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We have retreat dates!!!

Ok mommas…whether you have adopted already OR you are in the process of adopting…or you just KNOW adoption is in your family’s future…this retreat is for YOU! I am so excited to announce we have RETREAT DATES for the VERY FIRST “Created to Care Women’s Retreat”! This year’s theme is “Love Will Hold Us Together”—and if you have adopted you know this is SO true! Adoption moms surround one another–encourage each other…mourn together through the hard times and REJOICE together when we bring our babes home and see them begin to THRIVE in their new families!!!

Now…there will be LIMITED SPACE AVAILABLE, and we are hoping to start registration NEXT WEEK…so STAY TUNED so you can be the first to register…take advantage of the early registration discount…and secure yourself a spot!!! I can’t wait to tell you ALL about the breakouts, special guests (I am still in shock they are available and how excited they were to join us!)…and of course my personal favorite–the DESSERTS AND FELLOWSHIP! We even have a FUN t-shirt we will be selling to cover additional retreat costs in order to keep your retreat more affordable! SO…mark your calendar and STAY TUNED! This is one weekend YOU WILL NOT WANT TO MISS!


Isn’t this place whispering, “Come awayyyyyyyyyy with me…”?!Be sure to tell your adoption momma friends so they get sign up before it fills up!!! We are holding 100 spots—but when you hear the details next week…I know it will fill up fast! SO…share this fabulous news with all your adoption momma friends…decide whether you want to room solo OR go ahead and tell your close adoption momma friends and you can save by rooming together (there are LOTS of rooms with 2 queen beds!)…and if you want to be really CRAZY you can get 4 mommas to room together and slumber party and really save on your weekend! DOESN’T THIS SOUND LIKE SOOOO MUCH FUN?!

AND check out our super cool retreat fundraiser shirt…Special thanks to Brad Senter of DESIGNsenter for creating our amazing shirt!!! SO TRUE…it is LOVE that creates our families!!! And the really cool thing about this shirt—is that if you read the RED only–it says “love a orphan”! Cool, huh?! You know you want one;-). When you buy one, it goes toward our retreat costs allowing these mommas to come be blessed and encouraged as they follow the Lord in growing their family through adoption!!! They will be up for sale soon as soon as our retreat registration begins!

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julie@Flitterbugs - October 14, 2010 - 3:40 pm

Yea!!!! So excited and wish we could sign up today!!!!! (Feel free to just stick my name on the list:)

Megan - October 14, 2010 - 4:15 pm

LOVE this!!! Wish I could commit to go, but chances are I will be traveling to Ethiopia around that time. Pretty good excuse not to come though, right?!? ๐Ÿ˜‰ But 2012, I’m gonna get a group of my adoptive mama friends and we’re all gonna go together…so this better become an annual thing! =)

emily v - October 14, 2010 - 4:21 pm

so excited!!!!!
Emily V.
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christie - October 14, 2010 - 6:20 pm

I cant make it to the retreat but LOVE the shirt. I am going to have to get one of those!!!!

chrissy - October 14, 2010 - 7:13 pm

How much will it be? That’s just 5 hours from home! ๐Ÿ˜‰

Rebecca Harley - October 14, 2010 - 7:40 pm

I am with Megan – hoping to be in Ethiopia (would love love love to go together:) – but definitely next year. Or, maybe if the list moves with lightening speed and we get a referral soon:) Never know!! What an awesome way to bring such an incredible group of momma’s together!!

admin - October 14, 2010 - 7:57 pm

Yep…if you get your referral by December 1st—it would be tight! But after December 1st…I think you are safe to plan a trip to the ATL!

Sonya Weese - October 14, 2010 - 7:58 pm

What is the cost?

