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Astrida and the Burnells…

Today–I wanted to let a sweet sponsor share her story–and journey with Wiphan Care Ministries…and how God has blessed her family and their hearts through sponsorship RIGHT NOW–her daughter is in Zambia serving the precious widows and orphans. Even being a teenager–she said, “YES”. AND she also had the amazing opportunity this week to meet the child that her family sponsors!!!

Ingrid’s daughter, Lindsay, is pictured above with Astrida Musongo, their sponsored child and her relatives. Astrida is 11 years old and in the 4th grade at Mapalo. She lives with her grandmother, aunt, one sister and two brothers in the compound. Astrida loves to play netball. Favorite colors are green, red, orange and purple.

Last year, Lindsay’s mom–Ingrid Burnell–also went over to serve with Wiphan and meet Astrida…here is her story:

For many years I had been praying to God to prepare my heart and send me on a mission trip to be His hands and feet but it needed to be on His terms. It was in the fall of 2008 that Amy introduced me to Addie, Scott and Wiphan Care Ministry. At that time I committed to be on the July 2009 trip, and I was so excited to finally be able to go somewhere unknown and make a difference in some small way. It was during the Wiphan fundraiser that it really hit me about the plan God had laid before me and the journey he wanted me to be part of. I saw that evening how passionate Kevin, Richard, Andrea, Addie & Scott were telling others about this incredible lady named Kunda who lived so many thousands of miles away and the work she was doing by herself (and with Kevin’s help at the time) unknown to him.

I remember a stir in my heart that evening as I listened, watched video and saw the pictures and interviews on the screen. God was telling me at that moment that I needed to surround myself with this group of believers; their hearts were in the right place. I loved the fact that Wiphan care ministries was a few years old, that it was small but doing big things, 100% of the donations went to support the widows and orphans through skills training, school and food programs. Being involved I could form relationships with others involved and form a bonding relationship with widows and orphans in Ndola , Zambia . I didn’t want to just send money each month but my hearts desire was to form these bonding relationships forever. It was a no brainer, I had committed to go on a mission trip and next I wanted to sponsor a child.

I went over to the Brightpoint table (Brightpoint facilitates the monthly sponsorships for Wiphan Care Ministries) that evening and starring back at me were 60 precious smiling faces—I thought, “How the heck am I going to pick one child”? It was heart breaking because I wanted to sponsor ALL 60 children but knew financially, I couldn’t. I also remember thinking if I did sponsor all this kiddos there would not be any left for others to chose from and that would be selfish on my part- (who was I kidding; there were many more in Ndola at the schools but their pictures and stories were not up on the board yet) I guess I used this thinking to control my urge of not sponsoring ALL.

It was Astrida’s big smile and the playful innocence from her photo that drew me to pick her. Since that evening we have been blessed in so many ways–we have been able to correspond with Astrida three times through the letter writing program. I have personally visited with her and her caretakers last summer in their home, and yesterday my daughter Lindsay sat in her home sharing smiles, laughter and learning about her life. Today, Lindsay and the team will be teaching Astrida and her classmates how to make friendship bracelets along with demonstrating science experiments and taking the time to show them that they are loved by others and their Heavenly Father. Sponsoring a Wiphan child is a blessing to them because it helps fund the school and feeding program. Through sponsorship each month and the relationships my family has built with Wiphan, we consider ourselves to be the ones blessed. It is Wiphan’s widows and orphans who remind us that even though life throws us curveballs, they are small in comparison to what the widows and orphans deal with on a daily basis and it is their constant faithfulness that remind us to look to the Lord and rejoice for what we have and what we can do for others. I leave you with this thought, “What if He blessed us, so we could bless them”? There are still many more Wiphan Children in the program that would love to receive a letter, pictures, and be sponsored by someone like yourself. There is still much to be done in Ndola–so will you help?

