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Sunday

We started our day at church…a service which was a good 4-5 hours long. We danced…we sang…we worshipped. And I held back tears.

I saw him before we walked into church. He was standing outside…around the same age as my older children at home…maybe just 5 or 6. It was apparent he had scabies when I saw him. He wouldn’t come in church with us. He just sat outside. He caught my eye as we sat there and worshipped. I am sure this boy is who Jesus would have been sitting with–but even in his own community…he has to sit outside the church door and listen. He sat there smiling at me…and waving. His smile–took my breath away. SMILING. Full of joy. Sitting outside the church listen intently. And I held back tears.

The preacher called for the people to come forward and bring the offering. They worshiped. They sang…and they brought forth offerings. I’m quite sure it was more than they could almost bear to part with–but they did so joyfully. Almost every widow–young and old…children of all ages…came forward and brought something to the basket. Something I never see in our churches in America. I held back tears…as they JOYFULLY gave. These who have nothing–gave with joyful hearts. Bless them. How they gave.

She danced and sang…a widow. Jesus. You’re my Redeemer. Jesus…you are mine. She sang so beautifully with all she had. Smiling. Looking up toward the heavens. Then she hit her knees and asked us in her song if we knew Him. I am sure she knows Him. And He knows her. Watching her sing…I held back tears.

We left church to go to the compound. For hours we walked through the compound…from house to house. Christy visited her sponsored child Innocent. She amazingly loved on him and his family. He lives with his mom and his grandparents. He sleeps at his grandparents house because there is not room for him to sleep with his mom and his cousin who is just 2 years old at his house. He wants to be an accountant when he grows just like Christy and Brad. He would love to have a watch one day…so he can get to school on time. He also said he would love to eat an orange–but it’s around 20 cents…costs too much. His requests so sweet and simple. I held back tears.

We walked a couple miles to Beatrice’s home. Beatrice is the little girl Richard and I sponsor. She is in the 6th grade…3rd in her class. Her mom has 7 children. Only 4 live with her. The other 3 live in the village because they are teens. Three of the 4 that live with her are her biological children–the other is her nephew. Her sister died in the compound while giving birth. Beatrice is a beautiful girl. She wants to be an English teacher when she grows up…just like I was. She smiled as she told me…I held back tears.

We went on to visit widows…and play with children. We loved on them. Heard their stories. Sat in their mud homes. Learned some Bembe language. And I’m doing pretty good–holding back tears. Today has been a good day. So much more to say…and so much more I want to say–but I have no words for what my heart is really feeling…and I’m afraid if I say it all right now…you know what will happen;)

It is a joy to be here. I love it here. I miss my children terribly. A good thing Richard and the kids aren’t here with me…because not sure if we’d be able to leave;).

Until tomorrow…

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Elle J - July 17, 2011 - 12:34 pm

We’ve been praying and thinking of you – what a beautiful journey you are experiencing and sharing. Blessings to all of you and ALL those you connect with in Zambia.

Christy - July 17, 2011 - 2:30 pm

Oh Andrea, what a beautiful adventure you are having and what an incredible way GOd is using you! SO wish I could be there too! 🙂 Praying for you!

amy - July 17, 2011 - 2:37 pm

I have just come across your blog and I am lifting you up in prayer. My daughter and I recently returned from South Africa and she told people that if her daddy and brothers were there she would have stayed. I agree:) Love hearing your stories.
amy

Jodi weelborg - July 17, 2011 - 3:26 pm

Thank you for sharing your beautiful journey. I am holding back tears as I read your adventure! Praying for you!

missy - July 17, 2011 - 4:57 pm

i can’t imagine how incredible that service must have been!!! it’s funny to think of how people in the states would react to a 4 or 5 hour service. i know your heart must have been overflowing to be with sweet beatrice. what an amazing opportunity you have to be there!

Alison - July 17, 2011 - 7:09 pm

PRECIOUS!!! Love hearing the stories and seeing their beautiful faces! Praying for ya’ll!!!

mitzi - July 17, 2011 - 9:49 pm

beautiful. my heart just beats for these people! And yes… it is honestly the ultimate feeling knowing we can go… and ALL be together as a family there. it is good. I love you and am praying this week God uses you all to serve your widows and sweet kids well… love you.

Meredith - July 18, 2011 - 3:57 pm

Beautiful!! Thank you for sharing! I can’t wait to read more.

Bobi Bobbitt - July 18, 2011 - 10:41 pm

Just amazing, Andrea!! I know God is using you in a mighty way! You are such an inspiration to me! (:

We are in Ndola, Zambia!

Just wanted to let y’all know we made it safely to Ndola today around lunch time.

