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Catching up…Ethiopian Christmas…AND Oh Rosie–let me count the ways!

I’ve been missing in action working like a busy-momma-bee getting ready for the RETREAT which is JUST a few weeks away. The Lord CONTINUES to provide for this retreat in MIRACULOUS ways–and I truly believe He wants to do something big through it! I have some REALLY, super big exciting things happening behind the scenes–and while I’m anxious and want to go ahead and tell you all…some of the best things just have to wait! God has provided amazing speakers and breakout session leaders–and He continues to put things on my heart…and I can’t WAIT to welcome everyone and share the LONG LIST of God’s provisions and some of His purpose…and what He has laid on my heart! I think it’s pretty safe to say we will probably do this again and again–and I’m super excited to get to be a part of the very first ONE…and so excited for the ladies He has called to be together to rest in Him and seek Him together as adoption moms with hearts for the world. NOW…I’m not going to get carried away and I’m going to try to save the rest for my welcome!!! I’m SOOO excited! WOOT! Get excited ladies!!! Get ready to be blessed!

And SPEAKING of RETREAT. If you are waiting on your shirt to come–it’s a’comin’! NOW…I’ve been getting emails from people from all over the country asking things like…”next year, could your ministry please consider hosting the retreat more central–say in Denver”…and things like this. WELL…that makes me feel like I must have done a decent job on the website and it isn’t QUITE so obvious this crazy momma is the one behind the scenes…with just my sister and dear friend Christy tag-teaming. WELL…it’s also been this momma packaging the tee-shirts like a crazy lady…and you know how crazy it is to make USPS visits with FOUR kids in tow. It’s been QUITE the experience! And although I tried MY BEST to explain the ladies fit t-shirt sizing–I think some didn’t see the explanation AND I will say they are about 1-2 sizes smaller than normal (you need to order 1-2 sizes UP). NOOOOW…if you got your got your t-shirt in the mail and it fits like THIS…

BAH! HA! HA! (Christy and I love our hubbies with our same sense of humor!) PLEASE…by all means…don’t feel the need to come with a Tee painted on!!! Just bring your unworn/unwashed tee to the retreat for a little exchangey…and we’ll hook you up with a better fit.

NOW…on to more pressing matters…

THIS past Friday we celebrated Christmas in Ethiopia!!! It is very important for our family to teach our children all about Ethiopian traditions and to make it a part of our family’s life. SOO…we ventured off to celebrate with a few friends downtown Ethiopian style! How CUTE are these boys…

This was Cliffy G. and Isaac’s FIRST Ethiopian Christmas!!! So fun for these three to celebrate it together!!!

Sweet Laney wanted to wear her Ethiopian dress too…

AND THEN…we ended the night how you always end the night when celebrating with Cliffy G…he breaks it down of course…everyone loves some Cliffy:)

NOW…you wanna know what the most frequent question I have gotten this week has been?! Nothing about life, my kids, the retreat…but about ROSIE. “SO, how’s it going with Rosie???”

WELL…I tell you–it is the STRANGEST thing because you all know how I feel about dogs. BUT I know it’s crazy, but I really feel like ole Rosie was a Godsend. She has added giggles to our house, helped dry tears and even motivated Isaac to attempt standing on his own more (dog therapy people–I think there is something to it!) Richard and I KEEP looking at each other and saying, “Can you believe it? Man, what are the chances we’d ever have another pet like her?” I’ve gotten emails from people who have heard what a good girl she is asking what breed she is. She is a mixed breed–german shepherd…gentle, calm, doesn’t bark and ONLY cries when one of the babies cry. Seriously–a dream dog. She is sleeping right at my feet while I type (YES I KNOW on my list of things for a pet was OUTSIDE…but you don’t even know she’s here until you try to stand up and realize there was something at your feet sleeping! She is THAT easy!)

SOO…you have to see just a little Rosie action…

Sooo…this is Isaac throwing a fit and I couldn’t calm him down. SO…I brought him in the same room with Rosie. Rosie doesn’t get excited or geared up with the fussing–she just is concerned…looks up and cries just a bit when he does.