Mandy - October 14, 2010 - 8:16 pm

๐Ÿ™‚ Okay a couple questions! Can any adoptive momma come? Our daughter is adopted but she is not from Ethopia? ๐Ÿ™‚ ..Also can you make the shirts in reg. t-shirt so us bigger adoptive momma’s can order them! Reg T-s are so much better for us! LOL

Jennifer - October 14, 2010 - 8:58 pm

You don’t mess around girlfriend! Love how you pulled this together! I have to figure out a way to come!!! Sounds like a great winter break from MN to me! ๐Ÿ™‚
Jenny

Kristin - October 14, 2010 - 9:12 pm

Love this, and girl, I am so there! Just talked to the hubby and it’s on the calendar! Cannot wait!!! THANK YOU for doing this! We mommas need this and we need each other. Happy weekend – mine is now off to a GREAT start! ๐Ÿ™‚

Keely - October 14, 2010 - 9:39 pm

very very excited… cant wait to hear more details… this just might need to be my birthday present!

Mary Beth - October 14, 2010 - 10:09 pm

Just reading about this brought tears to my eyes. Sounds like heaven to this tired adoptive momma. Plus, my in-laws live only 15 minutes from this place! Perfect! I’m definitely there!

Jenny - October 14, 2010 - 10:30 pm

Talking to one of my besties (who is also an adoptive mom) about heading to GA for this! So excited that you were able to pull this together!

Asher Collie - October 14, 2010 - 10:50 pm

Wait! Exciting! This looks awesome! Where can I find more details? Is this for already adopted moms…or moms like me in the middle of an adoption? Where in GA is this and when?

Asher Collie - October 14, 2010 - 10:51 pm

Oh wow! Somehow I MISSED the whole first have of the post! Sorry!! Don’t know where it was on my computer. ๐Ÿ™‚

Carrie Lantry - October 14, 2010 - 10:52 pm

This sounds wonderful! Can’t wait to hear more!!!

Kara Portilla - October 14, 2010 - 11:09 pm

I would love to be there!

Bobi Bobbitt - October 15, 2010 - 6:30 am

Planning to be there Andrea!!! Now to find a roomate! (:

Sarah Rideout - October 15, 2010 - 8:20 am

I am very excited to be a part of this!! Please send the info as soon as you get a chance!~
Sarah

Kelly - October 15, 2010 - 10:21 am

Sooo excited! Can’t wait to hear the rest of the details!

Wende - October 15, 2010 - 10:37 am

please let me know when registration opens!

Angela - October 15, 2010 - 10:54 pm

I can’t wait to hear the details!

Frances Worthington - October 16, 2010 - 7:55 am

I may not can make it, but I would love to try…what about foster moms??

debraparker - July 23, 2011 - 12:45 am

hi. i am an adoptive mama who would LOVE to purchase one of these shirts. do you happen to have any left?

Celebrating how God chooses to change our plans!

REMEMBER the precious family I posted and featured back in August that has chosen to adopt FIRST? Who is with our agency and who just happened to have a completed home study that would put them in a position to be ready at moments notice…only the current wait for Ethiopia is now over 1 year (trust me–it’s not because there isn’t a need–there are approximately 5 million orphans in Ethiopia!)…so CHECK this out. THEY ARE PARENTS!!! They chose adoption as their FIRST choice…their Plan A—and you have got to read their story! They may still be in shock–but they are sleepless and on cloud 9!Britney called me the week she got THE surprise phone call and we finally touched base…and when we did I heard a squeaky little noise in the background! A sweet baby BOY! I love how God chooses to some times change our plans and how His plans ALWAYS prevail!!! I love how they felt pressed to begin their home study when they did and they were already prepared for the plan and child God had set aside for them to love and raise. You have to read their story HERE and be amazed AND rejoice with the twists and turns some times God makes our stories take! Praise be and glory to God who loves us and these babies so much to put the two together for His glory!

Celebrating with the Cannon family and so excited to see what their future brings!

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Jenny - October 14, 2010 - 8:15 am

AMAZING! Thank you for sharing, Andrea! What a precious little boy!

Kim J - October 14, 2010 - 10:34 am

Andrea…remember how surprised I was for a half second when she was the winner of our first “Dress for a Cause” giveaway? Surprised only becasue they were not yet on the adoption journey. A perfect example of how God has us on a journey even before we know it ourselves! I remember her fb posts saying she had won like 15 adoption t-shirts and the comments were like..”Huh?? What for??” Simply amazing!

Kim - October 14, 2010 - 10:56 am

What a familiar story! Thanks for sharing!

Wiphan sponsorship and a HUGE praise!