We pretty much went straight to the school to see the widows program. They had a graduation ceremony where 15 ladies graduated in the hospitality program (cleaning/hotel work)–and the AMAZING news is…ALL 15 now have JOBS!!! There were 30 additional graduates in jewelry making. There were tears, dancing and lots of celebrating. A BIG DEAL for these woman!!! We heard testimonies of where some of the women were before Wiphan–and had a time of singing…and of course more dancing:) (Video to come upon our return for sure…I broke it down with the ladies)

We spent time with some of the kids and then just had dinner with the Wiphan Zambia staff.

THEN…silly ole me–shed a tear (or twenty)–because I miss Richard and my babies SO MUCH!!!

Tomorrow we are having church with the community–and I’m super excited for Monday to get here to see all the children at school. SO ready to see them and give lots of more hugs! We took a gazillon pictures today–hope to download those after church and upload some to share. Still trying to adjust to time change–determined to kick it tonight.

Our team is doing GREAT. It was so fun to watch their faces today as the ladies welcomed them and sang for them. Such a powerful experience…and so fun to watch others experience it for the first time! It is so good to be here…God is all over Wiphan ministry–and I’m just so humbled to be a part of it!

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mitzi - July 17, 2011 - 8:27 am

YAY! I’m stalking your blog like a …. stalker. 😉 Praying for your team and all you come in contact with… and praying today ROCKED at church and that you get some good sound sleep! love you friend!

Safely in Africa! {Ndola, Zambia bound tomorrow}

We just got in…and I’m about to CRASH!!! I’m roomies with Christina Boyce…another fun adoption momma! (Her baby girl and my baby boy are from the SAME orphanage through AGCI in Ethiopia! How cool is it we are serving in Zambia together AND roommies!!!)

We got in to J-burg South Africa just a few hours ago. We’ll sleep here tonight, get up at 6am and take off for Ndola, Zambia at 9am–arriving there around noon.

Can’t WAIT to give HUNDREDS of hugs tomorrow to the children and widows!!! This trip is going to be AMAAAAAAZZZZZIIIINNNNGGG!!!!

P.S. Thank you for keeping us in your prayers! Everyone is well and our team is getting to know one another and all is well. No sicknesses on the flights over. We are going to all rest up tonight and ready for an amazing week and a half ahead of us!!!!!! Peace out. Momma needs to sleep:)

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Alison - July 15, 2011 - 4:40 pm

YAY! So glad ya’ll are there safe and sound! Praying!!!

Julie Johnston - July 15, 2011 - 7:07 pm

Glad you are well! Can’t wait to hear what the Lord does this week. Hug those sweet kiddos for me!

HOPE AT HOME 2011 CONFERENCE, SEPTEMBER 23-24

HOPE AT HOME 2011 CONFERENCE, SEPTEMBER 23-24

One of the things I love about being a parent, and about talking about parenting, is that it is the most fertile ground I know of to work out the truth of the Gospel. It’s the real “rubber meets the road” stuff of life, don’t you think? And talk about daily! Never a day goes by where Stephen and I don’t need direct access to God’s power and His life-giving words to us or to our children. For me, there is little more exciting and challenging in this life than the realities of working out my faith in the life of our family. If the good news doesn’t “work” in our homes, if it is reserved for church services, Sunday school, and the occasional outreach event or mission trip, then we are missing something–big time. What a joy it has been for us to see God’s miracle working power in the lives of our children, right in front of our eyes!

Partnering with God

It has been this desire to partner with the Father to see orphans be transformed into sons and daughters right in our homes, that has opened our ears to hear God tell us that we needed to host a conference at our church, Northlands, here in Atlanta, GA. So, ever since last fall when we spoke with our church elders, we have been planning this event, and we have been praying for you.

Some of you may have heard Dr. Susan Hillis and Jenni Means share at Created for Care in February, or attended a breakout that I led, or maybe enjoyed the Date with God that Jenni and her team made available. That weekend was a great joy for us and served to make us even more excited to have the opportunity to minister to you and your husbands. We are so thankful to God for our friendship with Andrea!

A Word From Susan Hillis:

When we began to respond to the Lord’s call to our family to adoption, we found ourselves in unchartered territory in spite of a dozen years of parenting experience. As the Lord began to pour out this adoption call for older kids to many parents in our church, it only seemed natural that a special Sunday School class be dedicated to bicultural kids and American kids who were their friends! So I ended up teaching such a class of 30 kids grades 1 to 8, for several years — the real ministry of this class was in the informal conversations of the moms and dads, accompanied by prayer and practical help, each Sunday as they would come to pick up their kids. “Have you had any challenges with discipline? What about disobedience or anger? What about how to help them with school? What about how to help faith and the Lord be real to them? etc.” It was those ‘in the hall chats’ and prayer, that often led to the greatest peace in our home and in the homes of many of those kids who were in the class. I feel excited just thinking of the Hope at Home conference at our church in September, because I think it will condense and pass along the Lord’s wisdom, gleaned through over a decade of countless hall conversations and prayer, along with deeper connections to the Lord and deeper connections to other parents with the same call.