NOW…Isaac really gets going…I seriously had tried everything–snacks, sippy cup, holding, bouncing…he is just approaching 18 months and we all know terrible 2’s really starts around that time…

THEN…I pull in help and Rosie comes…

GIGGLES abound…and little man even forgets he is standing BY HIMSELF because he is so into the dog!!! WHO WOULD HAVE THOUGHT ADDING A PET WOULD MAKE MY LIFE EASIER?!

I wish you could hear Isaac squealing and giggling here…

And Rosie girl just sits—waiting for it to be over…she is SO patient! She moved to the foyer to go back to her rest…and of course look who crawled behind…

Isaac loves to talk to her and he’ll lay on her and hug her–and she doesn’t budge.

THEN little man crawls over to perform his favorite Itsy-Bitsy spider where he does the hand motions! His fine motor skills are still developing but he raises his hands for climbed up the water spout!

My FAVORITE part of his song is what he does RIGHT before “washed the spider out”…he holds his hands like this and then lets them fly out…SO PRECIOUS!

And of course he cheers for himself when he’s finished!

The itsy-bitsy is our way of giving ole Rosie a break–because then it’s right back to Rosie…

SWEET Rosie…NEVER thought I’d say that about a dog…much less about one at MY house!

She’s even house-broken! And she asks kindly to go out…

And she doesn’t have to worry about anyone forgetting she’s out there…they wait at the door until she comes back in!

Truly…life is good! The kids are at such fun stages…Frankie baby is starting to talk more (kind-of…but we still can’t understand him:)…Isaac is standing–not walking YET…but hopeful it’s around the corner. We’re still doing physical therapy weekly–and we are in the midst of retreat planning AND I am 99% sure we will be leading a trip to Africa this summer…so things are good–and I am thankful! It’s supposed to SNOW tomorrow in the South so OF COURSE they have already cancelled school tomorrow–so I’m super excited to have everyone home tomorrow…sounds like a pj day!!! Love to you all…and excited to meet and see many of you very, very soon!

XOXO!

Andrea

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Angela - January 9, 2011 - 11:05 pm

I am SO excited about the retreat! πŸ™‚ Also, busted out laughing at y’all’s husbands wearing the shirts! So funny!

kristi johnson - January 9, 2011 - 11:18 pm

Maybe Santa will bring our 6 kiddos a puppy this christmas..they are already begging for it…and I can’t stand…i mean I do really love dogs too much πŸ™‚ I like other people’s dogs…just don’t want one of my own πŸ™‚ Looks like lots o fun at your pad these days, kj

Melanie Strobel - January 9, 2011 - 11:40 pm

Love your little man and his new best friend. Looks like the perfect dog now resides at your house. Happy snow day! Mel

Alison - January 9, 2011 - 11:44 pm

So excited that we have no school tomorrow too! YAY!! I’ve got to order my shirt too…can’t wait for the retreat!!!

Kim - January 10, 2011 - 9:12 am

Oh our kids are begging for a dog! Daddy says, “Let’s wait til we get back to the States.” But something tells me they will wear him down sooner!

Beth - January 10, 2011 - 1:45 pm

So excited about the conference! Thank you for all that you are doing!

Erin Crenshaw - January 10, 2011 - 3:33 pm

Loved seeing IT with Rosie! Happy Snow Day! We were out, too! We had so much fun!

leslie masterson - January 10, 2011 - 3:35 pm

Looove that new header picture of Frank. Gave this momma a good laugh right when I needed it. What a precious boy!

Candy Pearson - January 10, 2011 - 5:08 pm

Oh my gosh! I love seeing our boys together! So glad you could celebrate Ethiopian Christmas with us! Cliffy G hearts Issac!!