I have gotten a few emails that a few of you guys out there want to sponsor Wiphan kids–but you can’t seem to find the link on the Wiphan site! I got this same request back when I posted about the Silent Night project…SO I’ll share those direct links with you all so you can go check out these links and join us!!! First, we only have less than 1/4 of our Wiphan kids on the site for sponsorship. We need to get these kids sponsored before we can add more. And you will probably notice that most of the kids still in need of sponsorship are older kids. We currently have just SIX kids needing sponsors!!! JUST SIX! Will you just take a moment to read their stories—pray over each one as you read them—and consider whether the Lord would want to use you to make a difference in this child’s life? You can view the direct link by clicking here: WIPHAN CARE MINISTRY CHILD SPONSORSHIP

P.S. I am SOOO pumped that you guys have answered the call to care for some of the kids I posted just a couple of days ago!!! MOST of the children I shared NOW HAVE SPONSORS!!! YAY! YAY! YAY! You guys seriously BLOW me away!!! You are being the hands and feet of Jesus and caring for these kids who need someone to care!!!

IF that link doesn’t work for you, go to the Wiphan website at www.wiphan.org and click on the 3rd square at the top that says “Child sponsorship” and then click on the picture of the two children that has the writing on it that says “Click to sponsor a child“. Ok, I know some of you are laughing now that you realized you missed this–BUT if it makes you feel any better I missed it the first time too and didn’t realize the picture WAS the button to click! SO…check it out now. JUST like I wasn’t open at first to the older child (SO THANKFUL that is who we have!!!), I must also confess I didn’t always get the sponsored children who had birth parents. BUT…then I realize that MANY children that are abandoned or left at orphanages HAVE BOTH birth parents but they are able to provide. Some of you may have a calling to sponsor children whose parents are living but can’t afford to feed them or send them to school–and don’t underestimate how blessed you will be JOINING their parents in caring for them!!!! Let me introduce you to just one of them…

MEET Veronica…Veronica lives with her mother and father. She has 7 siblings. Her favorite color is red. Her favorite subject is math, and her favorite bird is a chicken. She wants to go to school because she wants to improve her life. She wants to become a nurse. Would you consider encouraging Veronica and sponsoring her…would you consider helping her stay in school so she can achieve her dream?! And just maybe would you consider visiting her one day and letting her know how you prayed for her and what a blessing it was to be a part of her journey?

Wow! I am so prayerful that the last 6 kids on our site will get sponsors soon!!! And we can focus on getting MORE kids up and sponsored. My sister April is the sista behind the sponsorships—she works tirelessly to put everything together, to keep up with enrollment and to work with our staff in Zambia to get more of our children’s profiles, pictures and facilitate communication between the kids and their sweet sponsors. I can’t wait to tell you guys when these 6 are sponsored. AND if you are led to sponsor–would you mind sending me an email just to let me know!!!

ALSO–if you would like to help an orphan BUT you aren’t able to sponsor—consider giving a ONE TIME GIFT to help an orphan stay safe at night! You can learn more about our Silent Night Project here: Silent Night Project Slideshow. You can make a ONE TIME $45 donation which goes toward keeping an orphan safe from malaria with a mosquito net–gives that child a place to sleep with a foam mat and sheets and protects the child’s family from intruders with a lock and chain to be secured on their wooden door of their mudhome. You can click here to join us in keeping them safe.

LAST BUT NOT LEAST AN UPDATE ON…SERIOUSLY–is he NOT the cutest little STINKER you have ever seen?! DROOL and ALL!

