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Created for Care Retreat…

WOW! I am finally coming up for air after crashing pretty early the last two nights! It was SUCH an amazing weekend–one that I really can’t put into words!! “REALLY, you say?” I know, I’m a writer at heart–but there are SO many things that were just amazing…AMAZING…about the weekend. Truly, I have NEVER in my entire life been to a retreat like this one–and I can take ABSOLUTELY ZERO credit for it. It was just the Lord all over it!!!

From start to finish–for me…it was a taste of heaven. Beginning with praying with the session breakout leaders and speakers over all the women there–I started off the weekend in tears (good tears!) and I think I choked up at every prayer and welcome from then on out! I was challenged to be around other moms who have followed the Lord in growing their families through adoption…opening their hearts and homes to little ones because of Kingdom living—taking care of orphans by changing their status to SONS and DAUGHTERS…and being willing to go in the depths of brokeness with their little ones to see healing and hope begin to truly happen.

I loved that we heard from SO many different adoption moms and teachers—so often you go to retreats and it’s the same “key note” speaker–and you find yourself listening to the speaker and hearing from them more than seeing the common thing so many different speakers are talking about—and listening to hear from the Lord above all else. One thing I really loved, was our “Date with God” time. I would do this time an injustice to try and describe it—it was just incredible…to be able to pray over others prayer requests, to sit quietly before the Lord…and to even paint and create sculptures as I prayed and just rested in His Peace.

And the worship—it truly blew me away. On Friday night I was taken back during worship. I wish I could have held it in–but the tears poured down my cheeks as I sang to the Lord for His perfect plan and for His goodness. There I was with over 250 moms following Him in this way–and I looked to my right and beside me I saw Laura McBrayer. Then I looked to my left–and I saw Amy Stavnes, Melanie Strobel, Meghan Dempster and Kristin Burleigh…and several other moms that ALSO had their babies home—but to me—these babies are so very, very dear. Their babies were in the orphanage at Hannah’s Hope the SAME time as my Isaac Temesgen…

So there I stood–in Atlanta, Georgia…praising God with these other moms…when last year–we were all desperately waiting for a phone call–to call us with a referral for our children…to tell us they were okay…to tell us the wait was over–and we could soon bring them home. Then–there I stood with hands lifted high with the MOMS of the babies that my son roomed with at the orphanage just a year ago…all of our children were once orphans…they were once across the WORLD…and now I stood there praising the Lord WITH them WHILE our babies were home safely tucked in their beds with their daddies home caring for them. SERIOUSLY–I was overwhelmed by His goodness and grace! And that I would have the opportunity to not only MEET these moms–but worship WITH them. wow. Wow. WOW!

So many wonderful things happened–and I also believe SO many wonderful things will come out of the retreat. Before the retreat began, we only had around 20 moms signed up to attend the HIV adoption breakout. After we were EDUCATED by Amy Levy and Susan Hillis HOW HARD it is to get HIV and really…just how uneducated our country is on HIV in general…YET how DESPERATELY these children NEED to come home to moms and dads who will care for them and get them the medicine they need to LIVE–blows me away. Seriously–what IS Kingdom living about?? One thing is certain–I am 100% certain that if I were living in the Kingdom and looked down to see thousands of children in orphanages with HIV with very short lines waiting for them…that I would LONG to come down to Earth and tell them how LOVED they are…how VALUED they are…and how God WILL speak to hearts to find them a family. Oh–I pray we listen when He calls!!! BUT GET THIS! After the pj panel–more moms signed up for this and the next day there were more than twice as many present as moms that had originally signed up!!! Just amazing!!!

The breakout sessions–were incredible…and after debriefing with some of the session speakers and planning crew–we already have a long list of ideas for NEXT YEAR! Did I just say NEXT YEAR? Absolutely!!! We are so in–and we can’t wait for many of you to join us again!!! We will be sending out a survey later in the week to hear from teh 250+ mommas input to help us with planning next year’s retreat! Now…what did other mommas have to say??? Well…I have spotted a few on blogs–but of course send me your link if I don’t have it so I can share it too! Would love to share what other moms got out of the retreat!

Here’s just a few…

This is a Great Adventure
Hearing ItToys in My Coffee
Our Journey to 6
Jones Always and Forever
The Bice Family Blog
My Resting Place
Filled with Praise
Our Something Beautiful
We Love our Lucy
Dockery Bambino
Lovin Much
The Growin’ Gothros
The Shubins
Begin with One
Inexhaustible Love
Blessed Bentons
And 2 Became 5
The Farmer’s Wife Tells All
Mixon Mania
Leigh-One Day at a Time
Adding Astons
The Brown Brigade

Okay…so if you blogged about the retreat–email me your link so I can share!!!! AND your favorite pics too! We can totally use them for next year fun stuff:). I did not take ONE single picture. NOT ONE. SOOOO…here are a few fun ones that have been sent my way…

YES…ITY made his appearance…but JUST for a very short bit on Saturday for lunch!

Thank you Kim for sending these!!!

LOOOOOVED getting to see so many of my adoption momma blog friends!!!!!!!!(Pictured above: Courtney Aston, Mitzi McBride, Hilary Helms, and Lara Dinsmore (aka the Farmer’s Wife:)

Me with the moms whose little ones were at Hannah’s Hope TOGETHER!!!!! (Laura McBrayer, Me, Melanie Strobel and Amy Stavnes)

One REALLY cool thing is even the staff jumped on board with our heart!!! AND this sweet friend is FROM Ethiopia!!! How cool is that?!