Dawn - January 10, 2011 - 6:13 pm

LOVE your fun ETH Christmas time πŸ™‚ he he he

I LOVE the effect that pets can have on kids- especially hurting and hard to deal with children. Seriously a GREAT asset to have πŸ™‚

Chrystal - January 11, 2011 - 3:23 pm

so jealous of little rosie, and here I was one of the ones telling you that you were CRAZY for even considering it. πŸ™‚ We got “Sammy” (boxer/lab mix) at only 8wks and let me just say.. he whines, barks, whines (until he gets his way), BITES (hard, too!), pee’s, poops… um, yeah.. let the FUN begin. Add 5 little girls, which one who refuses to allow us to even “try” to discipline w/ a firm “no”, and well.. you can SEE why I told you to run like the wind, woody! πŸ™‚ I’m seriously SO happy that Rosie fits in so perfectly with your clan… def. a gift from God, because sister.. I’m on the other side & if little Sammy wasn’t so stinkin’ cute, he’d be outta here faster than little Frankie baby can pound away a donut. hahahaha

Melkam Yelidet Beaal!

That’s “Merry Christmas” in Ethiopia!!! Yes, TODAY is Christmas day in Ethiopia!!! One of my dear friends who lives in Ethiopia sent me a link explaining how their country celebrates Christmas. As Isaac gets older, we want to celebrate this special day traditionally as they do–but needless to say this morning we didn’t make it to early Ganna mass;). Maybe when he’s a bit older to understand we’ll join the local Ethiopian orthadox church on this special day. But I can definitely attempt to explain the game also called ganna to the children and encorporate as much as we can–even if we are playing Christmas music and remembering what today means for our son’s birth country. So…a little bit of how this day is celebrated…

Ethiopia (and especially the Ethiopian Orthodox Church) still use the old Julian calendar, so the celebrate Christmas on January 7th, not December 25th! The Christmas celebration in the Ethiopian Orthodox Church is called Ganna. Most people go to Church on Christmas day.

Many people fast (don’t eat anything) on their ‘Christmas Eve’ (6th). At dawn on the morning of Ganna, people get dressed in white. Most people wear a traditional garment called a shamma. It’s a thin white cotton piece of cloth with brightly colored stripes across the ends. It’s worn like a toga. If you live in a big town or city you might wear ‘western’ clothes. The early Ganna mass starts at 4am!

The Ethiopian capital city is Addis Ababa. It’s a modern city. Most people who live outside big cities live in round house made of mud-plastered walls which have thatched cone-shaped roofs. Sometimes houses in the country are rectangular and made of stone.

The design of Ethiopian Church is similar to the houses. In the country, they are often very old and have been carved out of rock. In cities, modern churches are built in three circles, each within the others.

The choir sings from the outer circle. Everyone who goes to church for the Ganna celebrations is given a candle. The people walk around the church three times in a solemn procession, holding the candles. They then go to the second circle to stand during the service. The men and boys are separated from the women and girls. The center circle is the most important and holy place in the church and is where the priest serves the Holy Communion or mass.

It’s also a tradition that one of the Wise Men who visited Jesus came from Ethiopia.

Around the time of Ganna, the men and boys play a game that is also called ganna. It’s played with a curved stick and a round wooden ball, a bit like hockey.

Traditional Christmas foods in Ethiopia include wat which is a thick and spicy stew that contains meat, vegetables and sometimes eggs (sounds yummy!). Wat is eaten on a ‘plate of injera – a flat bread. Pieces of the injera are used as an edible spoon to scoop up the wat.

Twelve days after Ganna, on 19th January, Ethiopians start the three day celebration of Timkat. It celebrated the baptism of Jesus. Children walk to church services in a procession. They wear the crowns and robes of the church youth groups that they belong to. Adults wear the shamma. The priests wear red and white robes and carry embroidered fringed umbrellas.

Musical instruments are played during the Timkat procession. The sistrum is a percussion instrument with tinkling metal disks a bit like a vertical tambourine. A makamiya, a long T-shaped prayer stick is used to keep the rhythm and is also used by the priests and a stick to lean on during the long Timkat church service!

Ethiopian men also play a sport called yeferas guks. It’s played on horseback and the men throw ceremonial lances at each other (sounds rather dangerous!).