TODAY was THE big appointment at the neurologist! And—we have a MIRACULOUS PRAISE!!! The neurologist feels strongly that Isaac has NO handicap linked to his hypotonia. We will go back in 3 months to check progress—but he did NOT see the need to schedule diagnostic testing or a CAT scan today after our LONNNNG exam today. When we came home JUST 3 months ago, Isaac was 11 months old. They said developmentally he was around 3 months for fine motor skills, 4-6 months for gross motor and not to hot on the reflex/cognitive, etc. We hit the therapies and we’ve been burning the rubber on the roads from therapy to therapy to doc visit to doc visit. We’ve had x-rays, ultrasounds, UTIs, parasites, E. coli, fevers, night sweats, viruses…you name it–we’ve been there the last 3 months. I was convinced we had some serious problems. I was at my WITS end and I even visited a homeopathic doctor who started us on a healthy track (no more sick visits since we have been under his care!!!) We have been working HARD on physical therapy–mostly at home on the floor…and TODAY–it was all worth it!!! He told us NO MORE feeding or occupational therapy…and to hang in there with the physical therapy until ITY is walking…which he believed would happen before he turns 2 based on his progress!!! He ALSO said just 3 months later he is now developmentally around 10 months on fine motor (jumped 7 months!), gross motor AND reflex/cognitive!!! I am SOOOOO thrilled, excited, elated, can’t believe it and happy!!!

We finally FEEL the light at the end of the tunnel–and it feels SO GOOD!!! We really believe our son who was classified as “special needs” is no longer going to special needs—AND the most amazing part is…in THIS process God has given us a heart FOR special needs in a new way!!! I have a FEELING what may be in our future…say WAY down the road—but I am just so thankful for the HARDNESS of the last 3 months. I wouldn’t trade ANY of it for the world…and I can’t believe that *I* get to live this life that God has chosen for me. The plans He has for YOU really are amazing!!! Do NOT be afraid to follow Him…even when it doesn’t make sense!!! It WILL BE worth it—and it is so much MORE amazing to live a life where you NEED Him desperately to help you rather than create what you think you want or need. I’m so thankful for others who went before me on this journey and paved the way…inspiring us…and I can’t wait to cheer many of you on as you follow Him!!! (By the way, I am a horrible commenter–but SO many of you who leave comments with your blog address listed—I visit your blogs and ALSO pray for you…and I just love getting to watch so many families follow His plan in crazy but amazing ways!!!)

NOW…just to make you smile–Isaac visited his FIRST pumpkin patch. I have to tell you that he ISN’T a fan of grass before you see this picture…and he isn’t a fan of new places without momma holding him…so when you put ITY down in front of a pumpkin in a patch–you get this…

I thought MAYBE he’d be happier with his siblings and friends with him…but not so much…

Now LANEY on the other hand…she was made for country stuff like this!

BUT FRANK…he is chicken when it comes to loud noises…so when the tractor cranks up…someone better be ready for him to jump in their arms…

Thanks to Christy…he was safe…not quite like other little ones who would be excited about a tractor…but he felt safe and that is all that matters…Christy is my friend who God brought into my life when He knew I’d need her the most!!! She is the MOST sacrificial person I have EVER met. She is my friend that makes me a better mommy…so I can go to doctor visits with just one child instead of leaving in tears with all 4! She has two beautiful children–and with EVERY doctor appointment she was ALWAYS there if I needed her!!! She has 2 beautiful children–and when I beg her to have more she always reminds me her calling is to be there for crazy families like mine. Maybe you aren’t called to adopt OR foster…but just maybe God could use you to bless friends the way Christy does her friends with crazy families. REALLY when you are tempted to think I am a “super mom” or how do I do it…DON’T GO THERE!!! I am NOT super mom–and if I appear to be–it’s a false alarm and it’s really because of friends like Christy that I am making crafts with glue instead of snorting it. (Just checking to see if anyone really is still reading this.)

Christy, her hubby Brad and Rico Suave took ALL the kids through the corn maize–while ITY and I parked it by the corn…I was NOT about to take him into that creepy thing…teenagers squealing and such. We were happy little larks waiting outside and eating our sweet potatoes and carrot baby food!

And the night ended with marshmellows and smores!!!I stink at night time photography by the way…but I still had to share these!See told you I stink at night time photography…UM…you can’t see ANY of our children…BUT the fire does look cool…right?!
Ok…so maybe that’s where I’ll aim to improve this year…taking night time portraits! I’ll work on that;)STILL I captured their FUN and THAT is all that mattters!!! Hope you all have a great week!!! Ours is a crazy one SOOOO…I might be MIA for a few days!! I am going to whip up some pumpkin shirts this week—so I’ll be back when those are done to share with ya!

Thank you for praying for us this past year and especially the past 3 months!!! So thankful to all of those who have journeyed with us!!!