LOVED getting to meet these fun blog and AGCI mommas…and Aimee Powell too. I love that we may all be from different parts of the country…adopt from different places…YET our heartbeat for these kids is the same!!!!

Ok…so I’m sure more to come!!! Just wanted to share a little bit of the retreat while I had a moment!!! Can’t wait to share more…and can’t wait to share 2012 dates once they are in place so you can mark your calendars!!!!!! XOXO!

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Bonnie Nieuwstraten - February 9, 2011 - 12:19 am

Andrea~ Thank you, thank you for taking me under your wing on Sunday and taking me to the airport. It was SO above and beyond and it blessed me – really! It was a treat to get to spend a few hours getting to know you. Thank you for all that you poured into the retreat. I’m praying for your new area of ministry this week. Praying that He will give you energy and wisdom to love and to listen and let Him move.

Elle J - February 9, 2011 - 12:31 am

You are Beautiful, Andrea, inside and out … I could feel the power and passion of this weekend in your writing. How awesome is our God – love this!!

missy - February 9, 2011 - 12:42 am

wow. what a beautiful weekend. sure wish i could have experienced it. but i feel like i am getting to live vicariously through everyone’s posts. it is obvious that the lord really met you all there.

Kim - February 9, 2011 - 3:37 am

Sounds like God did immeasurably more than we prayed for!
Love & Blessings from Hong Kong,
Kim

Amy @ Filled With Praise - February 9, 2011 - 7:22 am

I just cannot tell you enough what a blessing last weekend was to my heart. I am so thankful that you said YES to God when He put this on your heart. I pray that your family will be abundantly blessed for being obedient to His calling.
Love you!!!
Hugs,
Amy

sarah hurst - February 9, 2011 - 9:13 am

i am thoroughly enjoying reading on lots of adoption blogs about the Created for Care retreat! it seems like everyone had a blast and truly felt the Lord in that place! i can’t wait to see the dates for 2012; i’m ready to schedule it on my calendar…can’t miss it! thanks for all your hard work. God Bless!

Audrey Brown - February 9, 2011 - 10:10 am

Thank you for following your heart and having this retreat. It was so encouraging to me. http://the-brown-brigade.blogspot.com/2011/02/sitting-at-foot-of-cross.html

Christina - February 9, 2011 - 10:57 am

I’m still speechless about the weekend. It was awesome. It was life-changing. I’m going to try to crank out a post this week so it will have a page in our blog book for memories’ sake, but seriously, there are just no words to describe! Thank you so much for being God’s hands and feet in pulling it all together–it was clear that it was His doing and HE WAS THERE WITH US, but it only happened because you were willing to be the vessel! LOVE YOU!!!

Ashley - February 9, 2011 - 11:47 am

I am still processing this weekend as well. All I know is that I’m better for it!!! http://afr2007.blogspot.com/2011/02/created-for-care-retreat-2011.html

Kandra - February 9, 2011 - 12:27 pm

It was a powerful weekend and I am looking forward to next year already! I posted it on my blog…but I was really challenged by Beth T. in one of the breakout sessions. She spoke about parenting your child in the Spirit…anyone that attended and did not get to go to that session be sure to listen to it…OUTSTANDING! God has clearly given her the ability to speak to the heart of women! Thanks Andrea for being obedient to God’s call not only on your life…but specifically in the planning of this retreat!

http://www.blessedbentons.blogspot.com

Courtney - February 9, 2011 - 12:59 pm

Thank you for this amazing weekend! Such an encouraging, informative, challenging weekend for me-a first time mom! I blogged about it! http://www.addingastons.blogspot.com.

Amber - February 9, 2011 - 2:52 pm

I just posted one of several blog posts I plan to write about the retreat. It was so encouraging and refreshing. Looking forward to next year.

http://www.becomingafamilyoffive.blogspot.com

Natalie Teabo - February 9, 2011 - 9:10 pm

Can you see all these comments??Is God not AWESOME!!!
Here is mine I also http://theteabotribe.blogspot.com/2011/02/creat-to-care-2011.html

Loves to you girl!

Lauren - February 10, 2011 - 12:56 am

Such an amazing weekend. I’m amazed by the Lord completely showing up and speaking so loudly to so many of us. Thanks for taking the leap of faith to put it together.

Maria Davis - February 10, 2011 - 8:31 am

Thank you for following God’s leading for a weekend like this. I loved it and I still can’t come up with the words to express my time there.

Robyn Beall - February 10, 2011 - 11:02 am

Andrea, it was an amazing weekend! And timed so perfectly for me! I can’t wait until next year! I posted (what I could with four precious children running around) ๐Ÿ™‚ on my blog about the weekend http://www.bealladoptionjourney.blogspot.com
Time to go play in the snow – while it lasts! ๐Ÿ™‚

Erin Crenshaw - February 10, 2011 - 1:39 pm

Andrea! The retreat sounds absolutely incredible!!!!!! My heart just hurts when I read this b/c I wish I was there so badly! And, when I read that about what you said about orphans with HIV, it made me so emotional! It all resonated with my heart! We are waiting to bring home our little one with HIV, and I can’t stop thinking about him/her. I can’t wait to get him/her on the meds he/she needs…to hold him/her, love him/her, show him/her how special and loved he/she is! I never signed up to go on the retreat b/c we were already in the program and I assumed we would get a referral really quickly and that by Feb, we would be in travel-mode. But…we are still waiting!! Trusting in God’s perfect timing and sovereignty while LONGING for a little African baby to be in our arms!

