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A little pick-me-up…

I got the SWEETEST little goody basket today from one of the SWEETEST people in my life…Mama Judy! Any of you have those people in your life that are like your other momma? This sweet lady started out as one of my photography clients…but she quickly became a dear friend and I endearingly refer to her as Mama Judy…and some times even Mama. I wish I could say I’m the only other daughter she has but I know so many people feel this way about her…and I’m just so thankful to have her in my life. She poors into so many lives…and I wish you could see the way she loves on her children and grandchildren. And to love on me? She has “adopted” me as one of her daughters (she has 3 sons)…and the way she loves on me is such a beautiful picture of how you don’t have to be “blood related” to be “related”. How I love this woman! It’s one of those kindred spirit friendships that makes you feel like you’ve known someone forever. I have often secretly wondered if she is an angel…definitely heaven sent to me. I wish I could tell you more about her…I could go ON and ON…but I was taken back today as I photographed her grandson who brought a basket to his session for me from her…(I flipped as always and said “How does she do it?! She’s just too much! I mean, how many baskets does your precious mom make for people?” And her son…being just like her…responded, “Just you! You’re the only one!” You people are too much! I love how you all love on others…and boy, did this lift my spirits today! Hee…hee…lift my spirits…no pun intended being Halloween;)

The fun basket from Mama Judy…

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This special lady BLOWS me away…one with her creativity…and even more her heart for others. Here she is about to undergo one of the biggest weeks of her life with surgery…and what is she busy doing? Serving others! I must confess that I have been a bit overwhelmed with my “to do” list and not being an emotional person at all…I would say I have become one during this adoption process.
I catch myself reminding myself to breathe…so to have this friend who I SHOULD BE SERVING love on me this week…blew me away. Through Mama Judy I felt God just wrapping His hands around me…and then I sat down and gobbled up some of the things in her basket made with much love and care…
Every Halloween Mama Judy surprises my crew with something…Christmas and other holidays too for that matter. And Nam’s Bits are usually involved. If you’ve never had Nam’s Cookies…oh my goodness…they MELT in your mouth. (Note to Mama Judy: FRANK LOVED THEM! Richard freaked that I gave them to him…but Frank loves his Mama Judy for sending his first cookies! They literally melt in your mouth!)
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And my personal favorite…why can’t you eat just one?
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I wish I could say the bow was still tied and the jar was still full on this one.
Gosh, these things are just good.
That is all I have to say about that.
And as if her basket full couldn’t get any cuter?
She had to put white hot chocolate that turns ORANGE when hot! The kids are gonna love this!
And the coffee mugs?!
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And did you happen to see how many “adult mugs” and “kiddie mugs” she thoughtfully put in the basket?
One for Parker, Laney, Frank…and our precious baby we are all dying to have home with us!
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And that “white chocolate cocoa cauldron”?! Too cute and YUM!
Okay…you have to see the cat eyes in the inside of this cute mug…
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Too cute!
Mama Judy…I’ve got the towels already in place…
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And we are set and will be enjoying hot orange cocoa on you tomorrow night!
Thank you so much for always thinking of us and treating us like we were your own!
You have loved me and made me feel so loved!!!
How I thank God for YOU!
Everyone needs a Mama Judy in their life!
Praying for Mama Judy…and if you wouldn’t mind…please say a prayer for Mama on Wednesday morning that God would bring 100% healing and a speedy recovery.
NOW…I need to be thinking what I can do for HER!
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Amy - October 11, 2009 - 9:53 pm

That is awesome! What a special lady!

Kim - October 12, 2009 - 1:45 am

Just prayed for your sweet Mama Judy. Loved this precious post and the reminder that we should do more serving of others. The goodie basket is fabulous. You've got me craving candy corn. Haven't seen that yet in Hong Kong.
Blessings,
Kim

Are These Kids All Yours? - October 12, 2009 - 3:11 pm

That is so sweet to have a person who just wants to do something for you- just because 🙂

Anonymous - October 15, 2009 - 5:00 pm

What a great halloween treat! I love those mugs, my kiddos would love them. Do you happen to know where Mama Judy got them? Thanks!

Online courses…CHECK!

Richard and I completed our required online adoption courses this weekend! WOO HOO! Another thing checked off our list! (12 credit hours) Between attending last weeks seminar in Franklin and the online courses I feel like I could do a power point on adoption, medical issues, transracial families, handling comments in front of my child, etc. with my eyes closed;). I’m very thankful for this time of preparation…but I also CAN’T WAIT TO HAVE OUR FAMILY LOGGED IN ON THE ETHIOPIAN WAIT LIST!