As one of my favorite artists, Chris Tomlin sings…

“You’re the God of this City, You’re the King of these people, You’re the Lord of this nation, You are, You’re the Light in this darkness, You’re the Hope to the hopeless, You’re the Peace to the restless, You are, There is no one like our God There is no one like our God, For greater things have yet to come, And greater things are still to be done in this City, Greater thing have yet to come, And greater things are still to be done in this City”

“Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress …” James 1:27

–Ingrid Burnell

It amazed me how God blesses OUR hearts as we follow him! Thank you Ingrid for your heart for the orphans and widows of Wiphan Care–and for sharing how God is changing you through your obedience to follow Him in this way. ANOTHER precious friend of mine JUST returned last week from yet another Wiphan trip. Shannon is a photographer, and truly–I have no words for the beauty she captured. Shannon ALSO got to meet her sponsored child on her trip. What a blessing! Here is her experience put to music and pictures…may I introduce to you the beautiful children and women of Wiphan if you have yet to meet them…

To learn more about sponsoring a child through Wiphan please visit www.wiphan.org. For information about getting involved please fill out the contact form on the Wiphan website.

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Elle J - July 28, 2010 - 8:42 pm

BEAUTIFUL!!! Loved the words shared and video. So lovely. I started sponsoring in May and this trip was my first time to share a letter with my girl. I continue to pray that it reaches her and that she is well.

Kim - July 28, 2010 - 9:42 pm

OH WOW! The photos … the words … the music. All heartstiring!

Shannon Holden - July 28, 2010 - 10:41 pm

Andrea, thank you so much for sharing Ingrid’s story. I think I might have met Astrida when I was there. Her sweet face looks very familiar. Like Ingrid said, I feel hugely blessed to be involved with Wiphan. Thank you for sharing the slideshow on your blog. Love you, precious friend! See you next week!!

Happy 1 Month-iversary!!!

“Oh my! I am having so much fun here with my family that I almost forgot that today is MY ONE MONTH-IVERSARY being home! Happy 1 month Gotcha Day to me! Gotta call some of my crew to see how they are doing!”

“Um…yes, is My Miss Miss Mag Mag Pie there?! Um…I’m sorry Mrs. Rogers—I mean, is Magdalyn there? I get a little nervous and start stuttering when I call my girl! Hey girl! How you doin?! I miss you SO much!!! You miss me?!”

Isaac Temesgen! Off that phone!

“One more momma! One more! Gotta check in on ONE more! Hey there Mrs. D! Is T-dog there?! I mean, excuse me—Mrs. Dempster…is Terefe (with a rolled R!) there?!”“Terefe, I think my momma misses our travel buddies as much as I do! Love you to pieces brother and can’t wait to see you again one day!”

Happy 1 month in our arms sweet boy!!! We love you…and your travel buddies…to pieces!

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Megan - July 27, 2010 - 8:52 pm

Like like like!!! Oh right, this isn’t FB! 😉

april - July 27, 2010 - 9:06 pm

adorable as always! happy one month isaac!

Jenny - July 27, 2010 - 9:41 pm

has it been a month?! WOW! happy one month, ITY!

Debb - July 27, 2010 - 9:57 pm

YAY! One month home! You couldn’t look more adorable, little man! Sweetness.

Denise - July 27, 2010 - 10:12 pm

We’ve adopted two trios of Russian siblings nearly a decade and half a decade ago, and anniversaries are STILL so important to us! Anniversaries are a great time to rejoice in God’s goodness and faithfulness. We rejoice with you at your one month-iversary!

BTW, we’re friends of the Nordstrom family. I know they’ve found your posts and your emails a great encouragement as they wait.

May God richly bless your family! Happy one month!!!

Denise

Kelly - July 27, 2010 - 11:16 pm

Happy 1 month home, Isaac! I love you, and I just can’t wait until I can hold you!!!!!!! I love your outfit!

kristi johnson - July 27, 2010 - 11:31 pm

yayy, happy one month!! 🙂 kj

Alison - July 28, 2010 - 12:34 am

Happy 1 month, Isaac Temesgen! You are such a cutie!!

Kim - July 28, 2010 - 5:51 pm

Happy Anniversary little man!
From your biggest fan,
Kim

WIdows + OrPHANs = Wiphan (+ our 1st family pic)

I am encouraged by orphan advocates. Their are a gazillon of them. BUT…let us not forget how scripture teaches us to care…for BOTH the orphan and widow. ALMOST every time the orphan is mentioned in scripture–which is A LOT…SO IS THE WIDOW. So–my question is this: Why does the widow so often seem to be forgotten? Where are all the widow advocates? What about them?