Created for Care 2011…

Just coming up for a breather…and wanted to post the video we shared at the WELCOME on Friday night!!! Now this video just represents a few of the families there! It was an AMAZING weekend of learning, encouragement, worship and PURPOSE! More to come from the weekend…but by all means–feel free to share this on your blogs, Facebook and with friends and family…especially if you spot your sweet family in it too!!!

LOVE to you all…and already dreaming of Created for Care 2012!

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Elle J - February 7, 2011 - 5:11 pm

Beautiful video ~ the song could not have been any more perfect. =)

missy - February 7, 2011 - 5:38 pm

such a beautiful video. i know it was an amazing weekend. so wish i could have been there!!!!

MamaMimi - February 7, 2011 - 5:54 pm

Super cute video, great work Andrea! Sooo hope to be there with all my Seattle girls next year =) We’re already talking about it!

Jennifer - February 7, 2011 - 7:30 pm

A common theme I keep hearing…”I didn’t know about that. I would have gone!”. I keep having to explain that since it filled up right away, I didn’t advertise it!!! You struck a need!

Alison - February 7, 2011 - 7:54 pm

LOVED this weekend, Andrea! It was so amazing!! Thank you so much for everything that you and your friends did for us! You are precious!!

Gisele Brown - February 7, 2011 - 8:51 pm

Since we were late arriving, I missed this- so thank you for posting it!!! What a fabulous weekend!! God is so good :).

Audrey Brown - February 7, 2011 - 8:59 pm

Thank you so much for following God and creating this event. It was such a blessing to me!

Angela - February 7, 2011 - 10:49 pm

Andrea, this weekend was SUCH a blessing to me. You and your team did an incredible job focusing on 250 mommas’ hearts! THANK YOU!

Kim - February 8, 2011 - 4:45 am

The video is just beautiful.
Wish I had been there to soak up all your love, joy, and wisdom.
Blessings from Hong Kong,
Kim

Sarah - February 8, 2011 - 6:40 am

Amazing video!!! I wish so much I could have been there! But…. I heard you guys are going to do another one next year???? I will definitely be there! ๐Ÿ™‚

Heidi - February 8, 2011 - 2:06 pm

I SOOOO wish I could have been there!! I just can’t wait to join everyone next year it’s a must.. It sounded amazing and to you a big thank you for following God’s call to organize such a great event!!

Jill Gorman - February 8, 2011 - 7:08 pm

I was so blessed this weekend. Though I left emotionally, spiritually, and physically exhausted God reminded me, once again, that He has a wonderful plan for our family. Thank you, Andrea, for all you did to make this weekend possible!

Amanda - February 8, 2011 - 8:38 pm

LoVe it! Can’t wait to hear more!!!

Caytie - February 8, 2011 - 9:11 pm

Oh what a great video!! How I wished I could have been there, but it sounds like you all had an AMAZING time:) Next year I will be there, Lord willing! hugs

Psalm 84…a few thoughts on this powerful psalm…

Well, it’s here. After four months of planning, the Created for Care adoption momma retreat is here. I wish I could tell you every thing the Lord has in store–but I only know a taste of it. And what I do know–I am humbed and amazed by. There are so many details that the Lord has so obviously ordained–and watching Him work has been nothing short of a miracle. Of course I believe in Him and I believe Him…He is who He says He is—but oh my…in these last few months–as He has clearly orchestrated this weekend–it is so evident where His heart stands in caring for little ones who need mommies and daddies to tuck them in at night…to tell them they are loved—and most importantly…that Jesus never left them–that He adores them and that when they look to Him for guidance…they will see His favor and faithfulness over and over and over again.

In praying and preparing for the retreat–I asked, “What Lord do you want these moms to know? What is your heart for them? What is it you want to see unfold for the weekend together? Why would you want 250 moms to fly here from across the country to be together…to be reminded of what??” I remember over and over His showing me Psalm 84. This is just a taste of what He has in store for us this weekend…

1 How lovely is your dwelling place,
LORD Almighty!
2 My soul yearns, even faints,
for the courts of the LORD;
my heart and my flesh cry out
for the living God.
3 Even the sparrow has found a home,
and the swallow a nest for herself,
where she may have her youngโ€”
a place near your altar,
LORD Almighty, my King and my God.
4 Blessed are those who dwell in your house;
they are ever praising you.