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Kathryn Lewis - October 12, 2010 - 9:48 pm

SO wonderful to hear Isaac’s improvement – Glory be to our amazing God and for giving you all the strength and persistance! Btw, I laughed out loud when I read your glue comment =) I was still reading!

Jenny - October 12, 2010 - 10:43 pm

I am SOO SOOO excited about ITY’s doc appt. Praise the Lord! I love this post and loved your last post. We also have an older sponsor child. He’s from Rwanda and I just got a letter from him TODAY so I loved reading your post and thinking about him. I actually taught in Rwanda for a summer and got to meet my child. Quite a blessing!!

natali - October 13, 2010 - 12:35 am

it has been such a joy to journey with you guys! ๐Ÿ™‚

Christy - October 13, 2010 - 6:48 am

Thank you for the challenge to live for God in the way that I have to desperately seek Him… I needed to hear that today! Praising God with you for Isaac’s great updates! ๐Ÿ™‚ And LOVE those Laney boots you keep posting pics of her in! ๐Ÿ™‚ Do they make those in adults sizes? hehe ๐Ÿ™‚ Have a great rest of your week!

Meredith - October 13, 2010 - 6:54 am

I am so excited about Isaac’s progress. I love how God works! I can’t imagine the joy it brings God to see you rejoice in what He is doing for your son.

Jenny - October 13, 2010 - 8:22 am

Still SOOOO happy reading all the good news about ITY!!!! Praise the LORD!!! Also, so funny that your worst nighttime photography is pretty much better than my best! LOL! Praying for sponsors to come in quickly for those precious kiddos!

Cristie - October 13, 2010 - 1:21 pm

I’m PRAISING GOD for ITY’s great report!!!! Exceedingly and abundantly!

Elle J - October 13, 2010 - 2:25 pm

While I would *love* to be in your town and walk our journeys arm and arm – I am still grateful for the long distance walk that we take. Precious photos – and funny one-liner about the craft glue. Ya know I read it all!! =)

Alison - October 13, 2010 - 6:01 pm

Yay!! SO excited to hear this awesome report on sweet baby Isaac! Praise God! And I just ordered CG some cute boots like Laney’s…she is so excited!!! (didn’t have her size in the store!)

Becca - October 13, 2010 - 11:07 pm

So so so excited about the good news about your cutie! ๐Ÿ™‚ maybe we could hang out again sometime soon?

The blessing of sponsoring an older child…

This morning I opened up my letter from our 16 year old son in Korah. I say our son–because my heart is beginning to quickly feel like he is. I praise my God that it is HIS work and not mine—that He is changing my heart to feel just a BIT what He feels…and it continues to break even more for the orphan.

My children were sitting at their little kid-size table eating breakfast…my husband was finishing his coffee…my newest son was sitting in his high chair miraculously eating table food–the Lord has been good and is slowly taking away Isaac’s dislike of solids and textures (but let me also add that if He chose not to take that away…He is still SO good!). Everything in my world this morning seems perfect. I opened up the letter and read my 16 year old son’s writing all the way from Korah, Ethiopia…my hand traced down the page memorizing his handwriting—reminding me of how my kindergarden child forms his letters. He is sixteen. He looks like a tough kid as I stare at his picture. And then I read each word of his seven sentence letter…and I am broken.

He is in the 5th grade…he is SIXTEEN…yet he is SOOO happy he says to finally go to school. He loves ball. And the last two sentences break me. “I love you. I love you.” The second ‘i love you’ has been traced over too many times to count. I imagine him writing this letter and how he has longed to say those words to a family. A 16 year old orphan…who deserves a family…who deserves love…who deserves to go to school.

Sixteen and in the 5th grade.

Then I think about 16 year olds in our culture…how different life seems to be here. Many 16 year olds in our culture feel they are being deprived if they don’t get a CAR when they turn 16. They are in the 10th grade. The things that are important to Ashbet are so much different…yet I hope and pray that God will use Ashbet and our growing love for him to change us and what one day is important to our children when they turn 16. And really…the decisions and how we choose to live NOW will be what determines that.