“Religion that is pure and undefiled before God, the Father, is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world.” James 1:27

“Father of the fatherless and protector of widows is God in his holy habitation.” Psalm 68:5

“Learn to do good; seek justice, correct oppression; bring justice to the fatherless, plead the widow’s cause.” Isaiah 1:17

“You shall not mistreat any widow or fatherless child. If you do mistreat them, and they cry out to me, I will surely hear their cry, and my wrath will burn, and I will kill you with the sword, and your wives shall become widows and your children fatherless.” Exodus 22:22-24

“Leave your fatherless children; I will keep them alive; and let your widows trust in me.” Jeremiah 49:11

“The Lord watches over the sojourners; he upholds the widow and the fatherless, but the way of the wicked he brings to ruin.” Psalm 146:9

“Then I will draw near to you for judgment. I will be a swift witness against the sorcerers, against the adulterers, against those who swear falsely, against those who oppress the hired worker in his wages, the widow and the fatherless, against those who thrust aside the sojourner, and do not fear me, says the Lord of hosts.” Malachi 3:5

“Thus says the Lord: Do justice and righteousness, and deliver from the hand of the oppressor him who has been robbed. And do no wrong or violence to the resident alien, the fatherless, and the widow, nor shed innocent blood in this place.” Jeremiah 22:3

“To turn aside the needy from justice and to rob the poor of my people of their right, that widows may be their spoil, and that they may make the fatherless their prey!” Isaiah 10:2

“Your princes are rebels and companions of thieves. Everyone loves a bribe and runs after gifts. They do not bring justice to the fatherless, and the widow’s cause does not come to them.” Isaiah 1:23

“You have sent widows away empty, and the arms of the fatherless were crushed.” Job 22:9

I could go on–but the point is…we can NOT put our focus on half of the command. I don’t want to live half-heartedly…I can’t say that I’m called to serve the orphan and not the widow when the Lord puts them TOGETHER over and over and over again in scripture…for a REASON. I don’t want to stand before God one day and hear, “Well done my good and faithful servant…BUT–you missed the other half.”

Orphans are beautiful.

BUT…so are the widows.

And they are together–for a beautiful purpose.
This Zambian widow has learned to sew–to create a product she can sell–to feed her single orphaned children…and make a difference in her world. What might she be doing if the founders of Wiphan had not followed God’s instruction and guidance to serve the widow? How might her children eat? How might she be looking for ways to make money? I don’t like to think of the WHAT IF answers…

We can’t take scripture out of context–or change it to work for us…we are called as believers to visit them both. To take care of them both. To serve them both.

I can’t imagine a life of not serving the widow. For me, God has changed my heart more through serving the widow…and I completely understand JUST A BIT why He puts them TOGETHER. Not just for THEM. BUT also for ME. Don’t miss out on the WHY. Don’t miss out what God might want to do through you as you look for ways to serve both. For me personally–it would be wrong to the seperate the two because the gospel doesn’t do that. And I want to follow the gospel.

Who are the widows in your church?

In your community?

Across the world?

THIS week–the widows of Wiphan Care Ministries are being blessed as a team has gone over to LOVE and SERVE THEM. Several ladies from Cup of Joy have gone to put on a SECOND women’s retreat (the first was last summer). The ladies walk over a mile to hear the gospel and be encouraged that God loves them…

They are led in worship…and many for the FIRST time hear that they are BEAUTIFUL…that God knows them BY NAME…they are VALUED…they have a PURPOSE…and they WORSHIP…

Wiphan Care Ministries could DO EVEN MORE in the lives of widows if others will join us in DEFENDING THE WIDOW.
For just $25 a month, you can support the widow program at Wiphan Care Ministries…investing in these beautiful women as they hear the gospel, learn a trade…and while some even love the orphans in our programs. Will you prayerfully consider supporting widows? Will you consider sharing widows and serving them with others?

And what about locally? Visiting assited living and nursing homes? How many widows do not have children or family coming to check on them? How many feel lost and left to die with no one caring for them? I believe it would make the heart of our Father smile if we, as believers, sought out how to serve not only orphans–but widows too. He didn’t seperate them–and I don’t want to either.

I can’t forget the widow in my life I love most either. And the son she gave me.

My life will be spent loving her…and seeking ways to serve others just like her.

My family is changed and more beautiful because of her hardship…

(granted it’s taken with an iPhone…but it is our baby boy’s FIRST breakfast out…and FIRST family picture…a more professional one to come later;)

And this is just before Parker and Frankie-baby fell OFF the table…because a piece of rotted wood broke off…good times:)

If you and your family have found a beautiful way to serve the widow, please let me know by filling out my contact page! We are making a list of ways for others to serve the widows so we can share–so we can help others follow James 1:27 in this beautiful way!