People don’t give and receive present during Ganna and Timkat. Sometimes children might be given a small gift of some clothes from their family members. It’s more a time for going to church, eating lots and playing games!

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Rachel Campbell - January 7, 2011 - 10:31 am

You are such a wealth of knowledge, I just love you!!

Erin Crenshaw - January 7, 2011 - 2:50 pm

I wish I was there right now celebrating with our little one! This made me feel a little closer to our child today! πŸ™‚

Sandi - January 7, 2011 - 3:21 pm

I think it is so fabulous that you are celebrating Ethiopian traditional holidays! Even though in my heart I feel called to Asia when hubby says yes, I’m gonna get my boys ready for all possibilities! I found some traditional Ethiopian recipes that we are going to try at
http://www.ethiopianrestaurant.com/recipes.html http://www.pakupaku.info/ethiopian/ethiopianintro.shtml

Predictable Me - January 8, 2011 - 11:59 pm

I truly enjoy your blog. I just joined today. I myself started a blog today please feel free to stop by my blog and follow. I also wanted to say you have the nicest page I’ve seen. Very professional and beautiful. Its actually peaceful.

Retreat breakouts and info…

WHEW!!! You know if I ever skip a few days blogging…it’s because I’m busy as a bee–and that I have been!!! I’ve been not only chasing my 4 littles 6 and under—but also packaging tee-shirts to fundraise for the retreat (other than the hotel the adoption moms coming only had to pay $100 for the ENTIRE weekend!) SO…it’s required some fundraising on this end and lots of coordination to pull it all off! We STILL have about 3 more breakouts to tell you about…and from now to the retreat we will be featuring some of our breakout session and main session leaders so you can get a sneak peak at what is to come for the 250 women attending!

FIRST–as you know…we tweaked the name from Created TO Care…to Created FOR Care. We we not only created to care for others…for our family, our children, orphans and others…but we were ALSO created to be cared FOR. And this is what the retreat’s purpose REALLY is: To connect adoption moms to one another and encourage them into a deeper connection with Christ—to see how they are CARED FOR and created to be cared for by their Creator and by His provision in one another.

SECOND–our verse and how it ties in with our logo. THE SPARROWS. If you are a blog reader of mine and have followed our journey–then you might remember how God has encouraged me and spoken to my heart through reminding me of His provision and purpose through this small creation of His. Just for your entertainment…He seems to put these little guys in my path when He is trying to teach me…that the broken need healing…and each of us matter deeply to Him (remember the little bird outside OfficeMax?) OR do you remember the bird that was waiting for us out side the pulmonologist that day…when I was so weary…and the song he sang??? I felt God just reminding me that HE would be my strength in this journey. Or the old hymn…how His eye is even on the sparrow…so I know He is watching and caring for me. And I couldn’t help but smile when I saw the verse laid on my heart written in a post before I ever knew my son’s name. I LOVE this verse for SO many reasons…and it truly applies to our weekend in more ways than one…

“Even the sparrow has found a home, and the swallow a nest for herself, where she may have her young–a place near your altar, O LORD Almighty, my King and my God.” Psalm 84:3.

and finally THIRD: are you READY to see just SOME of the breakout sessions for the weekend??? Oh I’m so excited! Visit our new retreat website to see the breakout sessions I’ve posted so far–tomorrow I’ll be adding a few more…but right now I still have lots of t-shirt packaging to catch up on!!! SO…head on over the the new Created for Care website and check them out! (I’ve still got some tweaking to do and lots to add there–but we’ll be sending out sign ups for breakouts at the end of the week so I thought I’d let you all go ahead and have a sneak peak!)

There are a few things not even on their that are going to be AMAZING that we will do!!! I have meetings every night this week concerning the retreat…and I’ll be a busy bee until then–but to be a part of caring for many of YOU…it is so worth it!

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Alison - January 5, 2011 - 3:27 pm

The website looks so GREAT!!! And just reading about the break out sessions gave me chills!! I am so excited about the weekend I can’t stand it!!! πŸ™‚

Heather R - January 5, 2011 - 3:27 pm

the break out sessions look amazing! we can only pick one from group? how will i ever chose?

