve been stuck on a REALLY, REALLY good book. I love to read–but instead of buying a million bestsellers–I stick to 1 or 2 for like…10 years. I’ve been on this book for about 2 years! It’s called “Where There is Love, There is God”. It’s Mother Teresa’s writing–and daily I am challenged and convicted by her words…and led to truth in scripture. I am learning so much about being THANKFUL…NOT COMPLAINING…REFUSING TO GRUMBLE.

A couple of months ago, I got scared and let fear seep into my heart–what if my health declines? What if Lymes makes me really sick? What if it something really bad happens?? One day I even called MY DADDY and cried…and told him I was scared. I realized MY FEAR was NOT something bad happening. MY FEAR was really PRIDE and LACK OF TRUST IN GOD BEING ENOUGH. Seriously–would my kids be okay if I’m not okay?? Do I believe He is ENOUGH? Why would God call me to homeschool, adopt, lead retreats…add to my plate–and then allow me to have a disease that tires and cripples? Do I believe God is enough? What would happen if something happened to me???

You know what I realized? The world would go on. And what I consider “my world”…would go on to. And praise be to God–I’d be with Jesus. God would be enough for my family. Enough for my kids. Enough for my husband. (One night, I even told Richard I was praying IF anything happened–that he would get remarried within a year to a godly woman that was way cooler than me;). He didn’t think that prayer was funny at ALL–but more and more I see that we were NOT made for THIS world. We were made to run this race here. To run well–to run hard…to rest in Him…to know Him…to tell our children of His goodness. SURE I’m challenging my kids to pray with me for healing–but I’m also teaching them if I am not healed–that He is SO GOOD!!! But I’m believing and praying for COMPLETE HEALING!!!

Our homeschool has started back up. And oh. my. goodness. MY HATS OFF to all you moms who homeschool. Guys, this is HARD!!! It is good–don’t get me wrong:). But homeschooling is THE hardest thing I have ever done. I’ll have to write an update post on this later. I completely see the benefits–but I also completely see the benefits of their precious small Christian school they were at last year. (And being a former public school teacher–I can see those benefits too!) On a side note–let me tell you that it DOES NOT MATTER where your kids go to school…but rather that they are in the environment where they will feel the most loved and the most valued. I guess the Lord thought that was in our home this year–so I’m trusting Him for strength, guidance and help as we start our 2nd semester. (BY THE WAY…we’ll be taking FRIDAY FIELDTRIPS this year!!! Momma needs to get OUT a bit more!! Soooo…stay tuned for Friday Fun:).

Finally–my after kids bedtimes have been full of planning a retreat for 400 ladies in January and almost that many in March. Before this–I had NO idea what went into a ladies retreat. But I have to say it’s so much fun for me and it’s such a fun creative outlet:). I am so excited about this upcoming retreat and just being with other moms who share a heart for adoption, for orphans…and most of all for Jesus:). Can’t WAIT!

Alright–so that’s our personal update for you. For 2012 I want to get my house more organized. One of my doctors told me not to exercise (HA! Funny, right?!) soooo…you don’t have to worry about me trying to get in shape. Instead I’ll be sitting in the sauna reading Mother Teresa…and making last minute retreat notes:)

Blessings to you all! More pictures to come! Parker got his FIRST BUZZ CUT (this made me sad b/c he looks SO grown up!!!!). FRANK has officially moved into Parker’s room…another BIG boy! Isaac has moved to the nursery (he’s been in our room for over a year now!) and Laney–well, she and I have had the sweetest girl bonding time as the only girls in the house. Life really, really is good right now. And I’m thankful!

XOXO!

Andrea

XOXO!