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Elle J - July 27, 2010 - 12:14 pm

I have a dear friend who is widowed due to cancer that struck her husband, and she is left to raise her three young children solo. Out of all the “little things” I have done for her (little because it never seems to be enough when you care for some one so deeply ~ you just want to do it all), my favorite was surprising her with a bouquet of flowers on her wedding anniversary, the first with out him. Seeing her face shine and reading her eyes ~ said it all.

Christina - July 27, 2010 - 12:50 pm

I LOVE LOVE LOVE this post and posted a specific story of such on my blog not long ago. The post wasn’t to “toot my own horn” but to testify that scripture is very right when it says it is worship – true worship. Our hearts must seek to serve both!!! And 1 Timothy 5:3-4 tells us to begin with our own families first. Feel free to read my post in all your free time 🙂 http://johnandchristinaanderson.blogspot.com/2010/05/love-serving-washing-of-feet.html

Rachel - July 27, 2010 - 2:11 pm

This is a lovely post, and so true. In our Church we believe in helping everyone. Be it a dinner to the sick, visiting the elderly or alone, watching someones kids for a while or just simply calling to see if someone needs anything.
I find by helping others we receive so many blessing! To be lost in HIS service it the best service we can give.

I think this video say it all….

http://www.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?locale=0&vgnextoid=bd163ca6e9aa3210VgnVCM1000003a94610aRCRD&channelId=bd163ca6e9aa3210VgnVCM1000003a94610aRCRD&sourceId=d81be1b0b00b6210VgnVCM100000176f620a____

Your family pictures are simply fabulous, I’m lucky enough that I get to stitch peoples families and then those are given as gifts to others.

Have a happy Tuesday!

:)Rachel Berry

natali - July 27, 2010 - 3:46 pm

amen! 🙂
and i loved the family pic!

kristi johnson - July 27, 2010 - 5:02 pm

we have a widow in our sunday school class (so hope she is there this sunday) but my hubby just went over and helped build her kids’ a tree house…kristi

Christy - July 27, 2010 - 6:57 pm

Yay, glad you focused on this! 🙂 Can’t wait to hear what others’ responses are and get some more good ideas. Love the family picture – you are SO cute and beautiful, both inside and out! 🙂

Heidi - July 27, 2010 - 8:34 pm

you pushed me over the edge .. I have been wanting to write about my mom for weeks now just wasn’t sure how to do it and your post today inspired me to finally take a leap of faith to share.. My mom is a widow and sometimes you don’t have to look far to find them .. they are all around us:) again I just love following along

Bobi Bobbitt - July 27, 2010 - 11:57 pm

Great post as always, Andrea! This has inspired me to take my three boys to visit widows in our local nursing home next week! My heart goes out to these precious women! Bobi

Jordan - July 28, 2010 - 12:03 am

Hello!

First time commenter here. I am so inspired by your blog! I am passionate about grief and widow care and the role this plays in our local churches. I can’t recommend the book “From One Widow to Another” by Miriam Neef enough. She challenges churches to take the call to care for the widow seriously and offers amazing advice on ways the church can reach out to the widows in their communities and congregations. She also gives heartfelt insight into accepting the “new normal” that a widow/widower faces and encouragement for the road ahead. I know you are so busy right now, but this is a great book to consider when you have time for reading again!

Keeping the “coo coo” out of the cocoon… (AND a few more FIRSTS!)

Whether adopting or you just have little kids–many of us stay-at-home moms with little ones find ourselves at home for much of the day. The question is–how to be HEALTHY and keep the “coo coo” out of the cocoon when you are at home with little ones! I have by NO MEANS mastered it…we’re only 1 month in to the official cocooning (I wouldn’t call us official though because we do regularly cheat to remain sain:)…but I will happily share what we have learned SO FAR as with 4 kids 5 and under we’ve been in nap mode for awhile! Here are a few things that are REALLY helping…

1. No matter how hot, cold or terrible the weather is–I GET everyone outside for fresh air at least once a day! For me, this is no easy task with a 11 month old, 20 month old, 4 year old and 5 year old. SO…I lock the backyard gate and they run around…and they really don’t NEED anything out there…so don’t feel like you HAVE to have some grand great things in your yard to entertain them! We have no playset or playhouse or pool…just good ole grass and it’s good for everyone…and I think my kids have amazingly wild imaginations because of it. We also do lots of picnics when we can…I wish I could say they all look like this……but my sweet neighbor (thank you Liz!) did this one for me last week…which brings me to…