What does it mean to dwell?? To live. To stay. Permenantly. Does my soul LONG–and FAINT just to be near Him? Or do I get too busy in my own world that I forget how GOOD He really is? Oh–if you have never LONGED for the Savior…sweet friends–He really is SO good. If I sound crazy to you–I promise I’m not…He is just really REAL–and He is what life is all about. And how sweet it is to know His presence. And when you KNOW Him…truly your heart CRIES out just to be with Him…to experience more of Him. And truly–there is something about the adoption journey that allows you to see more of Him. When you are called to this journey for His sake–and not for your own sake–I promise you experience His greatness in a whole new way. Once in my life I have heard my God speak audibly…and it was during a very deep time of discouragement on our adoption journey to our son. It was loud–it was clear…it was even scary–but in a fearful, good way…and oh so reassuring. And while I know that might sound crazy to many of you–God is able to do all things…speaking audibly is quite easy for my God–but something He rarely does in our day…I guess so we will have faith without hearing or seeing. What He said was precious to me and sacred–and those words have encouraged me to be a voice and never give up on being a voice for the voiceless…truly this is His heart. Oh…to LONG for Him–to KNOW Him…to believe Him. THIS is what life is about. Seeking to know Him deeply–this is ONE thing you will never regret.

And who does this psalm say He provides a home even for? The sparrow. And if He cares for the birds of the field…how much MORE does He care for you? It is His desire for the homeless to have homes…the fatherless to have fathers…the barren to have babes…and for many–this will happen through the miracle of adoption. I also believe that He desires to raise up Christian families to open their hearts to these children–for the gospel’s sake–that they will one day know Him.

Where does this psalm say the swallow’s nest where she will raise her young is? Near what? Near His alter. Near a place she can leave her burdens, her fears…unknowns…hurt…worries…and give those to her Creator–and trust all of those things into His care. So close to Him where she will see Him…daily–and ever be praising her King. Oh…is there any other place to raise our young? And it’s NEVER to late to start moving your sticks and building a nest–closer to Him. It’s never too late to come closer…

5 Blessed are those whose strength is in you,
whose hearts are set on pilgrimage.
6 As they pass through the Valley of Baka,
they make it a place of springs;
the autumn rains also cover it with pools.
7 They go from strength to strength,
till each appears before God in Zion.

And the journeys the Lord calls you on as you stay ever close to Him will NOT be easy. They just won’t. In fact, some times they will look impossible to the world. YET–He is faithful. And when He comes through–it will be HIM that gets the glory. BLESSED is the mom whose strength is in you–and whose heart is DETERMINED to be on her journeys for His sake…for His business. As they pass through the valley of Baca–which means WEEPING…not IF they pass through the valley of weeping but AS…and WHEN they pass through the valley of weeping. It won’t be easy. Sure–you can build your nest farther away from Him–and in this world it WILL SEEM easier, but oh how looks can be deceiving…and really–that is what it will be. Close to Him will some times look and seem harder–but OH HOW BLESSED you will be!!! And AS YOU WALK THROUGH THE VALLEY OF WEEPING–WHAT WILL YOU WHO CALL UPON HIS NAME DO???

You will make it a place of springs…of fruitfulness…of LIFE. Some of you will be helping little ones heal. Some of you will sacrifice the “normal American life” to have more children…to care for families called to care for more…to pass up vacations to help fund others needs. BUT in your obedience to the One you have planted your nest ever so close to–you will turn weeping into dancing…and there will be Life. And you will go from STRENGTH to STRENGTH until you stand before Him. NOW…is that any way to live here? Oh–yes, indeed!

8 Hear my prayer, LORD God Almighty;
listen to me, God of Jacob.
9 Look on our shield, O God;
look with favor on your anointed one.

10 Better is one day in your courts
than a thousand elsewhere;
I would rather be a doorkeeper in the house of my God
than dwell in the tents of the wicked.
11 For the LORD God is a sun and shield;
the LORD bestows favor and honor;
no good thing does he withhold
from those whose walk is blameless.

TRULY better is one day with Jesus than a thousand else where. And as I read this–I thought about sitting on a front porch with Jesus inside. How THAT would be a better place to be than any where he was not. Just to be close by–oh how sweet! YET–He opens the door and invites us to experience His fullness!!! To LIVE in His presence…to raise our young with His guidance…and to even sacrifice our time, our idea of the “ideal”…and to make our lives about His purpose for His children and His glory. He will be your sun and guide you. He will be your shield and protect you. AND NO GOOD THING will He withhold from those whose walk is blameless. In other words–YOU CAN TRUST HIM!

12 LORD Almighty,
blessed is the one who trusts in you.

And that…is just a taste of what I believe He wants these 250 moms to know. I’m dying to know what else He has on His heart…and I’m just honored to be there…

Please keep this weekend in your prayers…and pray for safetly for those traveling to join us. May you experience His presence in new and real ways as you trust more in Him…

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Bonnie Nieuwstraten - February 4, 2011 - 12:34 am

OH MY GOODNESS!! I am so tired and should be in bed, but just decided to peek to see if you had anything last minute before the retreat. I cannot believe the Lord has given you that Psalm. Just this week I was meditating on that. It has all new meaning for me, a weary mom, these days. I am SO looking forward to meeting you. Thank you for all that you’ve put into this retreat!!

Elle J - February 4, 2011 - 12:39 am

I will continue to pray for this glorious weekend that He so perfectly orchestrated through beautiful women that Care to be the hands and feet of Jesus – to spread His word, to encourage, to love, to never give up. Loving you ….

Kim - February 4, 2011 - 4:45 am

Oh how beautiful. And oh how I wish I was going to be in attendance.
Instead, you can count on my faithful prayers for all of the retreat Mommas.
Love & Blessings from Hong Kong,
Kim

Christy - February 4, 2011 - 6:49 am

oh such sweet true words. Thank you for sharing and for living them out. Praying for you this weekend too!