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Julie Bennett - January 7, 2012 - 9:10 am

Just wanted you to know that your desire to trust God and rest in the confidence that HE IS ENOUGH is inspiring to me and may others. Also, so thankful that you’ve allowed yourself to be used by Him in the planning of this retreat. Last year at this time we were planning our second trip to bring Hermela home and this year I look forward to celebrating this anniversary time with 400 other mom that share my heart for the least of these! Thank you!!! Looking forward to meeting you in a few weeks, but until then will continue to pray for you and the team. Blessings, Julie
Prayer is putting oneself in the hands of God, at His disposition, and listening to His voice in the depth of our hearts. ~Mother Theresa

Missy Kollar - January 7, 2012 - 11:01 am

like usual, god used this post in my life. when i saw the little picture of the dryer, i immediately thought “i want one of those fancy dryers!”. and then i read how you “demoted” your dryer life and i was reminded that life is not found in a fancy dryer.

thanks for letting us in the fear and trust of walking this new road of lyme’s. i am excited for your sauna. we have dear friends who have walked the lyme’s road with the mother and daughter. they are with crusade in orlando. if you want their information, i am sure nanci would be delighted to talk with you. i can give it to you in a couple of weeks, if you want it. 🙂 yay, c4c!!!

Marci - January 8, 2012 - 9:04 pm

Praying for your health. You need to be strong and I pray that the Lord will heal you…keep your light shining brightly …you are so dear to so many !

Corinne Gilliam - January 9, 2012 - 1:33 pm

Love your inspiring blog! Have you tried B12 shots? My husband get them every month which help him feel less tired.

Light Gives Heat

Coming to Created for Care??? THIS year for movie night–we are highlighting a ministry in Uganda called Light Gives Heat. SUPER excited to have gotten to know Morgan just a bit, and so touched by their work and how the Lord is using them. It all began with the call of adoption–and it’s birthed into a beautiful ministry that is changing the lives of many. If you are coming to the retreat–bring a box of tissues…and get ready to be inspired.

Here is a sneak peak–the Light Gives Heat trailer:

‘Moving On’ Official Trailer from Light Gives Heat on Vimeo.

ONE of these days we are going to have a cool movie of Wiphan to share at the retreat! BUT ’tis not our time just yet;). For now–we love highlighting what the Lord is doing through other folks in other ministries–because truly–we are all in this together!

This movie struck a cord with both Richard and I as we watched the African streets, dark faces and took in the music of a country we love. For us–it really feels like a bit of home. And I have no doubt that one day it just might be home for us. Morgan says in this film, “There is beauty in taking risks.” And man oh man–watching this film tonight makes me want to take more of them.

Life is just too short not to live moment to moment what the Lord is putting on your heart to radically do.

May you be blessed as you as you take risks for His glory—

Andrea

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Courtney - January 4, 2012 - 11:25 pm

Love this ministry! Bought Christmas presents from them this year and was highly impressed. I can’t wait to see the video at the retreat!

Deena - January 5, 2012 - 9:32 am

I LOVE Light Gives Heat…we sold Suubi necklaces to help us fundraise for our adoption and everyone loved them as much as I do. I was so excited to find an organization that started with the adoption of their little one and then spiraled into an organization that helps so many in Uganda. I can’t wait to watch the movie at the March retreat!!!!

Gini - January 5, 2012 - 1:23 pm

LOVE this!!! Can’t wait to see it (will definitely pack some tissues.) 🙂

Rebecca - January 6, 2012 - 12:07 pm

Wow, just beautiful. Can’t wait to see it.

Devotional Day 8 – Journey of the Magi – “Where our story begins…”

This is the last day this momma has written for the Journey of the Magi–and where the rest of our year…the next chapter of our story–BEGINS.

This devotional day is one of those “good but hard” realities. I would read it–and if you have little ones…put it in your own words as appropriate for your children’s ages:

While I originally thought the Journey of the Magi would last around 2 weeks right up to our Christmas in Ethiopia celebration (January 7th is when they observe Christmas!)…BUT we have little to go on in Matthew’s documentation–but what we do have is rich enough to follow Christmas with their story every year. I wish we could say we ended our Magi story on a good note. But truly–it is awful. Can you imagine? They are warned to go a different route to bypass King Herod–this is for their protection…some times hard things are for our protection. THEN–Herod finds out he has been outwitted by the wisemen–which really ticks King Herod off. I mean, seriously makes him angry. BUT this is really fitting for what is ahead…hard–but fitting.