2. Give someone else your superwoman cape for awhile. No matter how capable I feel…or no matter how much I don’t want people to do things for me (my weakness!)…I am really trying to graciously accept offers for help…food, laundry, helping with the older ones…whatever…and I’m trying to do a better job about asking loved ones and close friends to help—Remember they love you and want to…but they don’t know if you don’t share your need! I am horrible at this–but I’m getting better for the sake and sanity of my family:-). This ALSO includes…if you can’t get the help you might need–know when to budget for hired help! Richard is a traveler–so there have been days that I hired a babysitter to come play with the older kids so I could just nap when the babies napped to recover from the previous night so I can be a good mommy for the rest of the day and not get worn out before my week is even halfway over. (You might not require sleep but you haven’t seen clean clothes in awhile–so know when to drop off all your laundry at a cleaners with a folding service or to hire a cleaning service. I hate cleaning for the cleaning people–so babysitters for the older kids are my recoup treat. You ALSO need to know what it’s OKAY to LET GO OF! For us, it’s no longer having a clean house…and we’re happy when it’s just tidy:)…which these days…is VERY rare–and we’re okay with that:). It’s also helpful for me and the older ones to have a social outlet with people outside our family unit, so we also make sure we have playdates and friends over about twice a week. I need it as much as they need it! And some times–a good social playdate is all the help you need! (But more visitors? Oh, but your cocoon plan said to limit visitors…which brings me to number 3…).

3. We are okay with altering our cocoon plan when necessary:). Our cocoon/coming home/attachment plan is not the Bible–it is our goal and a guide. If you feel you are welcoming the unwelcomed feelings of “coo coo” into your cocoon…then it’s time to alter your plan or deviate just a bit. We are still limiting visitors and outings—but we have definitely gotten out a bit more this past weekend as Isaac Temesgen has done GREAT getting out…and it’s been good for the other children too. AND by getting out…we’ve been able to do some MORE firsts!

4. Set goals. Having a purpose and goals in what I want my purpose to be helps me remain focused and remember the value in staying home. I’m a former teacher and know the importance of naps and good rest for brain building–so, I have a goal for each child’s appropriate nap and rest time for healthy brain development. I set achieveable goals for each child’s character and spiritual building and understanding (this is more so with the older ones), physical achievements (this is more so with the babies) and educational growth. Doing this helps me think of what crafts we will do and how we will spend our time at home…it gets me motivated and purposeful about our time together.

But before we share some more FIRST of ITY…the MOST IMPORTANT PART OF KEEPING A SOUND MIND IS…

5. Rest in and rely on the Lord. Remembering that God has called me to do this as a mom…spending time alone with Him—and remembering that I can still worship Him every day from my cocoon. THIS has been the BIGGEST thing to keep me from feeling isolated or a little coocoo;). When putting the kids down for bed, instead of singing them their normal good-night songs, I’ve been including some worship songs. The lights are off–they can’t see my face really…and I just close my eyes and worship the Lord. It’s been some of the sweetest time in the cocoon and a reminder to me why we are cocooning…why we are growing our family…why we must be willing to die to ourselves and put others first. If I didn’t spend time reflecting on this–spend time reading–spend time praying and spend time worshiping…then I would be tempted to feel sorry for myself or think there was actually something better that I could be doing. When REALLY–we are connecting as a family and growing closer…and these days will be some of my sweetest memories ever:)

Here are some SWEET firsts from our weekend!!! (you have to excuse the photo quality…taken with my iPhone:)

Isaac’s FIRST breakfast out…(we are documenting them all!)

So, so thankful that when I called Nana and Papa to ask if they could come they packed their bags and were able to celebrate some firsts with us…and give the older ones some TLC too…

What is Frank thinking while he waits on breakfast???

And THEN…Saturday night we all went out AGAIN for ice cream! What a day of TREATS! I didn’t have a camera with me for this–but I did find my hand Flip video and was able to get Isaac’s first ice cream cone!

Don’t you LOVE his faces?! The funny part is later he begged for more! Just takes him awhile to warm up to new things I guess! And COLD is one of them! I guess you don’t get much COLD in Ethiopia do you?!