Makenzie - February 4, 2011 - 6:56 am

Thank you for these words, Andrea! I cannot wait to be with other like-minded mamas this weekend!

Angie Donaldson - February 4, 2011 - 10:18 am

So excited for all HE is doing!!! Please let me know if/how I can order CD’s if that is an option. Praying for all the details and all the hearts that will be there!
~Angie Donaldson
P.S. LOVE the part about it not being too late to pickup your sticks and move them closer…great visual!

Renae - February 4, 2011 - 1:57 pm

Oh how I needed this today! Thank you SO much for your encouraging words! Wish I could be there:)!

Jill Dupras - February 4, 2011 - 3:43 pm

after reading this post it makes me even sadder that i won’t be able to be there this weekend, but you will all be in my prayers. i know it will be a blessing to those who go and next year, after my little ones have been home for a while, i will be able to attend what will hopefully be an annual event. your words or more importantly God’s word blessed me today.

Christy - February 5, 2011 - 10:49 pm

Thanks so much for sharing this. A friend of mine told me about your blog. We are in the homestudy phase of adopting from Ethiopia. I really needed to read your words and even more the Word that you shared. Thank you. I pray your retreat is wonderfully refreshing and full of Him!

Erin Crenshaw - February 6, 2011 - 2:59 pm

I have been praying for you all this weekend! I really wish I could have been there! Let me know if I can order any CDs! I would love that! I love what you wrote about Ps. 84. It was so encouraging to me, as I have been discouraged this week with the journey! And, just this morning my kids and I were belting out “Better is one Day….” So, I loved reading this! God is so sweet and so intentional to us.

Gisele Brown - February 7, 2011 - 10:45 am

I pray the Lord blesses you a million-fold Andrea for creating the opportunity for all of us ladies to gather and be refreshed and informed this past weekend! As testimonies were being shared…I realized just how life-changing this weekend was! So many received fresh revelation of how much they are dearly loved by the Father. That alone is HUGE!!! I came away with fresh hope, a new parenting focus, a greater understanding of my precious daughter, and revelation from the Lord showing me more of who I am in Him! All that and more in about 2 days :). God is amazing!! It was so fun rooming with you and getting to know you a bit better too!!

May the Lord truly bless you my new friend!!

Dishwasher chalkboard:)

SOOO…I got bored for about 3 minutes today;) and got out a can of blackboard spraypaint…

Don’t you want to know what that is that I spraypainted??

WELL…Rico Suave and I have a strict “if it’s not broken we don’t fix it” policy we live by. Really, it’s just practical. SOOO…every appliance in our home is the appliance that came with our home. Some are louder than others–and the dishwasher is an old white thing that shows all kind of residue from sticky fingers. SOOO…I slid the white cover right off the dishwasher—and simply spraypainted it in seriously 3 minutes in the garage. (You can buy a can at most art supply stores–I bought mine from Dick Blick Art Supplies–and I believe Home Depot also carries it).

SOOO…now—we have this…

We love our appliances because they work:). And I love them because they are old enough to spray paint and create character and kid-friendly fun with too.

Soooo…there’s your easy fun for the day. Seriously–can you imagine what Rico Suave thinks when he comes home and I have crazy projects done like this almost daily? I love that it rolls with most anything I do:).

I wrote a really long post on “why we adopt” tonight–but I decided I’m going to wait and post it another day. Still collecting my thoughts WHY we adopt. I will say this–for us it has nothing to do with infertility, pity, rescue from poverty or famine or many other things you may think drew us to grow our family in that way. Instead–it has everything to do with the gospel ALONE. Sure–those things show you different NEEDS–but those needs CAN be met in different ways other than adoption of course. It has to be for MORE than that and NOT for just that. If and when we ever adopt again–it truly doesn’t matter if our baby is from Africa or Beverly Hills–because for us…it really is just about the gospel. We believe it is God’s heart that every one of His sweet children know Him. And I believe it would bring Him glory and pleasure to see His children–no matter their race, poverty level, birth country, etc–be raised in homes where they would grow up learning to listen for and love Jesus. It is not the easy road to grow your family from broken backgrounds–but we serve the God of miracles and healing…and we believe through adoption many children may have the chance to know Him as Christian families follow God in growing their families this way. Sure as believers we share His love to children in Sunday school class, at the pool in the summer and at the park with friends…but to share Jesus in our homes and to tuck a child into bed each night telling them how much they are valued and loved…not only by us but by their Creator…to remind them God has a plan and purpose for their life and we are just here to love them and cheer them on to furfill that grand calling JUST for them…to speak Truth into their hearts and lives…and then to set them out to be disciples throughout the world–and to see HIM do all the work and merely use us as vessels for His glory…this has to be the motivation for us…the gospel alone.

It’s trusting HIM to provide the nests for even the swallow–and that He who cares for the birds cares SO MUCH MORE for His children. And remembering where He desires us as parents–to STAY as we raise our children…every so close to Him. Not just at the door…or in His courts…but RIGHT by His side.