Matthew 2:13-18 “When they had gone, an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream. “Get up,” he said, “take the child and his mother and escape to Egypt. Stay there until I tell you, for Herod is going to search for the child to kill him.” So he got up, took the child and his mother during the night and left for Egypt, where he stayed until the death of Herod. And so was fulfilled what the Lord had said through the prophet: “Out of Egypt I called my son.” When Herod realized that he had been outwitted by the Magi, he was furious, and he gave orders to kill all the boys in Bethlehem and its vicinity who were two years old and under, in accordance with the time he had learned from the Magi. Then what was said through the prophet Jeremiah was fulfilled: “A voice is heard in Ramah, weeping and great mourning, Rachel weeping for her children and refusing to be comforted, because they are no more.”

So…our Magi are told in a dream by God to go another route. God’s plan. A different route…a harder route…a longer route—the first one only took a year…are you serious God? Okay, okay. God’s plan. Herod realized the Magi aren’t coming back to tell him where Jesus is…who disobeys the king…the government…he was filled with rage–this Jesus that the country is talking about and kings come to see–Herod would do anything to stop the world from following this said-to-be King. Herod’s plan? To kill EVERY boy baby under 2 years old and younger in Bethlehem AND its vicinity. To have moms weeping…babies and precious ones dying…to have over 600 families, as historians have estimated, lose their sons and many, many others effected by the loss of family members…and although they knew Herod was the hatred behind the slaying…every time they heard the name Jesus they would know it was because of Herod wanting to kill Jesus that their babies where killed. OUCH. Not a way I want to come into the world…Surely this couldn’t be God’s great idea of how He would get everyone to fall in love with Jesus and follow Him…RIGHT?

I think about the old hymn, “Jesus, Jesus, Jesus. Sweetest Name I know.” I can’t imagine the pain in these families…all a result of the Magi upsetting King Herod. I have tried to put myself in the shoes of those moms who lost their little ones after the Magi left. We never tell this part of the story at Christmas time do we? YET–this is part of how Jesus came into the world. Truly, it was as if He never even stood a chance. Then you have the entire community wrecked and mourning…do you think those moms ever wondered, “Why my baby boy?” And later…every time she saw Jesus in the streets or heard about him–she would remember the last time she heard his name in the streets and lost her own son. “Yes, he’d be about his age,” she think to herself…”why my baby boy?” I mean, have you ever wondered why the world was so quick to cry “crucify”…or why it wasn’t so popular to follow this Jesus? Of course, He was radical. Of course, He said He was God–and that made some people scratch their heads. But there was also a rather large group who had been directly effected by his name since his birth…and this sets us up for the journey of the cross in the months ahead.

For Jesus–I have to imagine that life even from the beginning just didn’t seem fair. And for these families effected by Herod’s hatred of Jesus–life wasn’t fair either. I don’t have all the answers. In fact, I feel like I have very few. And I also realize my non-believing friends who read my blog scratch their heads and wonder about me half the time any way. I mean…who is this God who lets hard things happen? I mean…if He is God–why doesn’t He just come down and stop it? I wish I could answer all the questions–and while I know little…I do know He desires us to trust Him…He desires to allow Him to heal our wounds…and I don’t understand it…but there is something that happens when we relinquish ourselves completely to Him…and trust in His name.