And now for our week ahead! We all went out to the bookstore and Isaac had his first Barnes and Noble experience. We bought a book on gross motor skills as we get ready to start physical therapy next week. Without leg and arm muscles, our little guy is VERY flexible. I will one day miss his limberness…We are going to start some exercises next week here at home to get strong before we start physical therapy. Our first appointment isn’t until the NEXT week on August 6th…so I thought I’d do some homework and get a headstart:).

Hope you all have a great week!

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Shannon - July 26, 2010 - 2:17 am

Love his face with the ice cream! Too cute!Thank you for your tips for cocooning and I will definitely be referring back to these posts someday:)Praying for his Isaacs night sleep:)

Becca Harley - July 26, 2010 - 6:59 am

oh, his face is priceless with the ice cream!!! Love it!

april - July 26, 2010 - 7:25 am

love the post, especially the one about setting goals! I love how you keep your children in mind and where they are at growing to know what craft or thing to do! how neat! LOVE LOVE LOVE Isaac’s face while he is eating icecream! adorable!

Megan - July 26, 2010 - 12:48 pm

My husband and son really enjoyed that little video too! Thanks for the tips on cocooning….I’m really nervous for that part. But I loved hearing from someone that if you are feelign crazy its okay to change the plan as needed….I tend to be an all or nothing girl so that is wonderful to here. =)

Amber - July 26, 2010 - 1:35 pm

So glad you are keeping from going “coo coo” during your cocooning! Ice cream – yummy. So fun that Isaac was asking for more later! AND, I can NOT get over how much Frank looks like your dad. Goodness!!! Same facial expressions, too. He must be one proud papa!

cris - July 26, 2010 - 3:45 pm

My…how you are growing. I am proud of you for being flexible and trying to do the best for your family. Wish I could be there for you to bring you a meal and take your laundry.

Like I said…transition is HARD. Like a whole new level of hard.

Hugs…

Alison - July 26, 2010 - 5:43 pm

Good advice on the cocooning stage! I don’t think I am going to do well with this! I go crazy staying in the house…we are always out and about! This will be a big adjustment, for sure! Will have to look back at these tips! 🙂

Kelli Ross - July 26, 2010 - 8:27 pm

Your title cracks me up. Good tips!!! Sweet, sweet pictures.

marci - July 26, 2010 - 8:48 pm

Have been out of town and loving catching up with Isaac Temesgen ! I tried to write a couple of week ago and the computer ate up all the words…He is sooooo precious,beautiful and adorable …we continue to lift your family in prayer.

Shannon - July 26, 2010 - 8:55 pm

Ya- the ‘flexibility’ in those low toned bodies. I’ll never forget the first time I brought T into a conveinence store and let him walk. within 30 seconds he was squeeling and looking back and forth, front and back so fast his feet couldn’t keep up with where his eyes were headed… he started and turned and did a split right there in the middle of the store. Lesson learned by momma.

kristi johnson - July 26, 2010 - 11:54 pm

too adorable…I always got out..i guess you knew that…I never stayed home much at all..just wore LL ALL the time while out…she was happy, i was happy, my 4 littles were happy…and I’d go Coo Coo staying home every day…Staying home all day every day makes me crazy!! :)loved the video, kj

Some sweet “firsts”…

For a year we dreamed of this sweet baby–and although we missed the first 10 months…we RELISH in every FIRST! Here are some sweet firsts from this week…

“My first time wearing shoes…”

(You are sitting SO well little man! And to think you couldn’t do this by yourself 4 weeks ago! We start physical therapy in less than 2 weeks!!!)

“My first dinner out with my family…and first time to be YOUNG – PARTY OF 6!”(taken with iPhone:) And one of my sweet blog friends sent us to dinner!!! Thank you Lindsay and the Hoang bunch for treating us to our first dinner out! Seriously…this momma has ministered to my soul in emails with her encouragement!!! She wanted to bake us a casserole but since she lives a couple of states away…she sent us to dinner instead! Lindsay, I thought you would love to know your treat was our first meal out with our new one…and as a party of 6!

“My FIRST popsicle…AND my FIRST wave caught on camera!” (I am IN LOVE with the way he waves! He can’t open and close his hand for a fast wave just yet…but his up and down wave MELTS me!)

“My first sweet peas/green beans…” (normally…I just couldn’t video my kids not loving something…BUT his face was TOO funny that I just had to run get my Flip and capture this!)