Psalm 84:1-4
1 How lovely is your dwelling place,
LORD Almighty!
2 My soul yearns, even faints,
for the courts of the LORD;
my heart and my flesh cry out
for the living God.
3 Even the sparrow has found a home,
and the swallow a nest for herself,
where she may have her youngโ€”
a place near your altar,
LORD Almighty, my King and my God.
4 Blessed are those who dwell in your house;
they are ever praising you.

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kristi johnson - February 3, 2011 - 12:55 am

i love the chalkboard dishwasher…so right up my alley…so fun, kj

Lara - February 3, 2011 - 8:24 am

I really want to know what kind of drugs you’re taking and get some of those! Is it that 5 Hour Energy? Lots of coffee? Speed? Because I wouldn’t have the creative energy to do something like that on a normal day, let alone TWO DAYS BEFORE HOSTING 250 WOMEN!! You’re nuts. Love you for it.

Can’t wait to read that adoption post. It sounds like a lot of what we’ve been talking about.

SEE YOU TOMORROW!

Stephanie - February 3, 2011 - 8:41 am

Andrea, I can’t believe you have the time and energy to do all you do! I have 2 kids and I don’t do half of what you do! (I’m thinking you’re a very organized person and I’m not, but I’m working on it!) Have fun at your retreat!

Brantley Freeman - February 3, 2011 - 8:51 am

How fun is that! You come up with the cutest ideas and crafts for your kids! I hope I can be as fun as you are with my own as they grow up! Love the idea… just might have to try it! ๐Ÿ™‚

Christy - February 3, 2011 - 9:22 am

BEAUTIFUL! You are amazing and God must gift you incredible amounts of energy. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on why you adopt, and I can’t wait to read the post! ๐Ÿ™‚ Praying for your retreat this weekend! Hope I get the opportunity to meet you in person someday too! ๐Ÿ™‚

Lauren - February 3, 2011 - 9:31 am

I love this!!!! We have a bit of an eye sore dishwasher and I’m thinking this is a PERFECT idea!! Tucker’s not old enough to play with it yet, but I’m sure the time will fly when he gets home! ๐Ÿ™‚

Have a GREAT time at the retreat!!! We’re leaving on Wednesday to GO GET OUR BOY!!!!! :):)

megan - February 3, 2011 - 9:58 am

i came to your site from Lara posting on FB. looking forward to getting to know you more and read what you have to share. Thanks for the thought-provoking read this morning. I quoted you in a blog post. Hope you don’t mind!

Renae - February 3, 2011 - 10:20 am

Thanks so much for putting into words WHY we adopt…even though you haven’t “posted” it yet;)! And your creativity ROCKS!! Especially to those of us who were deprived of that particular gene!

Esty - February 3, 2011 - 11:28 am

Andrea,
you are. Ridiculous. Shesh. What a wonder you are!!! Spraypainting. Unbelievable. Anything you CAN”T do? If you need a giggle, check out my blog for a second to see how my loving Hub describes this weekend coming up.
Personally, I can’t WAIT!!! xoxox Esty

Amanda F. - February 3, 2011 - 11:42 am

LOVE this idea!!!! I HAVE to do it! Thank you! ๐Ÿ™‚

Dawn - February 3, 2011 - 12:42 pm

Love your project ๐Ÿ™‚
And love your thoughts on adoption….can’t wait to hear more ๐Ÿ™‚

Alison - February 3, 2011 - 2:30 pm

Love, love, love the chalkboard dishwasher!!! SO cute!! Can’t wait for the weekend!! Praying we make it even through the ice storm!! ๐Ÿ™‚

Sandi - February 3, 2011 - 5:02 pm

What a fabulous idea! We are all about using something in a “new” & exciting way for the kiddos. Seriously looking forward to the post because I have found it difficult to explain just how deeply moved by God’s word I have been in regards to orphans. God definitely changes the hearts of those he prepares to care for the fatherless in whatever way he chooses. Praying for SUN to melt the ice & safe travel for all!

rachel - February 3, 2011 - 7:23 pm

you are hilarious…i want some of your energy dear!!!!!

Sarah - February 3, 2011 - 9:05 pm

I am excited to hear more of your thoughts on why you all adopted and I am loving the dishwasher!

I have never commented but have enjoyed your blog for many months!

Jenny - February 3, 2011 - 10:08 pm

Absolutely LOVE your dishwasher:) but then again I love everything “Andrea” ๐Ÿ™‚

Praying for you sweet friend as you prepare for this weekend. Oh how I wish I could be there.

Julie W - February 4, 2011 - 12:45 am

So fun!!! I downloaded your Lent tree docs and we’ve been out collecting our ornaments. I’m so excited about doing that this year with the littles. Have a great weekend, I can’t wait to hear all about the retreat!

marci - February 4, 2011 - 10:39 pm

SO sweet ! Blessings for your retreat. Pax,m

MamaMimi - February 7, 2011 - 5:56 pm

What a GREAT idea! {P.S. ours is loud too…although its pretty new…boo!}

The God of Wonders… (Compass in My Heart – Christie Cotney)

I’ve been wanting to write THIS post for over a year now. Finally–tonight I write it. And I’m not sure how it will turn out…because there is so much I would like to say about this girl…

Some of you may have heard of her…or read her blog “Compass to my Heart”. Her name is Christie Cotney…very soon-to-be Magera…as she has met her beau–but that’s not the beginning of this beautiful story. And while my part in it is very microscopic–I am honored to call her a friend and to be a part of it.