Kelly - January 5, 2011 - 3:38 pm

Ahhhh! I’m sooo excited! Everything looks sooo amazing! Its going to be so hard to choose! When do we sign up? πŸ™‚

Leigh Ann Harris - January 5, 2011 - 4:42 pm

Hey Andrea! I will be driving to the retreat from the most northern part of Indiana (right on the Michigan state line) and I could not be more excited!! God’s timing for this “break” is perfect! As I spent some time with the Lord this morning, I read Matthew 10:28-30…and of course, I love the last part of those verses…”So don’t be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.” God is good! Can’t wait to “meet” you and all of the other moms!

JonesEthiopia - January 5, 2011 - 8:29 pm

Can’t wait to be there! Thank you for all the work you’re doing to make this weekend so special for all of us.

Erin - January 5, 2011 - 9:23 pm

πŸ™ I am so sad I am missing this!

Debb - January 6, 2011 - 1:13 am

You are SUCH a gem! Thank you for ALL that you are doing to make this such a special weekend! I am SO excited to be joining all of you! May God uplift you and strengthen you as you take all of this on on our behalf! Bless you!

Jill Gorman - January 6, 2011 - 9:45 am

I am really looking forward to the reatreat!! πŸ™‚ I can’t wait to learn from and share with others who are on a similar journey!! Thank you for all of your hard work!! I KNOW the weekend will be a blessing for all involved!

Ashley - January 6, 2011 - 10:45 am

I have not stopped talking about this since I read the different breakouts yeterday! :0) I think my husband wishes it was this weekend just so I would stop saying how excited I am to be going!! I’m praying for renewed energy for you every morning between now and then!!!

Mary Craig Hart - January 6, 2011 - 1:14 pm

The breakouts sound amazing! I can’t wait to meet you and all these other Mamas!

audrey - January 7, 2011 - 1:05 am

I can’t wait for this retreat!

More crazy to our crazy:)

Sooo…I’m not what I would say is a dog person. BUT I have 3 boys and a little girl…so I knew at SOME point they would want a pet. I asked my dear Facebook friends for advice…and I got everything from what breeds we should think about to personal emails telling me NOT to do it…for a variety of reasons. SO…we went in JUST LOOKING…and with a checklist.

It went like this…
Hypoallergenic.
Lab, Collie or Golden Retriever.
Non shedding.
Outside dog.
Older puppy.
Male.
GO in and make a list…come home and do the research…

ALL the while I could hear the advice “your life is crazy already…get a fish”…

I truly tried to pump my oldest up that he really needed a fish. “Mom, what happened to our last fish? AND–this will be my dog…my responsibility…”

We went to look…WITH our list…and the funniest part was Richard wasn’t with us because he had an appointment else where. I forgot to tell him about our little outing UNTIL our ride home. (I’m married to a man just as crazy as me…and thankfully we both roll with just about anything:).

We played with puppies…we played with labs…we played with a Saint Bernard that knocked us all over and had my side hurting I was laughing SO HARD! I kept trying to tell the worker that he was NOT the dog for us but all I could get out laying there on the ground with a Saint Bernard over me was, “I don’t think, I don’t think…” I could hardly catch my breath—and Parker, Laney AND Frank had ALL climbed the fence and where screaming at mommy laying on the ground laughing her side off! Isaac was in the stroller and didn’t think it was funny. AND THEN…in came Rosie…

She didn’t fit ANYTHING on our list.

SHE is a 3 year old mut mixed breed:). A little shephard…who knows what else–you can tell she is a shedder…she should be an outside dog but she’s spent more time inside than out…but she is the SWEETEST little thing. And she just might cure my dog fear and soften my heart to furry critters a bit. I SAID A BIT. THIS GUY on the other hand…he’s head over heels…

And how do you say no to THAT?