What’s left for us? With all my paper collecting…what’s left for us to do?
– Labwork on Tuesday at 1pm
– Final home study interview (the FAMILY!) and home walk through next Monday
– Power of Attorney letter (2 of them…one state certified)
– Need to update my passport
– Finish taking pictures of our home and mounting them on 8×11 cardstock for court
– USCIS (immigration) approval – 600A to be mailed in w/ completed home study, another big check and lots of forms I’ve collected and we’ll wait on the FINAL “golden ticket” the 171! (this will complete our dossier!)
– All these will be bundled together along with a gazillon other things I’ve collected to make our completed dossier…that will go in with another ginormous check…and then we’ll be able to fall back, pass-out and BREATH…oh yeah…and WAIT:)

OK…that may seem like a lot left to do…but if you saw the list of things we have already done…we are ALMOST there!!! This list is really so small now…and I feel like I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel! I think being done by Thanksgiving is actually an achieveable task! Now, if I can just convince immigrations/USCIS to send us our 171 returned by Thanksgiving? Now that will be a different story! I continue to remind myself that GOD IS IN THIS….and HE IS THE ONE carefully putting us in line at the perfect time to all-knowingly, purposefully and perfectly so we will be referred to the baby HE chose to be a part of our family even before He placed him in his mother’s womb.

Psalm 139
O LORD, you have searched me and you know me.
You know when I sit and when I rise; you perceive my thoughts from afar.
You discern my going out and my lying down; you are familiar with all my ways.
Before a word is on my tongue you know it completely, O LORD.
You hem me in—behind and before; you have laid your hand upon me.
Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too lofty for me to attain.
Where can I go from your Spirit? Where can I flee from your presence?
If I go up to the heavens, you are there; if I make my bed in the depths, [a] you are there.
If I rise on the wings of the dawn,
if I settle on the far side of the sea,
even there your hand will guide me,
your right hand will hold me fast.
If I say, “Surely the darkness will hide me
and the light become night around me,”
even the darkness will not be dark to you;
the night will shine like the day,
for darkness is as light to you.
For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
your works are wonderful, I know that full well.
My frame was not hidden from you
when I was made in the secret place.
When I was woven together in the depths of the earth, your eyes saw my unformed body.
All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.
How precious to me are your thoughts, O God!
How vast is the sum of them!
Were I to count them, they would outnumber the grains of sand.
When I awake, I am still with you….

Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts.
See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.

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Are These Kids All Yours? - October 11, 2009 - 2:52 pm

Hey, getting the online classes done is a major accomplishment! Congrats. I would say your list is getting significantly smaller. Hey, I have done this twice, and you are doing great!!!! Hang in there 🙂

Getting dossier ready and gettin’ ready for Fall!

I was so happy to get our dossier folder last weekend…and even happier to see that we really have everything about 90% done with it! The only thing we lack…well, is what we have lined up for Tuesday (our labwork) and our final homestudy interview Monday after next…and pictures, pictures, pictures. We have to take pictures of our home—and the challenge will be photographing CLEAN rooms;). We had clean up time yesterday in the playroom…so I snagged a few pictures while it was in rare form for our dossier. The playroom in the basement…our KIDZONE where lots of fun happens…(you can double click on any image to see it HUGE…okay, looks like I should have vacuum before taking pictures! Ahhhh…I don’t think the Ethiopian courts will care! Can’t wait to have another little one playing in this room!)

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You can’t really see…but my favorite is Laney’s pink kitchen and her Southern Living Home potrack:)…
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Parker got that train set when he was just 2. And my dad made Laney’s wooden doll house for her 3rd birthday. We use a shoe door storage (Container Store) to store all Laney’s Barbie dolls.
These Barbies are all from the 80’s…90% anyway…I love yard sales:) Never hit ’em up…but stopped at one full of Barbies one day and Laney racked up.
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I made this magnet/chalk board (below) for Parker when he was just one. It is a great teaching tool and I store all our themed magnets in a box labeled in the cubbies. The farm magnets seem to be the current theme hitting the board…(magnet/chalk paint sold at Home Depot and painted on a 20×24 board)
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This tree house makes me laugh every time I see it. My kids love playing with it, but it was a nightmare to put together…and there is a great Santa story that goes with it…note to self–put things together weeks before the holidays…not the night before. This baby had to be exchanged after the fact and this one finally came to us closer to January. I learned my lesson:)
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Tammy and Jimmy Dugger - October 10, 2009 - 10:11 am

They all turned out great!!! I thought Parker was going to go with the "cowboy" pirate? I guess after looking at that magazine he decided a pirate one would be better. 🙂

Kristi J - October 10, 2009 - 12:11 pm

so cute…I did this last year (but we bought them instead of making them) AND we stuck a Lucy Lane in the mix DREAMING about our new baby..and so funny to look at it now WHEN she's home with us..yayyyy…you'll be there so soon 🙂 kristi

3 Blessings - October 10, 2009 - 2:10 pm

Love the scarecrow! We had our final homestudy appt. Friday and I took all of our house pictures before she arrived 🙂 Our homestudy report should be done Wednesday and then our Dossier should be done by Friday! We are so excited. Since you guys are going to be on the same time frame as us…I bet we will travel together to get our sweet babies!!! How cool is that thought?
Blessings,
Amy

Are These Kids All Yours? - October 10, 2009 - 3:21 pm

Love the scarecrow- I think a baby one would be cute 🙂 Hey, you are almost there! Yeah!!!