Christie and I are from the same hometown. We went to high school together…only if you would have looked into our lives 15 years ago–you would have never guessed we’d be doing what we were doing now. For one, neither of us knew Jesus. And two…only our high school friends reading this are smiling…because well–you’d never peg either of us as the “mission trip” type…the skipping school and knows where a 17 year old can buy a keg type–yes. I began my walk with the Lord just after graduating from high school at the age of 18 years…and I wouldn’t run across Christie’s face again until 15 years later on Facebook. Never underestimate how God can use you…or where He might choose to.

Christie and I started messaging one another through Facebook in the Fall of 2009. I would encourage her as she had recently lost her job–and the crazy girl was selling kids clothes on the side to make rent. I stocked up on cute little outfits for Laney through her…and more dialogue between us took place. At the same time we had just gotten on the waitlist for our Isaac–and she began encouraging me in our wait…and she would get SO excited for us. She also started doing that blog hop thing we all do on adoption blogs especially…from blog to blog to blog to blog. I remember us talking about her reading Kisses by Katie and being a friend on the outside looking in…I KNEW.

I knew that she had more than just a wonder. I knew that her heart was being softened. And I could see our Great God begin to call her to Himself. She didn’t know it yet though…but looking back now–it was beautiful.

Christmas came and went–and she was still looking for a job…she was asking me to pray for her–and she was getting desperate…but she didn’t know really for what yet. THEN one night I couldn’t sleep. I got on Facebook to see she had emailed me…and for hours and hours and hours and hours—back and forth into the wee hours of the night we dialogued. About life. About pain. About the past. And I learned more about this beautiful girl that night than probably most of her dearest friends know. And I saw a beautiful creation. I also saw a little girl–who despereatly needed a Savior. She was pure. She innocent. And I saw her as God saw her…because she had met Jesus—and she was a new creation in him. The first of January 2010…would be her year. The beginning of a life with him.

Christie wanted to start her year fresh…so she asked to sponsor one of our Wiphan kids–Moses. Without a job…she said she’d sell more clothes to be able to pay for his sponsorship. I wasn’t sure if it was the smart thing for her to do–but I could see the smart thing for me to do was be quiet…and let her heart lead. While I thought she’d spend the year brainstorming ways to support Moses…she instead started brainstorming how she could be used–already without a job…to serve her new found King.

Months passed and I watched Christie grow in her love relationship with her Savior. I was thankful when she started attending David Platt’s church…but with her already radical spirit–I took a front row seat and smiled as I watched her want to do more for His glory. Christie’s facebook statuses were daily filled with what she was learning–they were challenging…some times convicting…and some times just her crazy self.

Spring came and went–and Christie began looking for mission trips to go on…Haiti? Zambia? Uganda??? ANY where??? But she had a hard time finding the right fit–and the funds to go. But she kept selling those clothes AND she moved in her sister Melinda’s basement to save money…which we all thoroughly enjoyed those Facebook statuses about her niece and dog…two things Christie is also passionate about. And then–a trip opened up…for her to travel to Uganda…and she was off.

Some may say she wasn’t ready–I mean, I know organizations that require mission trip go-ers to be believers for a certain number of years before going…but I just loved that she took off. Call me crazy, but isn’t that how Jesus called his disciples? I mean, I get what some of you will say–that we need to be trained to train…but OH to love? We just need Christ. HE IS ENOUGH. Drop your nets. “Come, follow me,” Jesus said, “and I will make you fishers of men.” And–so she did.

Christie spent much of her summer helping with Bugaboo village in Bombo, Uganda. She kept us all updated…with her humor and more importantly with her heart. Many of her Facebook friends would get annoyed with her comments (it was eye-opening to see not everyone love to hear the day to day miracles…but not everyone will love His work or those passionate about it). I was so proud of how she handled criticism in her first months as a believer–she continously turned to what was TRUE and to her calling. And I–I couldn’t help but be amazed. Because…you see, just six months earlier I saw a transformed heart unfold…and I know her story–and her tender heart. It bleeds for others…and when she came back to the states…she only lasted a few months here…realizing this was not her home. She was made to serve and to love the people of Uganda–and the compass of her heart points to her Creator…and for her–she has been called to Uganda.

The amazing thing is–she is faithfully following. No time to set up a “non-profit”…she thought Jesus was enough and she is trusting Him to provide. Oh…how often I have such little faith. YET this new sister in Christ had faith to move mountains.

Even now in Uganda, Christie has made a “faith list” for their ministry. A list she is trusting the Lord to provide…

Borehole – $9,000 FULLY FUNDED! PRAISE GOD!!! (an amazing must read story on her blog!)
Electricity (for entire school property) – $4,500
Teacher’s Units (4) – $14,000
Refuge Units (2) – $10,000
4×4 Van – $12,000
School Kitchen – $2,000
Finishing our home – $2,000
Soccer Team – $500+

If you would like to give—and be a part of what God is doing through this sister-in-Christ…you can go to her blog Compass In My Heart . If you learned about her story through my blog–tell her I sent you…and if you give–until she is an established non-profit you won’t get a tax deduction either by the way. Sadly–some of us care about that. And it will stop some from giving. BUT Jesus said “store up your treasures in heaven” and “But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing”…so I think there is nothing sweeter or meaningful or precious than giving where credit on this Earth will not be returned in any way. Yes–it’s hard for us…and some times unheard of…BUT so is becoming a believer and packing up and following God to Uganda in the same year too. We serve the God of wonders–everything He calls you to won’t make sense in this world…but IT WILL BE WORTH IT. Will you prayerfully consider joining Christie? No, you don’t have to pick up and move there. She has moved her world to Uganda because He called her…but others will be called to help right where they are. Will you prayerfully consider joining her financially…by giving up one thing this month and instead use that money to go toward something on her faith list?