A Time of Refreshing

Susan Hillis and I, along with others (including Andrea and Richard!) whose hearts are full with the desire to serve adoptive and foster parents, are so excited to have the opportunity to meet you and to come along side you during HOPE AT HOME 2011, here in Atlanta, GA, September 23-24.

We see HOPE AT HOME 2011 as a time of refreshing for both husbands and wives as we encounter the Father’s heart for adoptive families. We are looking to God to fill our hearts with the HOPE that fills His heart.

We invite you to come and be transformed through the Lord’s refreshment as we:

1.Learn to find daily hope through our relationship with God

2. Encounter practical approaches to parenting according to our children’s identify and purpose

3. Connect with others through ministry and prayer

Some of the topics we will cover are:

Responding to Your Adopted Child’s Tough Questions

Nurturing Your Marriage Amidst Competing Demands

Establishing Peace in Your Home: Addressing Anger in You and Your Child Fathering Your Adopted Child

Creating Unity Among Siblings in Your Adoptive Family

Transforming an Orphan Spirit into a Spirit of Adoption

Loving Your Adopted Child Through Every Stage of Their Lives

The Beauty of Transracial Adoption

We are very interested in your thoughts on these things and would love to hear your ideas on how we can best minister to you as you love your children. We have a team of people committed to praying for you, so if there is something specific you would like us to be praying about even before the conference, please email us at hopeathome@northlandschurch.com.

Also, we’d love for you to visit us at our blog, where we share parenting advice, encouragement in the Lord, and stories of adoption told by both adopted and birth children from their perspective as young adults.

May your homes be FILLED WITH HOPE this day as you love each of your precious children, bringing them into the wholeness and healing that is their inheritance as a part of your family!

Beth Templeton and Susan Hills
for the HOPE AT HOME Team

Visit there blog: HOPE AT HOME BLOG Register to Attend: HOPE AT HOME CONFERENCE

P.S. A little note from Andrea: If you are an adoption family–do sign up to follow their blog! It is AMAZING! They regularly have their adopted children and even their biological kids write from their perspective! It has been so amazing to hear from them–and such an encouragement to the miraculous things the Lord does in and through our children as we follow Him on this amazing journey through growing our families through adoption. Y’all will be so blessed from everything they write! Hope some of y’all can come! We will be there!

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Off to Africa…

It’s finally here and we are off! You probably won’t hear from me in the next 48 hours…but I have someone who is going to post about this awesome adoption parenting weekend for both men and women coming up this September called “Hope for Home”. Then after that–I hope to be able to blog here and there to let y’all know all is well. Please pray that I don’t get bit by mosquitos or contract malaria…praying the deet does the job in warding off mosquitos!

I can’t WAIT to step foot on Africa soil. I’m sitting here thinking about all that God has done since our first trip to Zambia in 2007. I left just going to see the beginning of what would become a flourishing ministry–and this week I will see the schools and the children again. On that trip–the Lord put adoption in my heart…and I’m so excited to see what He has in store on, in and through this trip! There are 16 of us going–and I’m sure by the 25th of July, we’ll all be VBFF. Please pray for our travel, our protection and our fruitfulness while we are gone! The next time you hear from me I’ll be on the other side of the world! YAY!

Doesn’t this precious one just seem to be coming out of the screen like she needs a hug! Someone to tell her that she is remembered…she is valued…SHE IS LOVED. And in just a bit…I get the sweet honor to tell her and 450 orphans just like her…


Children of Wiphan – Photography by Shannon Holden of Shannon Holden Photography

Love eternal,

Andrea

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Georgia - July 14, 2011 - 12:54 am

Praying for safe travels for you and your companions. Also praying for your little ones at home (that they are ok w/out Momma).

Meredith - July 14, 2011 - 8:22 am

I’m praying for you and the precious children you will minister to in Africa.

Alison - July 14, 2011 - 2:06 pm

Praying for you and the team, Andrea!!!

mitzi - July 14, 2011 - 11:21 pm

thought and prayed for you a million times today!! Can’t wait to see what God’s got in store!!

Jenn - July 14, 2011 - 11:59 pm

Praying for safe travels and an amazing trip! I wish we could be on our way with you…hopefully soon! KISS and HUG those beautiful children…God surely has big things planned for your time there!