So imagine this. Rich calls at noon to ask where we are. AT THE TIME we were just leaving church and crusing north. So…I said just that. Then we kept cruising. And 3.5 hours later we had spent 3 hours at the animal shelter—and we were on our way home. He called again to say he was on his way home–asked where we were and I responded, “Oh–just leaving the animal shelter.” SILENCE. “Um–Ang…you didn’t get a dog DID YOU?” I respond–“Oh no, not a DOG…um–I wouldn’t call her a dog..maybe an older toddler. I mean…a 3 year old is a toddler still right?” Nice huh…gotta love a hubby who rolls with it:)

So…once AGAIN…I said I did something I said I’d never do. And best of all–when you get a dog from the humane society they aren’t expensive and her monthly upkeep should be less than a trip or Wii video game. And since Parker and Laney are often STUCK home with TWO babies napping (no gas needed!) and this house has a no video game mush to your brain policy…a dog to run and play with and learn responsiblity and compassion might have seemed crazy to some…but for us–I think adding this crazy to our already crazy seemed like a perfect fit:).

The only problem so far–I got woken up at 7am NOT by Rosie–but by a bright-eyed little boy asking if he could go let Rosie out and play with her. So far so good…and I promise our next addition will just be a fish…I think;).

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Melanie - January 3, 2011 - 2:08 pm

I just LOVE how it looks like she has “hearts” outlining her eyes! Look closely…can you see it? PERFECT for your family with such BIG hearts! πŸ™‚

Alison - January 3, 2011 - 2:10 pm

Oh my goodness!! Rosie it just adorable!!!! My kids are begging for a dog too! Gonna try to hold them off for a few more years…hopefully! πŸ™‚

Gini - January 3, 2011 - 2:32 pm

She is beautiful! It sounds like she’ll be a pretty cool addition to your family. πŸ™‚ (BTW, LOVE the new photos in your header!)

Joy - January 3, 2011 - 2:36 pm

Oh, she’s lovely! And I doubt she will shed any more than a lab, golden, or collie, if that’s any comfort πŸ™‚ And…having her indoors lots is likely to be good for monitoring interactions and helping her develop all kinds of comfort around kids and people in general…Sure, there’s the occasional inconvenience to having a dog, but I think they far outweigh any of that with what they add to life! Enjoy πŸ™‚

Dee Dee Aarseth - January 3, 2011 - 2:51 pm

We have a girl mut and she is THE best. I personally think that mixed breeds are WAY better…something about all that pure bred over and over can kinda blow up in your face sometimes. Anyways I think you did perfectly, girl dogs are much more lady like if you know what I mean… πŸ™‚ a girl is a good choice…you need to balance out that testosterone in your house!

Erin - January 3, 2011 - 2:52 pm

Awe, Andrea!! Rosie is such a cutie!! I LOVED reading this story, b/c I felt like I was reading my life! Only, we don’t have a dog, and we haven’t traveled to Ethiopia YET for our little one…I felt like I was reading my future story. We are telling our oldest “not yet,” and he LOVES dogs. LOVES THEM. I have said, “Definitely not a dog that sheds…”!! HA! We will see if it turns out like yours! πŸ™‚

Kelly Johnson - January 3, 2011 - 3:23 pm

She is precious!!! Dogs are the best! Ours is part of our family for sure and our little girl’s bestest friend. She is a lab and sheds more than any dog I’ve ever seen in my life…but every hair is worth it. You made a great decision and did it with your heart–the best way. :c)

Jennifer - January 3, 2011 - 3:45 pm

Nice. I use a dremel on my dogs’ nails. ..just a thought. I got it at Lowe’s, and the one absolutely loves, loves, loves it. She runs and gets on her side when I unplug the charger from the wall. If she had her way she would have them dremeled every day, but the nails don’t grow fast enough.

Jenny - January 3, 2011 - 7:12 pm

Love it!!! This is so sweet!

Bonnie Nieuwstraten - January 3, 2011 - 10:53 pm

Oh, I am laughing! Because I also had a very firm NO dog policy (kind of like my firm NO retreat policy!!) but in late October I also fell prey and we now have an adorable little lhasa who makes me crazy! Have fun!