“And of course…my first funny face…”

“Oh…you didn’t think that was so funny?! Well…take this!”

“Or THIS!”

“You know I’m cute;)”

“And a shout out to my crazy home-boy…”…”we are a tag team…so gotta make sure you see his craziness too!”

It’s been a busy week with very little sleep…with a visit to the ER, more checkups…and trying to keep up with 4 energetic cuties! Another doc visit today—with a GREAT report at that:). Isaac is 19 whoppin’ pounds—he has gained 5 pounds in 1 month. He is sleeping like a champ during nap time now that his tummy no longer hurts—but he still likes to visit with mommy all night. I know that in the baby world sleep begits sleep…so I’m hoping we’re turning a corner here soon;).

I’m so thankful for friends and family who have been SO supportive during this time. If you have a friend or family member adopting–I can’t even express how much it has ministered to us to have others invest in our older kiddos.Helping an older baby adjust is 2x as much work as bringing home a newborn—so our hearts will forever be thankful for those who have sacrificially supported us and helped us during these first weeks adjusting! I am just so thankful for friends who have come to pick up my older two for playdates (Kelly, Christy, Nisia…so thankful! And thank you for insisting…you girls know me well!)…it has helped me so much so I can help Frank adjust to his new role as he has needed more of me and also enabled me to give Isaac Temesgen the TLC that he also needs!!! And P and L have LOVED it! So thankful for our family who has been here for us too!!! Our sweet Aunt Reid took P and L swimming today and Gigi has the older 2 right now for a fun slumber party at her place tonight. AND my precious parents JUST CAME TO TOWN to see us through the weekend! We feel so blessed to have our family support and help us during these sleepless nights. I ran into a wall twice yesterday (not kidding!)…I’m dangerous people before coffee and no sleep! I had a SWEET day with just Frank and Isaac today…so you better believe that this weekend I’ll be posting a few sweet pictures…

…you know I can’t wait to tell you what they were talking about;)

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april - July 24, 2010 - 12:28 am

oh andrea….i just love the pics of Isaac and of course the videos! loved his wave but loved his face in this second video even more! QUESTION: Where did you get his “worth the wait” shirt in the first video? I would really like to get that for my Isaac! :0)

missy - July 24, 2010 - 1:14 am

what fun firsts. his smile, his eyes…he is absolutely enchanting, andrea!

Rachelle - July 24, 2010 - 1:24 am

Andrea,

I can’t thank you enough for all your posts, photos, videos, & fun silliness! You are helping ease the time while we wait! Thank you for being Free Therapy! I can’t wait to be on the wait list! 🙂 Only one more document away!!

God Bless, http://www.bethebodyfor1.blogspot.com

Dawn - July 24, 2010 - 2:13 am

So cute! Love that last pic..it says to me look here big brother….let’s go do something quick before mommy notices 🙂 he he he….

That’s what our boys do and they are all close in age- yep…. 🙂

marcy - July 24, 2010 - 3:50 am

Love, love, love to see more video of ITY! I feel like I see the toddler version of those faces everyday! The “What in the world is that?!” face. So funny…

JonesEthiopia - July 24, 2010 - 2:19 pm

We brought E home at 10 months, too, and missed a lot of her firsts, so I know exactly how important those “firsts” are! He’s amazing!!

Kim - July 24, 2010 - 9:15 pm

What priceless first. Love that popsicle video. Really … I cannot get enough of Isaac!

Alisha Robertson - July 24, 2010 - 9:39 pm

He is seriously cute… I mean seriously!

Shelley - July 24, 2010 - 10:36 pm

ITY is so cute in the videos. I love the last picture. I can’t wait to meet ITY. Hang in there. You seem to be doing a wonderful job. We continue to pray for you and your family.

Natasha - July 24, 2010 - 10:46 pm

Oh sweet Isaac, I make the very same face when I eat green beans, too! Love how much he’s grown!

Bobi Bobbitt - July 24, 2010 - 11:41 pm

As always… another precious post from a precious family! What an inspiration you are to us! Leaving for Nashville this coming week for AGCI’s conference!!!!! Counting down the days, praying that God will do amazing things in our hearts while learning more about adoption! I would like to send a little something to Isaac, what address should I mail it to? You can just email me… jbjjbobbitt@earthlink.net! bobi bobbitt, edenton, nc