Thank you Lord for not letting me be comfortable here. Thank you Lord for bringing Ashbet into my life. Forgive me Lord that when I signed up to sponsor a Korah child that I was at first a bit bummed it was a 16 year old and not a cute little 6 year old. I am SO thankful Ashbet is who you set aside for us to love. Help us to love him…to serve him…and to even one day visit him. Help me Lord not to get caught up in our culture…to think I ever need to impress those around me by what I say, what I wear, what I do…but instead to love as you love and follow you no matter what that might mean giving up. I believe you Lord. I believe what you say in your Word is true. I choose to live for You. Oh Lord Jesus–love our Ashbet today…let him feel your presence…protect him…fill him with Your joy…bring us to his mind when he longs for his parents reminding him that he has parents across the world who love him and would even bring him home if they’d let us…thank you Lord for our son in Korah…Amen.

I noticed on Wiphan‘s child sponsorship page there are some kids who are older who have been up since the beginning of our sponsorship program started…they are older–and don’t have sponsors yet. I just want to encourage you if you desire to sponsor a child–there is such JOY in loving the older child!!! And from what I hear…there is even greater joy in bringing the older child HOME. Thank you Lord for opening up my heart to the older children…thank you Lord that they are not forgotten!!!

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Kristin - October 12, 2010 - 9:53 am

Thank you for this word this morning. Our SS teacher has been teaching us from a book called Holy Subversion by Trevin Wax. He said what’s been on his heart lately is the fact that we think we are being blessed and are blessing our children with “stuff” that may actually be cursing them. It makes me think of the 16 year olds with cars. Is it really a blessing to be able to give them things that their friends will think is cool or are we cursing them? Thank you for your transparency!

Elle J - October 12, 2010 - 10:12 am

This speaks to me at a deep level as I am sponsoring what I consider to be an older child through Wiphan. Her pictures is not only on our fridge with letters posted on there too, making her part of the family, but my children are talking about her to friends. Amazing. We have grown so much as a family in 10-short months. Thankful for God’s direct hand in our learning and sharing and giving … through Wiphan! Sponsorship is so-not a one way street!!! Imagine that!! =)

Lara - October 12, 2010 - 10:12 am

I started sponsoring a 12 year old girl through Compassion when I was in college. Now my family still sponsors her and she is 18! It has been such a blessing to see her grow and I specifically requested an older child because I knew there was more of a need there.

jennifer gniadek - October 12, 2010 - 12:55 pm

thanks for this humbling post~

Kim - October 12, 2010 - 7:45 pm

Would you mind posting a link directly to the children available for sponsorship? I am having a hard time finding it..

I love Fall…

…not sure if FRANK loves Fall though;). Seriously–this is JUST Frank’s constant expression. BUT FRANK…we LOVE this about you!!! And can ya TELL our Loo loves being the princess at our house?! Here are some pictures from our Sunday afternoon enjoying FALL!



Happy Fall Y’all!!! There is nothing quite like it!!! My FAVORITE season!

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Megan - October 11, 2010 - 3:06 am

These are too cute! Thanks for sharing.

Kim - October 11, 2010 - 5:59 am

OH how I am lamenting fall!
Love & Blessings from Hot & Humid Hong Kong!
Kim

april - October 11, 2010 - 10:18 am

i love fall to andrea, it’s my favorite season! Love your pics!

Alison - October 11, 2010 - 1:53 pm

Too cute!! And where did you get Laney’s boots? My Callie Grace would love those!! ๐Ÿ™‚

Staci - October 11, 2010 - 4:28 pm

I’m impressed that you are happily loving fall. In spite of the fall wreath on the door, cider in the fridge, and a trip to the pumpkin patch, I still can’t get over the temp in the uppers 80s. Geez… I hope the real fall gets here and stays here very soon! In the meantime, Happy Fall Y’all! ๐Ÿ™‚

Amber - October 11, 2010 - 9:24 pm

Cute pics! Ella Beth has some boots that she is dying to wear. Laney looks super cute in hers. ๐Ÿ™‚

Theresa - October 11, 2010 - 9:53 pm

Awesome photos! I too love fall. I am finding it is one of my favorite seasons.

Becca - October 13, 2010 - 11:07 pm

BEAUTIFUL pictures!! I LOVE these! ๐Ÿ™‚