And in the mean time–add her blog to your blog “must read” list too. I have seen more miracles through this girl in one year–and her story is one that I just can’t not be a part of. She also recently got engaged to her side-kick ministry partner George–a godly Ugandan man…so to say Christie isn’t coming home is not true. CHRISTIE IS HOME. And there is not other place she’d rather be.

Thank you Christie for never giving up during the hard times in your life…for not letting others distroy your spirit…and for loving unconditionally THE WORLD even before you knew Him. It is an honor to be your friend…and to have a microscopic small part in your story. When I’m old and grey…and in a rocking chair thinking about moments I treasure…those 3am emails will be one of them. I love seeing Christ in you. Your life WAS day-in-day-out traffic…and NOW–you are pumping water, dressing wounds, being a mother to many and being the hands of Jesus in a way few of us will ever experience. How thankful we are for your heart and your obedience. Thank you for being a light…and for having the courage to go.

To those of you encouraged by Christie’s story…Never underestimate how God may use your past friendships and your time investing in them for His glory. Never underestimate how He can use you if you are just now getting to know Him. He is the God of wonders…and He can move mountains through those who trust in Him.

Praying for you Christie as you move mountains in lives of Ugandans for His glory…I pray that He raises up a multitude to join you through giving. To read more go to http://compassinmyheart.blogspot.com

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Emily Houser - February 2, 2011 - 12:51 am

Tears are flowing down my face…all I can do is cry..and praise God. Oh to be even a tiny piece of this incredible story..written by God…

Lara - February 2, 2011 - 8:47 am

I am so glad you gave her back story! I am FB friends with Christie, and I’ve always wanted to know more specfics about her and what she’s doing. Beautiful!
PS- it sounds like you and I would have been great friends in high school ๐Ÿ™‚

Darcy - February 2, 2011 - 8:53 am

A beautiful post about an incredibly beautiful woman. My life is better because I know Christie. I can’t wait to see what God is going to do through her and George!

Elle J - February 2, 2011 - 9:40 am

Beautiful post, Andrea, of a woman who is so inspirational to me and so many others. I “found her” through you in May ’10 when I was so touched about reading the first post about her (on your blog) that I immediately private msg’d her on FB and we became friends. You said it so perfectly above, I won’t repeat =) but I say it a lot … she is the real-deal … a true example of being the Hands and Feet of Jesus. I-heart-you-both!

Kristi - February 2, 2011 - 12:21 pm

I just recently “met” Christie on facebook through my little sister and I must say God has certainly blessed me by making her a small part of her life as well! This is one AMAZING woman doing things most of us can’t even fathom! I’m glad you took the time to write about her and the work God is doing through her! I pray that more and more friends and friends of friends read her story, learn of what she’s doing and feel drawn to be a part of it all as well! Bless you, Bless Christie and bless the precious people of Bugabo Village!

Renea - February 2, 2011 - 12:38 pm

What I’m lovin’ even more is how my life has become intertwined with so many of you that are so far away from me…..and then finding out you are all friends! =) Have followed you for over a year now, started following Christie in November. Can’t even remember how I found her! That’s the fun and ironic part… And then to discover we have a mutual friend in you girl. I love how HE fills my life with such blessings in friends that I have yet to meet. Feel honored and blessed to be a part of what Christie is doing in Bugabo. Can’t wait to see pictures of that Borehole being dug today!!! โ™ฅ God is good! He STILL moves mountains!

Dawn - February 2, 2011 - 2:39 pm

LOVE her heart!!! She amazes me at the depth of her faith. Love reading her story….started following this past summer…..and loved to see how God provided EVERYTHING!!! Another time when God just blows you away!

Beth - February 2, 2011 - 2:44 pm

I became a “friend” of Christy through facebook this past year and have loved following her story and seeing her ministry unfold! Thank you for sharing her story here!

Emily - February 2, 2011 - 9:34 pm

OH Andrea!! You know how I love you and Christie both!! My heart melts and I have enough tears just reading your blogs most of the time but you writing this…. oh my!!! They are streaming now!! Love you guys, this was/is beautiful!!

Kristin - February 3, 2011 - 11:25 am

I am reading this and my heart is full. I have to say, that in recent months, I have been amazed at how God has worked through some of my high school classmates. I have connected to you and Christie through Katie’s blog and I must say that I have been amazed at how God has worked through you guys. You have encouraged me in my walk beyond words. You guys encourage to take risks that would normally take me months to mull over. You guys teach me to trust God to in ways I never have before. I just recently wrote about Christie as well because she just blows my mind…so with all that said. Thank you to you and them for sharing your journeys because it means more than you know.

MamaMimi - February 7, 2011 - 6:00 pm

Wow, I didn’t know her story. Thanks for sharing!