Anonymous - October 10, 2009 - 7:08 pm

Love the scarecrows. Luke did too! Called you today. Call me when you have some time! 🙂 Time….I know – HA!
Love you!
Kelly

PRAISE HIM! PRAISE HIM!

Today…I’m starting my day with tears praising my heavenly Father for His goodness! Do you REALIZE how much HE loves the orphans of the world?! Jesus loves the little children…ALL the children of the world! Not one of His does He forget…and these He loves so much to give them life…to give them a family AGAIN…and today I am rejoicing as the Lord has placed THREE children just yesterday with their forever families!!!

Two older boys who have been waiting for a very long time…please pray for the family persuing them that the Lord will pave a way and the hoop jumping will be expedited…you can read about this here… http://www.weloveourlucy.blogspot.com/

And a precious family that we’ve gotten to know through our agency…they’ve just been waiting 5 months…yes, I said 5 months people! I did just fine reading this referral story until I saw the baby’s name. It reminded me that GOD is over OUR adoption…that He has a baby CHOSEN just for OUR family…and it makes me ever more on task to jump through the hoops with perserverance so we can bring our baby home and love him forever! Read this amazing referral story here: http://www.knowingnobounds.blogspot.com/

What beautiful encounters with God today!!! How will you encounter God today? Look for Him…wait for Him…seek Him…because He is there…and He is waiting for you…HIS child…and HE LOVES YOU so much that He would never leave you alone…when you come to Him, He offers to adopt you as His son or daughter…and through His Son we are offered abundant life…and a life living for Him—is lemme tell ya, a WILD ride—but a ride that is worth living! My hands are in the air and I’m riding this roller coaster for Him!

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Are These Kids All Yours? - October 10, 2009 - 9:30 am

AMEN to that- seen both of these stories and my heart is singing as well!!!! Praise God!

Our weekend in Columbia…

Yes, we zipped everyday to the adoption conference in Franklin…but we stayed with our sweet family in Columbia. I’ve been doing online training courses…and needed a little break…a blog that is light and makes me smile…

Here is Parker and Laney-Lu playing with cousin Tom. Tom has been Parker’s hero since Parker learned to walk. He named his first teddy bear Tom. In fact, he has named every stuffed animal in our house Tom. Tom’s a senior and I’m a little sad myself that he is growing up. I couldn’t be more thankful that Parker looks up to a man of such noble character–and I can’t believe on October 30th he plays his LAST football game of his high school career!

I could just gobble this guy up…I mean–what 18 year old will sit and play Batman with two preschoolers?! SO sweet!
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Then, just before we left–and even with a few sprinkles…Uncle Buck had to take P and L for little ride…
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Uncle Buck is Richard’s dad’s brother. He is like a grandfather to my children. They ADORE this man…and the tractor is just icing on the cake.
This next picture makes my heart smile…
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You might say these two have had a special bond since the beginning of P’s little life. I have pictures of Parker at 3 months cuddling up to Uncle Buck…and 5 years later pictures like this are just as sweet! How thankful we are for family!!!
The Young Crew…well, just some of us (maybe next time I can jump in a few;).
Ben made it up for the visit…and the newly married Lucy and Matt…Parker and Laney were both in their wedding in June–Lucy and I were plotting and planning our next visit well before we left.
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And I can’t be MORE thankful for how SUPPORTIVE and ENCOURAGING they all are about our adoption! We are SO BLESSED to have these people as FAMILY!
XOXO!!!!
…still trying to tie up some loose ends with our homestudy–not too bad though for starting our homestudy mid September. Our labwork is on the 13th along with Richard’s physical. Our final family interview/home walk through in Monday, October 19th. I spoke with the FBI in West Virginia today (can you believe I actually got a voice on the phone!) and they said our fingerprint clearance was mailed out on Wednesday so it should be back to us any day. We are continuing to work on our dossier…and I was waiting to be almost done with our home study before sending our 600A in to receive our 171—so we may actually be able to send that in and have all our end completed by the end of October. My goal was to have our dossier submitted by Frank’s 1st birthday (November 1st)…looks like goals are good to have—but Thanksgiving may be a bit more realistic…and that will just be one more thing for us to be thankful for!
Another thing I am thankful for…AMAZING AGCI families on our agencies listserv who walk you through this process, support you and love on along the way! How thankful I am that we chose AGCI with…and these families are the icing on the cake!
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Kristi J - October 8, 2009 - 10:19 pm

what great pics…so fun..so wish we could have gone…ok, so i know i read where you said you were coming back around these parts…we need to make the next trip work out..so stay on me…and we'll make it work out, yay, kj

Amy - October 9, 2009 - 7:38 am

We are in the same boat. I had a goal of mid-october but things are delayed and so we wait! I am still hoping for end of October but I need to be more realistic. Are you guys hoping for a specific gender? Anyway, good luck – looks like we'll be going through this process together 🙂

The Young Family - October 9, 2009 - 8:06 am

Amy,
We didn't make a gender preference…completely open here…so we're guessing we'll get a boy b/c that list is shorter. We are just so excited either way! I'm with you…the sooner the better but I know a lot of waiting with the hoop jumping is ahead!
andrea:)