I also believe that some of these moms eventually trusted and believed in Jesus. And I also believe that at some point–they could have even sung a hymn about His sweet name as He healed their deepest wounds…


Sweetest Name I Know
There’s within my heart a melody
Jesus whispers sweet and low
Fear not, I am with thee, peace, be still
In all of life’s ebb and flow

Though sometimes he leads through waters deep
Trials fall across the way
Though sometimes the path seems rough and steep
See his footprints all the way

Jesus, Jesus, Jesus
Sweetest name I know
Fills my every longing
Keeps me singing as I go

Feasting on the riches of his grace
Resting ‘neath the sheltering wing
Always looking on his smiling face
That is why I shout and sing

Jesus, Jesus, Jesus
Sweetest name I know
Fills my every longing
Keeps me singing as I go

All my life was wrecked by sin and strife
Discord filled my heart with pain
Jesus swept across these broken strings
And stirred these chords again

Truly, I think we often miss a lot of the hardship Jesus, Himself, came into the world with. I think it’s important to realize it, meditate on it and understand it. I’ve heard pastors and teachers of the gospel say “Jesus came into the world and experienced pain so we could identify with him…” or “so He could identify with us”. I’m not so sure any of us could ever REALLY identify with Jesus, his pain and how hard things really were from the beginning for him. Sure He can identify with you–because He’s been there…but to identify with Him? Wow…we really need to start at the beginning…and think about how hard even the beginning really was. But there was nothing God, Himself, would not do for a personal relationship with YOU. THAT is WHY He came my friends. Because He loves YOU that much. And if you journey in this world and miss THAT–then you have missed everything. Period. And He’s just too good to miss.

So now…our real journey begins. And each day–we’ll store up treasures in our treasure box…writing them down as we go and remember ways we have seen Him…the one worth traveling across the dessert and back for…and He is worth going one step further with…

So much to look forward to in 2012! As I’ve been reposting/rewriting these devotions from last year–I’ve kept myself from sharing anything about myself. I’m about to POP to share some things the Lord has been doing in my heart…also “good but hard” things. I am really looking forward to sharing tomorrow…or the next day. So get ready–it’ll probably be one of “those” posts I write…all about the good but hard stuff. Blessings to you!

XOXO!

Andrea

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Devotional Day 7 – Journey of the Magi – “God is bigger…”

Matthew 2:12 “And having been warned in a dream not to go back to Herod, they returned to their country by another route.”

After the Magi had spent time with young Jesus and his family–the time came for them to return to their homes. The Lord had led them to Jesus by the star. You can imagine they hoped to return the same way they got there. Isn’t that the easiest thing to always do? I don’t know about you–but when I go to a new, unfamiliar place–I always try to drive back home in the same way I came. So, I can imagine when they found out they would have to take a completely new–possibly even more difficult route home–they were wide-eyed. The Bible doesn’t tell us anything other than they went another route. They didn’t go back the familiar way. They knew they needed to again obey God for their own safety and for the safety of Jesus.

Some times a harder route is simply God’s grace and goodness over us–just as a different route was God’s grace and goodness over the wise men. We have to trust Him even in the hard times—that when we are His children, He is for us…and if He is for us, then who can be against us? Praying as you journey through 2012 and hard things come–you will remember this part of the Magi’s journey and it’s purpose…and that one day you will see His grand plan and the purpose of the hard parts too. In 2012 don’t expect to take the same route that you took in 2011.

The wise men worshiped Jesus–and they knew God’s voice. The more we worship Jesus–the more we will know His voice and be able to follow Him in the new ways He wants to lead us. The wise men also show us that God will often lead us BEYOND our own understanding–differently from the ways and patterns He has led us in the past. There will often be risks involved–but as we listen to Him, we will know which way to go–and ultimately it is the way that bring Him the most glory, protect us from harm and help us stay in His perfect, good and pleasing will for our lives. Let us be open to walking in new directions–down roads that are unfamiliar to us when He calls us–and worshipping Him along the way.

How did you see Jesus today on your journey?

Dear God, Thank you for what you are teaching us through the lives of the men you called to bring glory to your Son–the wise men. Thank you for showing us through them how you some times do take us on unexpected turns and in unknown territory–but it is for our good and for your glory. You can be trusted! Thank you for loving us and for taking care of us. In Your Son’s name we pray. Amen.

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