Jennifer - January 4, 2011 - 12:29 am

OK, I am a reader of your blog and several others, but very rarely comment. But, today I have to. We, too adopted our number 4–from China in March of this year and it has been an AMAZING blessing. I have SO enjoyed so much of what you say about adoption and God’s heart for orphans. AND, how funny is this? Just got a new puppy 3 weeks ago! Definitely more crazy to the already crazy! But-great…and I agree, kids, especially boys, need a dog! Enjoy!

Kim - January 4, 2011 - 7:16 am

You are living the dream! Oh my … Rosie is adorable. I am going to have to sign off quickly before the kids catch a glimpse of your new four legged family member. My older boys have been searing Hong Kong dog rescue website for weeks. I’d give them the green light, but Daddy O isn’t there yet. You got me wondering what would happen if I just did it! Not sure he would roll with it! Ha!

Kim - January 4, 2011 - 7:18 am

P.S. Your new header is over the top cute. But it looks like it is missing a new four legged member of the family?!

Sheila - January 4, 2011 - 12:07 pm

LOVE it! Just what your kids needed and over time you will realize you needed too!

marci - January 4, 2011 - 1:51 pm

PRECIOUS addition to family….real love and play ahead and years of sweetness with Rosie onboard !

Debb - January 4, 2011 - 6:42 pm

Awwww……this dog-lover LOVES this story! Rosie captures my heart via pics, so I can imagine what she is doing to yours! Good move, mom! I agree……what a great present for Parker and Laney! and the rest of the fam! I can’t wait for the post that speaks of how much your hubby has fallen in love with her! {grin}

Rachel Campbell - January 5, 2011 - 1:45 pm

I’m so excited for you guys!!!! All little kids deserve a Dog πŸ˜‰ … this coming from “very MUCH a dog person” πŸ™‚ Its Good crazy.

christie - January 5, 2011 - 9:51 pm

We have a mixed breed dog. She is getting ready to turn 8. She has been the BEST dog I have ever met πŸ™‚ It seems that mixed breeds are best. Congrats on the new addition to the fam!

Day 8 of the Journey of the Magi (our LAST one!)

While I originally thought the Journey of the Magi would last around 2 weeks right up to our Christmas in Ethiopia celebration (January 7th is when they observe Christmas!)…BUT we have little to go on in Matthew’s documentation–but what we do have is rich enough to follow Christmas with their story every year. I wish we could say we ended our Magi story on a good note. But truly–it is awful. Can you imagine? They are warned to go a different route to bypass King Herod–this is for their protection…some times hard things are for our protection. THEN–Herod finds out he has been outwitted by the wisemen–which really ticks King Herod off. I mean, seriously makes him angry. BUT this is really fitting for what is ahead…hard–but fitting.

Matthew 2:13-18 “When they had gone, an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream. β€œGet up,” he said, β€œtake the child and his mother and escape to Egypt. Stay there until I tell you, for Herod is going to search for the child to kill him.” So he got up, took the child and his mother during the night and left for Egypt, where he stayed until the death of Herod. And so was fulfilled what the Lord had said through the prophet: β€œOut of Egypt I called my son.” When Herod realized that he had been outwitted by the Magi, he was furious, and he gave orders to kill all the boys in Bethlehem and its vicinity who were two years old and under, in accordance with the time he had learned from the Magi. Then what was said through the prophet Jeremiah was fulfilled: β€œA voice is heard in Ramah, weeping and great mourning, Rachel weeping for her children and refusing to be comforted, because they are no more.”

So…our Magi are told in a dream by God to go another route. God’s plan. A different route…a harder route…a longer route—the first one only took a year…are you serious God? Okay, okay. God’s plan. Herod realized the Magi aren’t coming back to tell him where Jesus is…who disobeys the king…the government…he was filled with rage–this Jesus that the country is talking about and kings come to see–Herod would do anything to stop the world from following this said-to-be King. Herod’s plan? To kill EVERY boy baby under 2 years old and younger in Bethlehem AND its vicinity. To have moms weeping…babies and precious ones dying…to have over 600 families, as historians have estimated, lose their sons and many, many others effected by the loss of family members…and although they knew Herod was the hatred behind the slaying…every time they heard the name Jesus they would know it was because of Herod wanting to kill Jesus that their babies where killed. OUCH. Not a way I want to come into the world…Surely this couldn’t be God’s great idea of how He would get everyone to fall in love with Jesus and follow Him…RIGHT?

I think about the old hymn, “Jesus, Jesus, Jesus. Sweetest Name I know.” I can’t imagine the pain in these families…all a result of the Magi upsetting King Herod. I have tried to put myself in the shoes of those moms who lost their little ones after the Magi left. We never tell this part of the story at Christmas time do we? YET–this is part of how Jesus came into the world. Truly, it was as if He never even stood a chance. Then you have the entire community wrecked and mourning…do you think those moms ever wondered, “Why my baby boy?” And later…every time she saw Jesus in the streets or heard about him–she would remember the last time she heard his name in the streets and lost her own son. “Yes, he’d be about his age,” she think to herself…”why my baby boy?” I mean, have you ever wondered why the world was so quick to cry “crucify”…or why it wasn’t so popular to follow this Jesus? Of course, He was radical. Of course, He said He was God–and that made some people scratch their heads. But there was also a rather large group who had been directly effected by his name since his birth…and this sets us up for the journey of the cross in the months ahead.

For Jesus–I have to imagine that life even from the beginning just didn’t seem fair. And for these families effected by Herod’s hatred of Jesus–life wasn’t fair either. I don’t have all the answers. In fact, I feel like I have very few. And I also realize my non-believing friends who read my blog scratch their heads and wonder about me half the time any way. I mean…who is this God who lets hard things happen? I mean…if He is God–why doesn’t He just come down and stop it? I wish I could answer all the questions–and while I know little…I do know He desires us to trust Him…He desires to allow Him to heal our wounds…and I don’t understand it…but there is something that happens when we relinquish ourselves completely to Him…and trust in His name.

I also believe that some of these moms eventually trusted and believed in Jesus. And I also believe that at some point–they could have even sung a hymn about His sweet name as He healed their deepest wounds…


Sweetest Name I Know
There’s within my heart a melody
Jesus whispers sweet and low
Fear not, I am with thee, peace, be still
In all of life’s ebb and flow

Though sometimes he leads through waters deep
Trials fall across the way
Though sometimes the path seems rough and steep
See his footprints all the way

Jesus, Jesus, Jesus
Sweetest name I know
Fills my every longing
Keeps me singing as I go

Feasting on the riches of his grace
Resting β€˜neath the sheltering wing
Always looking on his smiling face
That is why I shout and sing

Jesus, Jesus, Jesus
Sweetest name I know
Fills my every longing
Keeps me singing as I go

All my life was wrecked by sin and strife
Discord filled my heart with pain
Jesus swept across these broken strings
And stirred these chords again

Truly, I think we often miss a lot of the hardship Jesus, Himself, came into the world with. I think it’s important to realize it, meditate on it and understand it. I’ve heard pastors and teachers of the gospel say “Jesus came into the world and experienced pain so we could identify with him…” or “so He could identify with us”. I’m not so sure any of us could ever REALLY identify with Jesus, his pain and how hard things really were from the beginning for him. Sure He can identify with you–because He’s been there…but to identify with Him? Wow…we really need to start at the beginning…and think about how hard even the beginning really was. But there was nothing God, Himself, would not do for a personal relationship with YOU. THAT is WHY He came my friends. Because He loves YOU that much. And if you journey in this world and miss THAT–then you have missed everything. Period. And He’s just too good to miss.

So now…our real journey begins. And each day–we’ll store up treasures in our treasure box…writing them down as we go and remember ways we have seen Him…the one worth traveling across the dessert and back for…and He is worth going one step further with…

So much to look forward to in 2011!

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